A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Dear CupidI am with my current bf for 4 years, for past 3 months we are in LDR as he has to work overseas.We had our ups and downs, nowadays we have more downs than ups. He is always calling me names or belittling me whenever possible, calling me stupid, fool, bitch....I try to reason with him, as he calling me fool all the time makes me feel very low and down. He is not apologizing and still calls me names. A week back he again called me fool for asking him when is he returning back, i got pissed off and dropped the call, its been week, and he hasnt contacted me yet. What should i do now, should i wait for his call or is it over. Please help me
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female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (19 June 2014):
Start playing some great breakup type of music and ROCK OUT! "I Will Survive!" Put that on as loud as the neighbors can tolerate and SING YOUR HEART OUT!
P.S. The guy is a creep, thank goodness you are rid of him!
A
male
reader, Mark1978 +, writes (19 June 2014):
What should you do now? Move on and find a decent guy to date.
Mark
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A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 June 2014):
It's over. and even if he calls it needs to STAY OVER.
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A
male
reader, Malcontent +, writes (19 June 2014):
End it with him. There's no reason for him to treat you that way, nor for you to reconcile. Break it with him and find someone else. You don't deserve this, and he needs to grow up.
Simple.
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A
female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 June 2014):
I hope for YOUR sake that it is over. WHY on Earth do you allow him to call you names and belittle you? What entitles him to talk to you that way?
Block him and move on.
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A
male
reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (18 June 2014):
It's over. Don't waste any more time or mental energy thinking about this guy....
Good luck....
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