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LDR boyfriend called me names and hasn't called in a week. Is it over?

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Question - (18 June 2014) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2014)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid

I am with my current bf for 4 years, for past 3 months we are in LDR as he has to work overseas.

We had our ups and downs, nowadays we have more downs than ups. He is always calling me names or belittling me whenever possible, calling me stupid, fool, bitch....

I try to reason with him, as he calling me fool all the time makes me feel very low and down. He is not apologizing and still calls me names. A week back he again called me fool for asking him when is he returning back, i got pissed off and dropped the call, its been week, and he hasnt contacted me yet.

What should i do now, should i wait for his call or is it over. Please help me

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (19 June 2014):

Tisha-1 agony auntStart playing some great breakup type of music and ROCK OUT! "I Will Survive!" Put that on as loud as the neighbors can tolerate and SING YOUR HEART OUT!

P.S. The guy is a creep, thank goodness you are rid of him!

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A male reader, Mark1978 United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2014):

Mark1978 agony auntWhat should you do now? Move on and find a decent guy to date.

Mark

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 June 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntIt's over. and even if he calls it needs to STAY OVER.

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A male reader, Malcontent United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2014):

End it with him. There's no reason for him to treat you that way, nor for you to reconcile. Break it with him and find someone else. You don't deserve this, and he needs to grow up.

Simple.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (18 June 2014):

Honeypie agony auntI hope for YOUR sake that it is over. WHY on Earth do you allow him to call you names and belittle you? What entitles him to talk to you that way?

Block him and move on.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (18 June 2014):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntIt's over. Don't waste any more time or mental energy thinking about this guy....

Good luck....

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