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writes: Dear Cupid... I am in deep trouble and i really need some help... I go to High School. My first semester i had class with this girl that i liked for just the way she looked... Over the course of the class i became friends with her... She turned out to be quite smart and funny to be around. But i still could not do anything about me loving her.. The fact is that before i had asked 11 girls out and i was rejected by all 11 of them... So anyways one day i was walking to class with my friend and suddenly i hear someone behind me yell out:" look at that hotty " so i turn around and find her right behind me smiling and i ask her who she was talking to and she says that it was me she was talking 2... and so we both laugh it off and then she asks me how many i had in line .. so i laugh that one off as well... from that day on forward when i'm talking to my friends she would walk up to me and ask me if i could go sit with her in the cafeteria while she did her homework... one of her friends asked me one day why don't i ask her out... and i told her that it wouldn't work out... the same day another mutual friend of ours comes up to us in the morning while im sitting with her while she's doing her homework and asks us why don't we date... she just smiles and looks at me... not knowing what to say i say that i'm hungry and go to get some food... since we came back from break i tried to call her but she never answered (i know she's busy with gymnastics) But i know i made a mistake because i got fed up with it and texted her on her cell phone saying: "you know how you said you weren't gonna go to the game? well i'm not going either so i thaught instead of you staying home we could do something." she dind'y reply to that so i sent her another one saying: "so i guess i should just give it up and stop trying since you are not even replying"... i know it's a long question i'm sorry webmasters but i wanted to explain my case so i can get some help because nothing worked so far can i please get some answers?
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reader, x Chrissy x +, writes (10 January 2006):
 I think that this girl likes you very much and I think that she is upset that you have not asked her yet, dont worry about who has turned you down seize this oppurtunity. it seems like she really like you and it seems like you like her too. So say your sorry that you havent asked her out yet and ask her out. Remember to choose the right time and make sure that she knows that you like ehr first.
Try not to do it on the phone or by text.
Good Luck.
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reader, devilz_162 +, writes (10 January 2006):
well for starters, i am very surprised u did not ask her out when the signs were obviouosly there.. well, whats done is done.. however, maybe u could talk to her and ask her out?? just to know her real feelings toward you.. if in shcool, she continues looking at u, well, all u have to do is ask her.. i know u are afraid of getting rejected again.. however, thats part of life.. get on with it.. believe in yourself.. say sorry for sending those messages and say that u dont really mean it when u said that u should give up.. say something sweet like "i was doin some thinking and realised that i would be dumb to give up someone as lovely as you" etc.. just do it..
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