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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys,I have a guy friend, and he is a great friend. 4 years ago I liked him and we were together just 2 days, which is nothing. After a while we became really good friends. I was friend with benefits with his friend. All of this was fine. All until my friend starts hugging me, taking a really good care of me when we went on a holiday together, holds my hand, check if i ate well etc. And that summer is stopped being friends with benefits with his friend.So, then we kept on seeing each other, like hanging out as we used to (me and the friend), and he keeps on holding my hand, and I don't feel awkward, like i like it, he hugs me, we joke, we speak about everything, and so on.Could this mean more than friendship or no? Considering I had a thing with his best friend? I would really appreciate your opinion and advice.Thanks xx
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reader, RevMick +, writes (6 May 2014):
 Hi there,
It's really tricky going from friends to something more, you always worry if it would ruin the friendship.
Sometimes we are in love with the idea of love, or in love with the friend image of someone. However people change in relationships, almost as if there are two ego parts of the brain.
The friend brain, which he is in now, and the in relationship or boyfriend brain. If you are seriously considering taking it further I would try moving slowly and see if you are compatible relationship wise.
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