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Am I reading these signs correctly? Is she being friendly or flirtatious?

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Question - (15 February 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2014)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm lesbian and find this other lady gorgeous. Something about her drew me to her so I've been trying to find subtle reasons to be around her. We always give each other eye contact and even hold it and smile. Often times she talks with me she finds reasons to touch me and when she touches me she keeps her hand there for a few seconds longer than what we all know strange.

I was in her bedroom one night and she was picking lint off her clothing and saw it was between her legs on her crotch area so she says wow I even have a lot of it here you wanna see. I thought that was hilarious so I told her I was flattered and needed to take a seat, so I sat down.

She usually touches my arm or hand with her breast at least one time a day. Her breasts are large so I'm not sure if she deliberately does that. When we went out for lunch we sat really close or close enough for my legs to be outside both her legs. She shook her legs like a nervous person so I slapped her legs and told her to stop I also adjusted myself just in case I made her uncomfortable.

She wanted me to go out with her again even sleep over. I have a roommate who doesn't know I'm lesbian. My roommate said my friend has some funny (her way of saying lesbian) ways.

I want to be certain and I'm not with this lady. Am I reading too much is it possible this lady is just friendly touchy Feely emotional straight chic?

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A female reader, E_Corbi8 Ireland +, writes (28 February 2014):

E_Corbi8 agony auntI've found in the past that if you follow your intuition in these types of situations, you won't go far wrong. What does your guy feeling tell you? Stop thinking and just listen to that. Good luck! :)

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A female reader, Aunty Babbit United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2014):

Aunty Babbit agony auntYou won't know until you ask her.

Ask her if she's aware that you're lesbian and take things from there. My guess is that's she's probably having the same dilemma you are.

I hope this helps AB x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2014):

Tell her you are lesbian and you will soon have your answer

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