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writes: How can I figure out what's up in this guys head?We are both 16. For like 3 months we've been playing this kind of flirting game. Like when I first met him he came over and we hung out. Then there were a couple more times I asked him but he couldn't (and his friends told me he felt bad he couldn't so I don't think he made that up as an excuse.) In the beginning, he told my bro he liked me. My bro said he should ask me out, but he told him he had been hurt before by someone that cheated on him and he was scared to get involved again. It seems like one week we'll talk a lot, and then another week will go by when I hardly see him and we don't talk. He's hardly never online and when he is, he doesn't always IM me. Besides just seeing him in school for like 2 seconds where he smiles or waves at me I only saw him a week ago when he and his friend came over and hung out. My brother saw him at the mall and said you should ask my sister out and he said I'll think about it and just smiled. He definitely knows I like him because people have told him and I have given him enough hints without coming right out and telling him. He's definitely not shy either and other girls are always talking to him but he hasn't had a girlfriend for over a year. He's not a player kind of guy either, he's really nice. I just can't figure out why he acts the way he does. If he doesn't like me, why would he bother coming over to hang out? What can I do to make him want me in a girlfriend way?
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reader, x Chrissy x +, writes (29 January 2006):
 Hey, When a person has been hurt really badly, it takes them a long time before they can ever get over it and maybe he wants to be sure that he is over the pain of his last relationship before getting with you. I think that he does like you but he is just really sacred. You have to make sure that he knows that he would not be hurt and just try to give him some more time. Dont be too eager and he will soon come around. Good Luck.
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