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male
age
51-59,
*host2406
writes:I have been with my girl for five years now. We lived together for four, under the same roof. She lied to me on a few occasions and I caught her a few times, always forgave her...now I had to travel out of the country...I am working on getting her to me...she says she cant wait to come and is looking forward to it...however, she more and more often has less or no time for me...less calls less texts...she parties almost every day, has sleepovers with her friends, comes back at wee hours of the morning..even missed work at one point for a couple of days...does not make me a priority anymore...is she over me...? does she have someone else..?..do I opt out..?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2014): OPT OUT!!!!! Missing work, partying every-night to wee hours?!!
Are you serious???!!!
She must be considerably younger than you. If she is in your age-bracket and behaving like that, you have a potential mess on your hands. Is the sex all that good, or did you fall and bump your head?
Put your mature hat on, and think about this. She is irresponsible, a liar, and you're trying to get her back into your country?
You're a lonely mature gentleman, and about to do something quite foolish. She'll go through your cash and rob you blind.
You're being used.
Sir, I do not mean at all to insult you. I'm telling you like it is.
DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!
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