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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for about 17 months. I cannot stand any type of holiday anymore and would just like to sleep thru them all! He has said Happy Birthday to me, in 2012 he got me a knife which disappeared from my car shortly after... I was delivering pizza at night in very dark creepy areas. Anyway, after that I have been told Happy Birthday, got a Happy Valentines Day text while I was at work, and also a Merry Christmas text. He know yesterday was valentines day and didn't say one word all day before he went to sleep. Happy Valentines, Babe... I have gone out with some real jackasses but I have never once felt SO totally rejected in my life. Is there something wrong with me? He was saying the night before that it's just for companies to make money but he could've got some damned crayons and scribbled a sweet note on a damned paper towel and I wouldn't feel as awful as I do right now...
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (16 February 2014):
 I agree with Baby Doll x, but "his" problem is "your" problem too because you chose him in the first place. Your criterium to get a guy should be higher (I know, it's not that easy for almost anybody) and then you could find somebody really sweet for you. The vast majority of couple problems have their roots in the very origin of the relationship. As says the old proverb: as you make your bed, so you must lie on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2014): No there is nothing wrong with you, it sounds like this is his problem.
Admittedly, a lot of people believe the Valentines day thing the same as your boyfriend, I for instance feel the same, however, I would make the effort to talk at other times if not Valentines day.
Have you spoken to him about this? I think it would be best to bring up the issue with him and see what he has to say. But no, there is nothing wrong with you.
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