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writes:Hello, well I been with my boyfriend for 8/9 yrs we have 2 kids and very active in this relationship as far as intimacy and time together. I'm 31 he's 33 I'm white he's black. Well here it is, he watches nothing i mean nothing but ebony granny porn. We have watched different types of porn together but during his time it's nothing but ebony granny that gets him off. I'm worried that fetish is gonna turn fantasy soon enough. These women on here are hairy, grey and old, like 70/80. I'm in good shape have nice breast and great chubby tight beep etc etc. I'm kinda disgusted by him too. To think that he's gonna wanna sleep with that one day. He wants too cause that's all his ass watches. I need advice ppl. Is it just me, is he getting sick of just watching it and soon enough gonna go sleep with one, there not hard to find I'm sure the granny would love to get a piece of young black sexy man. This is ruining my life with him, I'm wondering if he pictures them while he's in me. I'm so grossed out by him. Please guys let me know if it's a fetish or it's time to leave or wonen let me know if u experienced something like this with your guy. Thanks a lot ppl
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reader, fitbabe1987  +, writes (12 July 2014):
everyone has there fantasy. My bfs is fucking a pregnate chick. doesnt mean he will go out and do that. Ur bfs is grannies. doesnt mean he will go out and do that either. relax and trust him.
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reader, Mary34 +, writes (20 June 2014):
Mary34 is verified as being by the original poster of the question That was me responding to the question " you wish" asked bout marriage. I don't know why it came up anonymous
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2014): Omg how many times I asked myself the same thing. I asked him the same question and his response is " it's coming soon just behave and stop fighting over stupid stuff". He says were good and what makes it different if u gotta ring on your finger. I tell him I want our kids to see that this is how it's supposed to be. U meet u fall in love then marriage then kids.. We were together for 5 yrs prior to us having our daughter then 2 yrs later our son. I tend to pick fights a lot about the granny porn but talking with u guys really helped. I'm insecure about it. He has this fetish and like I said before I'm scared it will turn reality. But from what some guys said on here it kinda makes sense. How would u feel if your guy watched nothing but granny porn? Wouldn't u feel like there's something wrong with him... So far I met no one that's into thst but him. I googled m read some stuff but who knows if it's as bad as his obsession... Thsnks again for your input
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reader, YouWish +, writes (20 June 2014):
 If he's never cheated, then he hasn't betrayed your trust.
I think he's telling the truth when he talks about the site opening up chats and stuff. Many free porn sites throw pop-ups to freewebcams or fetish sites involuntarily.
Believe it or not, you answered your own trust issue. You said yourself that you have a taste for group sex porn, but you wouldn't do any such thing in real life, right?
Not all guys are drooling slaves to their penises with no control. That's a negative stereotype of men just like a negative stereotype of women could be that they're materialistic shoppers. Not true. If he's never cheated, then that means he properly keeps his fantasies as they are, the same as you do. You fantasizing about two hot guys tearing you up doesn't mean that your boyfriend isn't enough for you. Why do you think he doesn't feel the same way, especially if in 9 years he's never cheated on you??
However, I have a question for you. If you've been together for this long, why haven't you married??
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reader, Mary34 +, writes (19 June 2014):
Mary34 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirst off I totally appreciate all your responses, thank u.... So get this, me n my guy are active, whenever he wants it it's there, same with me. I was his first white women and before me he was African am women only. So what worries me is that he misses that. I watch group porn and if I wanted too and I was single n had 2 hot ass guys i probably jump on it. But I'm committed right now. But as far as him he around these older black women a lot from his job and he talks to em on the phone etc etc. I'm guessing he wants to dip in the grey area. I have major trust issues with him. Never once had he cheated but it's just that he's so open with these women. He went to a granny chatting site but he says sometimes it direct him there. Idk I guess ur right bout the snooping thing etc etc. I'm just gonna give it a rest. My mind tends to wonder. Grannies gone wild and free ebony granny porn etc etc he gotta stop forgetting to erase out of google. This shit really gets to me, it really does. Thanks guys n gals..
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (19 June 2014):
Men like porn like this because of what the women represent…They are old, and needy for someone to have sex with them.
So the question is…what is your sex life like? Do you need him sexually? Or do you turn him down when he wants it?
Some men watch overweight women for the same reasons…They are heavy and act like they are in need of a man so bad.
Your guy may just want you to need him. Remember this saying “once a man, twice and child.” And men (depending on our upbringing) can be as needy as children sometimes.
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reader, Malcontent  +, writes (19 June 2014):
Agreed with the previous responses. Next-to-nothing to worry about, just leave him be. It won't manifest itself into something serious.
Particularly with what Honeypie's said. Stop snooping around, you'll only hurt yourself more.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 June 2014):
 Nope, the type of porn he watches doesn't mean he wants to live out the fantasy. Same for women.
My suggestion, stop snooping in his porn stash and you won't be grossed out.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 June 2014):
Who cares? Porn is fantasy and not real. He may be attracted to older women, so what? There are many other types people are attracted to.
The point is - you're reality. If he's showing love to you, and your sex life is good, then there's nothing to worry about! You know that if your relationship is long term and the two of you fall in love and grow old together, you can believe it when he tells you that you look more and more beautiful every day!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (18 June 2014):
 I'd bet you that he is not even thinking or having fantasy about older women. If he's like me and my buddies it's the fantasy that an older women can even get turned on that gets him turned on. A lot of us guys are convinced that after 40 a women justs quits for good and nothing will get them off. So to see that some do or at least pretent to in the porn is pretty amazing.
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