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writes: I've been dating a girl for almost a month now and I don't know if she wants us to have a serious relationship or not, she is giving me mixed signals. One minute she's dropping hints about me possibly moving in and living with her, the next minute she seems happy to not see me for 3-4 days at a time. I would like to see more of her but don't want her to think I'm desperate or that I've got nothing else better to do, what do you guys think I should do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, lifesgreat +, writes (19 November 2014):
mate If I had a girl after one month hinting that we could end up moving in with each other I wouldn't be happy.
but yeah with dating its hit and miss really , just keep it as something casual and see what else is a bout.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (17 November 2014):
At the first month one can only tell you what their intentions are but no one can be sure whether that long term person is you. I don't think she is necessarily giving you mixed signals. She is just considering future options, and not having the need to see you every day does not cancel her wish to be with you seriously. There is nothing you have to do but to keep on getting to know her better. You can ask her if she can see you more at the same time tell her you don't want her to think you are desperate.
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