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writes:ok, here's something fairly simple: I found out a girl at school likes me, she doesn't know that I know (to my knowledge) and I sort of like her back. yet, I feel too shy to tell her, and want to ask her out on a date. A little sidenote or two: this is the first girl to say she likes me, I have very little luck with women, and I am a freshman in high school. My question is HOW should I ask her, and if she says yes, where should we go?no smart-alecy answers please! I really cant afford to screw this up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2014): Try this & good luck!
http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-ask-girl-out-and-always-get-yes
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2014): I agree with wise owl... Most young girls will swoon with happiness when the guy they like is NICE to them... It really does go so far, and remember unless she's VERY confident, she's just as nervous as you- attraction activates our flight fight system, so everyone's going to be on edge- to a degree.
And yeah somewhere to eat would be nice! Take her to your favourite place. If it goes well maybe for the 2nd 3rd date you could do something different n organise some sort of charity event together- it could be really fun working together, getting to know her. Like a healthy bake sale, or a sports day/ BBQ...
Just a thought. See how things go, relax and be yourself, as that's who she was attracted to in the first place.
Good luck :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2014): Talk to her and work that into your conversation. It'll make it easier than just straight up asking her. You'll be on the spot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2014): First of all young man, we are adults here; and don't give
smart-Alec answers. Be polite when asking for help!
You don't have to worry about your luck with women; because she is only a girl, and she has had very little experience herself. You have to relax and just realize that if she likes you, just being nice to her goes a long long way.
Tweens and early-teens usually go to the movies and fast food restaurants. You will be limited by your income and age. It's cool to go to a local science museum, or a place that has gaming for people your age. I think a movie is a perfect first date. Remember her when school dances, games, and events come-up.
If it's warmer in your area of the country, you can take walks through the park, and hangout with a group of your nice friends who have girlfriends. Leave-out the knuckleheads, loud-mouths, and trouble-makers.
You'll only mess up, if you're nervous and worry too much.
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