When do highschool sweethearts breakup?
Q. Is it most likely 4 highschool sweethearts 2 breakup durning there college years?...
A. 4 March 2006: Hey, I know this question because I have asked myself the same thing over and over again. I got with my bf when I was 14 and I am still with him all the way through college, so have a little faith and you have to put the effort in if you are tr... (read in full...)
I have a fear of guys...
Q. hi. im 20 years old and have never had a relationship. i have this fear of guys that they will hurt me, i think this has to do with the fact my dad cheated on my mom and ever since i found out and they divorced when i was 12, i havent trusted ...
A. 4 March 2006: Hey, It is really hard to trust anyone and I know how that feels but you have to open your heart and your mind to people because then they would not be able to see what a great person you are and you would never get the chance to see what a good ... (read in full...)
Am I just being cynical or is having kids not really worth it??
Q. Is having kids worth it? OK heres how i see it. you raise kids, go through all the hard work. then one day they grow up and move out, get married, have careers, etc. and you end up in a retirement home. ironically, they start their own famili...
A. 17 February 2006: Hey, I am sorry but I have to disagree with you, that is not what happens to children or parents for that case. When you have a child you give birth to the most wonderful thing in the world and you have the chance to bring up something that i... (read in full...)
How can I get to know this very shy girl?
Q. There is a girl who I've liked for months who lives near me and I often used to drive past her walking home when I was on my way home from work. (I'm 21, she's about the same). She lives in the next road to me and seems to be really shy as she alwa...
A. 17 February 2006: Hey confused, it is a really hard game to figure out but it seems to me that she is very shy and maybe because she has not had any other friends/boyfriends this might be a huge deal for her and it might take some time for her to get used to the ... (read in full...)
I like him more than just a friend
Q. i really like this guy in college we both do catering, n he is in my tutor group, i dont know wat to do, ive know him for 5 years, hes like my best friend, i have loads of friends who are guys,i get on with them better lol! well my feelings for ...
A. 7 February 2006: Well I think that you should give it a try. The best love relationship blossom out of friendship and if you have feelings for this guy then it is bad to keep them locked up, so tell him, you rather tell him then wondering how it will turn out if you ... (read in full...)
The average size??
Q. Hey, i am 15 and am curious to know if a 6.5" penis is below average?.....any answers?...
A. 7 February 2006: your safe dont worry... (read in full...)
I'm insecure and worry he'll talk to other girls..I need help desperately with this!
Q. Hi have im 20 years old and i have dated my bf for about a year. I have an insecurity problem with myself do to the fact that i have been cheated on before. ( I mean don't get me wrong i know im a very pretty girl but there is always that scar...
A. 31 January 2006: Hey, I know that it is really hard to trust a person completely, espically since you both live apart but hunni if he really loves you then you have nothing to worry about and like you said you are a pretty girl and i dont think that any guy wou... (read in full...)
Does turning her chair mean she likes me too?
Q. A girl in my class keeps sitting in her chair sideways to face me. I don't know whether it is just coincidence but this has happened in French and English. I like her too. Advice asap!!! ...
A. 30 January 2006: Hey, I think that you got lucky because her body language shows signs that she may have some interest in you but, just to be sure I think that you should get to know her, talk to her and if she is giving out signals then you should take the ... (read in full...)
He waves, smiles, flirts... But he hasn't asked me out!
Q. How can I figure out what's up in this guys head? We are both 16. For like 3 months we've been playing this kind of flirting game. Like when I first met him he came over and we hung out. Then there were a couple more times I asked him but he c...
A. 29 January 2006: Hey, When a person has been hurt really badly, it takes them a long time before they can ever get over it and maybe he wants to be sure that he is over the pain of his last relationship before getting with you. I think that he does like you bu... (read in full...)
What should I do with my life? Something sensible, something I'm good at? Or something I love?
Q. I realise this ain't a normal relationship question..etc.. but I need help. I am so confused. I am transtioning into Sixthform in August and am confused of what to do with my life. I did want to be a games designer, but found out it wasn't for me...
A. 29 January 2006: Hey, My advice to you is to follow your dreams and they might get you somethere you much rather be than where you are at the moment, even if it was not you actual dream. You are really young and you have loads of time to find out what you want to... (read in full...)
Mum made me break up with my boyfriend after I got pregnant, but I still miss him!
Q. Hi, I'm 17 and I have a 6 month old baby boy, but my baby's dad doesn't see him, which isn't my choice or his. It's my mum's because I still live at home and she made me break up with him when I got pregnant. But I miss him. What should I do?...
A. 26 January 2006: Hey, I know that it is really hard for you at this moment but you have to be strong. I was told to break up with my bf as well from my parents and trust me the more strength you show them the more they will think that you are capable to handl... (read in full...)
He's dealing with his problems and trying to get a job, so why can't my family leave off about my boyfriend?
Q. Hi, I'm 21 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. To start with, he was ambitious, with a good job until he quit. For the last year he is going through a stage where he doesn't want to get a job, and is constantly smoking Cannabis...
A. 26 January 2006: Hey, I was put into a similar situation with my family. I know that it is very very hard explaining to your family about your bf, but if you are saying that your willing to spend the rest of your life with this man then I dont think that him s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is threatening and capable of carrying out his threats! What do I do to get out?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for about two months. It has been nothing but hell. He is emotionally and physically abusive. I'm afraid to go to the police as he has already said that after he gets out of jail, he will kill me. I know ...
A. 26 January 2006: You need to get out of this NOW. I think that it is the best thing to go to the police, because they are the only ones that could help you with this situation. You could get a restriction warrant on him so that he could not come near you and I ... (read in full...)
Couldn't find my missing panties, until they turned up in my BF's computer desk!
Q. Here is a really strange one to everyone. I was doing my laundry as usual and when I was putting it all up and away I noiticed something missing. Ok the article of clothing was my skimpy stringy black thong. Sure I was a little confused on where ...
A. 26 January 2006: Well I think the only way that I you could actually solve this problem is by asking your bf and ask him to be honest about it because i think that you deserve to know.
Good Luck.... (read in full...)
He lied to me! Told me he was 26 and he's really ...45!! What should I do?
Q. I'm almost 17 but my boyfriend's recently just told me that he's 45 after telling me 7 months ago that he was 26.He was too scared to tell me in case that i would dump him. He really loves me and i really love him too, but where would we get from ...
A. 25 January 2006: Hey,
You are really young and I dont think that going out with a 45yr old is the best thing for any 16 yr old, he might as well be your dad. He lied to you about his age, do you think that something I wrong with that because Just think of it this... (read in full...)
I want it to be more with him but he is a Teacher's Assistant
Q. Hi, Im 20 years old and i attend a Trained School. I have developed a strong crush on My Teacher's Assiste. I know some people are going to read this think its wrong, but the way i see this is that i am 20. This man is fresh out of college and i...
A. 25 January 2006: hey
I really dont see how this could be of any harm. I dont think that you would get into trouble espically since you are 20. So my advice would be to go for it and see how it goes.
Good Luck. ... (read in full...)
I really want her back...
Q. dear cupid, i spilt up with my girlfriend just before new years and it feels so wrong, we've met up a couple of times and had a great time going to the cinema and for dinner. i really want her back, i'm still so in love with her what can i do please ...
A. 24 January 2006: Hey Maybe if you tried to contact her a try to rekindle the old flame, but u have to consider the reason that you broke and if you could work passed that problem Good Luck.... (read in full...)
I'm bored and lonely-so should I call up this nerdy guy I broke up with?
Q. I broke up with this guy I was seeing for 3 months because I he's kind of a little too nerdy. but we did connect and I did have a lot of fun with him. well it's 3 months later and now I want to get in touch with him again, I think maybe because no ...
A. 24 January 2006: If you are only trying to be friends with him then I would say that it is OK but i dont think that you should just call a guy because your bored. Try to resist the temptation, you cant just use a person because your bored and wait for someone better ... (read in full...)
She's left to study overseas, and now I can't help wondering if she's going to get drunk and disorderly when she's away...
Q. I need help. My girlfriend recently left for study abroad. We have been dating for 6 months and she is continuously partying and going out with other people in groups. I really miss her and don't really want her to get drunk and do anything with ...
A. 24 January 2006: Hey, It must be very hard for you to not to be concerned, it is clear that there is some trust issues and maybe you should tell your gf that her constant partying is upseting you and you think that it is hard for you to have that, maybe even... (read in full...)
I'm 16. Should I see a relationship counsellor to get over boys from my past?
Q. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 15 and we have been together for 7 months but have been friends for 3 years.We don't argue so much but in this one argument he turned around and said that i need to see a counsellor as he thought that i needed to sort my ...
A. 21 January 2006: Hey, I think that your bf is right and dont feel like this is a bad thing because everybody at some stage in their lives need to talk to somebody. Do not think that something is wrong with you but your bf could have said this because he cares fo... (read in full...)
Feels like I've lost the love of my life. Will I find another person who makes me as happy?
Q. Hello, just wanted a bit of advice. I feel that I have lost the girl that I was meant to be with. Was with her for 4 years and had such good times together and I have never laughed so much with anyone else. Now I feel so empty and feel like I messed...
A. 21 January 2006: Hey, I know that at the end of a relationship it seems like you cant think that you will find somebody else as great what you had but you will and dont think that you wont because that is the only thing that is keeping you from moving on in you... (read in full...)
I look confident on the outside, but I really feel that I'm not attractive enough to have a boyfriend...
Q. Hi, I'm 16. H'm really depressed. I have never had a b/f. I haven't even had my first kiss yet. The thing is, all the guys I like either lead me on or do not like me back. It's really starting to affect my confidence because all my mates have em....
A. 21 January 2006: Hey Ty, I know that it can be hard but just hang in there, I know lods of girls your age who dont have bf and are completely fine. Dont let this get to your self-estem. Just have faith that you will find a guy one day, and i suspect not very... (read in full...)
Don't feel that I'm good enough for my boyfriend, so I get jealous too easily! Help!
Q. Jealousy is a problem for me. It seems that I get mad at the slightest attention my bf gives to any girl around. I don't understand why I am like this, but I am and it seems that I cannot help it. I know this will ruin our relationship in time if ...
A. 21 January 2006: Hey, Being jealous can cause a lot of problems in your relationship and you cannot get jealous at every woman that comes walking into the door. I am sure that your bf is really nice but have you ever thought that maybe you dont trust him enough... (read in full...)
Anything wrong with having sex in the bath?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for a couple of months and we always talk about new ways to enjoy sex. Last night I came up with the idea of having sex in the bath, but I have heard that it is dangerous for females to do so. Is this true? ...
A. 19 January 2006: Hey,
Well it could be a bit dangerous instead trying having a shower and have sex, it could be better and the water falling on you will be more sensual and sexy.
Good Luck. ... (read in full...)
Out of four months, we've only be alone together for two hours! Does she really love me?
Q. I'm in a relationship with this girl, and at first things were going great! We are a young couple. I'm 18 and she's 17, but we both said we love each other and I would do anything for her. But out of a 4 month relationship we've only spent 2 hours ...
A. 18 January 2006: Hey,
It is hard to find out if your gf feeling if you are not with her alone often but dont give up yet. Try taking her out for a suprise romantic meal and her friends would not be able to come, if it is a suprise. Then you could spend some qua... (read in full...)
I need to cheat on my boyfriend. It gives me a thrill!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. We started going out with each other when I was 13 and he was 16. We are very happy together. We moved in with each other when I was 16. In the first year of our relationship I cheated on him, because ...
A. 18 January 2006: Hey,
You have to stop what you are doing. Just imagine what you would feel like if you found out that your bf was cheating on you ................does'nt feel nice does it. If you dont think that you could be in a serious relationship then you... (read in full...)
Since he cheated and lied to me, I question my relationship with my boyfriend. Should I go back to my ex instead?
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship with a guy for the last 9 months and we got engaged a few months ago. A few weeks after that he wanted to hang out with some friends and a girl who I knew was trouble. When I asked him not to go he got mad ...
A. 18 January 2006: Dear confused,
My first advice would be to get out of this current relationship. It is clear that he does not treat you right. he lied to you twice, once denying it and second saying that he went to see her. Although his ex might have tried to... (read in full...)
He broke up with me and said to cancel the counselling session. Can I do anything else, other than just deal?
Q. My bf broke up with me between Christmas and New Years, and I could tell something was wrong for a week beforehand, but he kept saying things were fine. We had bought committment rings for each other, promised each other we'd be together forever,...
A. 18 January 2006: I think that you have most of this figured out. It is the bestthing to wait for him to initiate things espically if he wants space, you calling him might not help the situation.Try talking to his friends if possible and find out how he is and what ... (read in full...)
He was in a serious relationship while he was "hooking up" with me for casual sex. I feel like he has no respect for me... How should I react?
Q. I had dated my ex-boyfriend for about a year and a half. The last four months of our relationship we were both miserable and decided we needed to take a break. We broke off the relationship but still were "hooking up" once a week or so. He ...
A. 16 January 2006: Sweetie,
You have to teel this guy to walk out of the door and dont let it hit him on the way out cause you dont need him. Dont worry about job oppurtunities, you can always find a job but you do not need him. ... (read in full...)
I am a girl, and I told my female boss that I am in love with her. How would you feel if you were my boss?
Q. hay guys, i asked a question a couple of days ago, abut how i am female and i told my female boss i was in-love with her. CALLING ALL LADIES-can i have your personal opinion on how you would feel if a 17yr old told you she was in love with you? and ...
A. 16 January 2006: To be completetly honest I would feel a bit weird espically if i do not share tha same feelings towards you. Dont feel too bad though because if she does have feelings for you then maybe your statement might invoke her inner feelings... (read in full...)
Would my boyfriend rather be with my friend, than with me?
Q. Dear All, I really need some help, because I really feel like giving up. I've been with my boyfriend, 'James' for 8 months now. He truly is the most wonderful guy I've ever met. I met him soon after coming out of a long-term relationship. Ja...
A. 16 January 2006: Hey,
You need to sit down and have a serious talk with your man, tell him that you dont feel comforable with him being so close with this other girl mainly because he had feelings with her in the past and tell him that you are not sure that tho... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out??
Q. Hi, help me please. I really fancy this girl in school and we are both in our last year. I think this girl knows i fancy her and I want to ask her out but i no she likes another boy. People still say i have a good chance with going out with her and ...
A. 16 January 2006: Hey,
I think that you should ask her out that way you could know that you have given it a try and you would'nt have to worry about it. If she does reject you then your still young and you can find loads of other girls that will be interest... (read in full...)
I've tried buying condoms and sexy underwear, but my husband just isn't interested in sex! He says that cuddling and making love are nasty... Please help!
Q. i am living in a sexless marriage. my husband doesnt seem to have a sex drive at all. the last time we had sex was last august and then he went limp after a couple of minutes after we tried. the time before that was february - ive tried buying ...
A. 16 January 2006: Hey,
I see that you have a problem. The first step is to try to talk to your husband about what is really bothering him and why he is not paying any attention to you or your sex life. You could also try an aphrodisia to invoke the mood but if h... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and looking for ways to spice up my sex life with my boyfriend...
Q. Hi there... I'm a 15 year old lass and me and my boyfriend have been going out with each other for around 6 months. We sleep together (and my parents are aware, I talked to my mum before anything happened). We have a very great and active sex life, ...
A. 16 January 2006: Hey
First of all let me start of by saying that it is very iportant to have safe sex, as I am sure that you would not want to be pregnant at this age. It is good that your parents are aware of what you are doing. Tips I could give you, is that try... (read in full...)
Settle for the guy I have (who has no prospects) or look for my first love (who I never slept with)... ?
Q. Dear Cupid, Hello I'm 25 no kids not married and live w/ parents and I am a hairstylist. I've been in an 8 yr. w/ my current boyfriend he's wonderful he's so sweet! But has a low paying FT job and no career education other than high sch...
A. 15 January 2006: Hey
If it was me in your place I would go out and search for the one that i truely love and not just settle for some guy that reminds me of somebody. You cant live your life with thoughts of another man and still be with someone else. it is ot wo... (read in full...)
I kept secrets and lied to my gf so she dumped me! I can't bear to be without her..what can I do?
Q. My situation is that when I was 18 I went to medical school – I had always wanted to be a doctor. However I lived at the time alone with my mom and I am an only child. I basically found living away from home difficult – but I tried to stick out the ...
A. 14 January 2006: Hey
This sounds like you have a really bad probelem and hiding a secret like that it a huge deal but maybe if you spoke to her and said that you relly did not have a choice because you whole life will fall apart if this secret would have gone any... (read in full...)
He's got a girlfriend and loves me like a sister... But I want more!
Q. ok my best friend has a brother who i started liking very soon after i met both of them. ive liked him for about 4 years now, and its gotten to the point that i know him pretty well, and he says he loves me "like a sister". he currently has a ...
A. 14 January 2006: It must be hard to find out tha a guy only loves you as a sister but you dont have to give up all hope the best way is to look at yourself as more than a sister and maybe he wil see it too. If he doesnt then dont worry about it because there are ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to hook up with this girl at scool?
Q. Dear Cupid... I am in deep trouble and i really need some help... I go to High School. My first semester i had class with this girl that i liked for just the way she looked... Over the course of the class i became friends with her... She turned out ...
A. 10 January 2006: I think that this girl likes you very much and I think that she is upset that you have not asked her yet, dont worry about who has turned you down seize this oppurtunity. it seems like she really like you and it seems like you like her too. So say ... (read in full...)
First time rejection but I think she likes me..so how should I ask her out again?
Q. I asked my really good friend out who is a girl and she rejected me but I think she may like me, so how should I ask her out again?...
A. 10 January 2006:
If you feel that she still likes you then firstly you have to wait and make sure that your instinct is true. When you feel that it is the right moment to ask her out again then seize the oppurtunity, but if you really want to go all out then rom... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are in a comfort zone, but a new girl has just entered the picture. How to choose?
Q. I'm a 20 year old male who's been in a relationship with my 17 year old g/f for about two full years now. Things in our relationship have always been pretty well but lately it just seems that we've been having trouble communicating. She has admi...
A. 9 January 2006: Dear
torn between two,
I think that the best advice I can give you at the moment is that you need to figure out the good points and the bad points of both the relationships and how successful they might be. Remember that you have a girl ... (read in full...)
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