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How can I get to know this very shy girl?

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Question - (17 February 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2006)
A male , *aul601 writes:

There is a girl who I've liked for months who lives near me and I often used to drive past her walking home when I was on my way home from work. (I'm 21, she's about the same).

She lives in the next road to me and seems to be really shy as she always walks with her head down, really quickly. A lot of my friends don't think she is pretty at all but I do! :)

I don't think she goes out much and have never seen her with any friends in all the time I've known of her. Anyway I sent her a Valentine's card and then two days later stopped her in the street and basically smiled, asked how she was and if she had guessed it was from me. She seemed really nice and smiley but didn't seem to want to talk as she scurried off with her head down as she always does.

The next night at the shops, my car was parked in the car park and as I walked away I could see her with her mum walking towards it and she pointed at it and said something. I don't really know what she may be thinking or how to progress. I could try and bump into her walking home and talk to her that way. Or would it scare her more if she's as shy as she seems?

I suppose I should add that although I haven't had many girlfriends, I have a LOT of friends who are girls so normally can figure girls out quite well but am a bit confused this time. :)

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A female reader, x Chrissy x +, writes (17 February 2006):

x Chrissy x agony auntHey confused,

it is a really hard game to figure out but it seems to me that she is very shy and maybe because she has not had any other friends/boyfriends this might be a huge deal for her and it might take some time for her to get used to the idea that somebody is actually interested in her.

I think that if you really like this girl then you should wait a little while longer and try to make yourself aquainted with her, who knows she could be the one. So dont listen to your friends and follow your heart.

Good Luck.

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