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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is unable to orgasm through me touching him or a blow job. He is in his late forties. I have tried varying all techniques, making sure the situation is right...etc, etc. He seems to be adverse to the idea of him ejaculating on me (masturbating on me...you know what I mean). And my period is due Valentine's Day! He doesn't like the idea of intercourse during my period. So, should I just avoid anything intimate on this special day apart from cuddles? (and hope he doesn't get aroused, otherwise its just frustrating!). Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2014): How about soft music, candle light, a good dinner, a good bottle of wine. Sitting on his lap and making out like crazy?
Having a good talk, snuggling, and just spending quality time together. You can still tease each other sexually; and not worry about whether he has an orgasm. You've tried a few things and it hasn't worked. So for the sake of just enjoying each others company, just focus on each other.
Wear something sexy, and be a naughty girl.
I think I've responded to this same problem, and suspect this to be the same OP. That is irrelevant. The point is that you are able to enjoy being with each other regardless of that time of the month. Bypass all the "what-if's" and just make the best of the day.
It's all about sharing affection. The day wasn't meant to create hysteria or anguish. In fact, it's really what you make it.
Best of luck, and have a wonderful Valentine's Day!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (8 February 2014):
 Yeah. There seems to be no reason to fool around and frustrate him further so why bother?
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