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anonymous
writes:I'm 23 and have never been asked out. I'm smart, go to uni and actively participate in student organisations as well as take part in social work. I love having good discussions and always take genuine interest in listening to the person I'm talking to. I'm petite and I constantly get compliments about being pretty but I dont even think looks have anything to do with the fact that I have NEVER been asked out. Ok i get hit on by the guys who just wanted to get in my pants and would have hit on anyone else if I wasn't there at that time. But yes I get compliments from so many guys, yet they still wouldn't date me. I am extremely easy-going, fun, social and love going out. I can act crazy with people and have a pretty good sense of humour. I meet many people and just go with the flow but the fact remains that I never get a guy interested. I'm modest and humble at the same time; my parents have brought me up with etiquettes so I know how to act in different social settings. I'm trying to put myself out there, I do smile be friendly and approachable and talk easily so if a guy was interested, he would just approach me. I believe the guy is the one who have to ask out the girl. I believe if a guy cares enough, he will pursue me. However, no guy is ever interested in me. And some of my friends don't put themselves out there at all but still get male attention, and that makes me jealous.I used to believe that love will find me itself and when I least expect it but this belief has worn out after 5 years of nothing. I'm actually ok with that, surprisingly but I spend a lot of time wondering why it is that guys don't consider me dateable or girlfriend material. I don't even need a serious relationship, I used to be picky but I'm not anymore and if I find someone interesting then I would go for them. I have asked my friends whats wrong with me and they keep telling me nothing is but I have decided they probably just don't know what it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2014): Ask a guy out yourself! If you're as great as you make out, he may just agree to a date.
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