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Girls, what qualities do you want boys to have?

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Question - (18 June 2014) 7 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2014)
A male India age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Girls, do you like a confident guy, or someone who can't help in front of you???....Or are good looks all that matter?

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A female reader, YoungButNotNaive South Africa +, writes (22 June 2014):

YoungButNotNaive agony aunt"Women can say what they like. Good looks does it for them. I say this from many years of experience."

Male anon- Yes, but different women will have different tastes in what they consider good looking. It's not like you have to be a certain "type", otherwise you're screwed. Men also go for women they find attractive, and not for ones they don't. It goes without saying for BOTH genders. A man/woman could have the biggest heart in the world, have a great sense of humor, etc. But if that man/woman is trying to date someone who isn't attracted to them, they aren't likely to get anywhere.

OP- No, looks are not ALL that matter, but they are what grabs a person's attention in the beginning. Looks will get your foot in the door, but your personality will determine whether or not you are a keeper. If looks are all you got, that will get boring fast.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2014):

If you ask girls what they want, they will describe the guy they think they should marry 10 years from now.

If you look at who they actually go for, it may be a completely different kind of guy than they claim to like.

Watch their actions and forget their words. You will understand them much better.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2014):

I agree with sageoldguy. Women can say what they like. Good looks does it for them. I say this from many years of experience.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2014):

I like a guy who makes me laugh. It also helps if he's nice and treats me well. For example giving sincere compliments and respecting me enough not to flirt with other girls. Good looks are not so much an issue for me if I like his heart.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (18 June 2014):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntTake it from a guy who's got 'em.... girls just want us handsome dudes!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2014):

Good looks are definitely not all that matters! We want a man - like a real man - someone who will stand up for us, someone we can laugh and joke around with, someone who will stand by us through thick and thin, someone who respects us, with a fun and caring personality. Good looks are just a bonus!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2014):

Understanding, compassion, sincerity, passion, funny, caring, sensible

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