I like him so much but he isn't treating me right

A female age 30-35, *odyLeamcdowell writes:

Hi guys, this might be long. I met this guy at a charity football match I played with work. He was the referee and after a bit of flirting he asked for my number which I gave him. I probably shouldn't have as I had been seeing a football coach who always works at the same place but we wernt exclusive and I had not known him a short time. This was on a Saturday and he ended up calling me very early on the Monday morning, we texted all that day an ended up arranging to see a movie that night. We got on well but I didnt mention the other guy I had been spending time with. Anyway he texted me and rang me all the time, he picked me up from work one night and came in my house for a while during the week also. We arranged a date for Saturday but I had also planned for the other guy to come to mine. Long story short I went on the date which I enoyed, and the other guy was coming later on! I sound so bad here but I wernt with any of them not was I sleeping with them as I was a virgin. The other guy showed up before I was home and it was a mess. He was calling me which my date seen and it was obvious what I was doing but I told him I would no longer see the first guy and apologised he was okay after that and we carried on seeing each other and I slept with him. To make things even more complicated he asked me to get him a job in my work which I did. After this I was told he was in a relationship and had a baby he told me he did have a baby but had split up with the mum. He has now started acting weird, he only ever wants to see me for small amounts of time but always makes excuses like he's tired, he will never stay over as he says he doesn't like to do that! It seems to be more who is a lot more interested but whenever I try to end it he won't let me he will say ok when I say let's leave it but will always call me or text me later on and just act normal or say am I out of my mood now! And the fact I now work with him doesn't help I feel like I can't walk away because I like him so much but I know he isn't treating me right! What does he want from me? He has now said that he is playing games because of what I did at ye beginning but that was 2 months ago and he was fine for a while afterward! The reason I am writing this is because I just called him to ask if he wante. To come round later because I have the house to myself his reply "not a chance I'm tired" what can I do to move on? Please help

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