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writes: My boyfriend and I have been living together for about two months. It has been nothing but hell. He is emotionally and physically abusive. I'm afraid to go to the police as he has already said that after he gets out of jail, he will kill me. I know that he is very capable of it. I'm miserable and contemplate suicide everyday, just because I'd rather be dead than to deal with this any longer. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, the_bettyboop_4you +, writes (31 January 2006):
 Honey we are in 2006 that means at this stage of the game women do not have to take abuse of any kind ok Of course he is going to stress the fact that he is going to kill you to keep you scared, that is bull u dont have to put up with that at all.Go to the police tell them everything and they will tell you to get an order of proteccion against him and will place you in a shelter and they help you get an apartment and everything,if you dont have a job you get help for now until everything is resolved ok so dont worry about anything, just make that move and you will be alright. Dont tell anybody what your plans are unless you could trust them like familly or what not ok,ill be praying for you take care god bless.
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (27 January 2006):
 Your life does not have to be miserable. Please call the police, tell them he has be abusing you and is now making threats on your life. A detective can refer you to a secret women's shelter at no expense to you. There are good people in the communities and churches who help women in your situation every day. Please don't spend another minute with this monster. You're in my prayers. Take care and GOD bless!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2006): Get out of there now. Do you have any friends or family you can turn to now? Speak to people in your community - there is help available. You will be so much happier in escaping all of his abuse by getting on with your life. Speak to the police by all means and go somewhere where he doesn't know how to find you and leave him no clue of where you are.Good luck, please take care of yourself.
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reader, x Chrissy x +, writes (26 January 2006):
 You need to get out of this NOW. I think that it is the best thing to go to the police, because they are the only ones that could help you with this situation. You could get a restriction warrant on him so that he could not come near you and I suggest that stay with family or friends that know you and protect, try not to stay alone and tell your family and friends about the situation because if they dont know then it could be harder for you and they could also support you in many ways. Good Luck and I hope that everything works out and that you are soon OK. It will get better as soon as you take action.
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