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writes: ok my best friend has a brother who i started liking very soon after i met both of them. ive liked him for about 4 years now, and its gotten to the point that i know him pretty well, and he says he loves me "like a sister". he currently has a girlfriend with whom he's very serious, and its kind of killing me. hes really affectionate, so he rubs my back, calls me by a nick-name, and i know he wants me to like him because on new years he asked his sister if i did, and when she said yes (just like in general, not in that way) he said "good because i really like her, and i want her to like me". i know hes just being "brotherly" but it makes me like him more. and all i can think about are these little times with him. like when i was sleeping and he left early, he rubbed my head and said "bye, __ (my nickname)". so anyway after all that, what i want to know is, how do i get over him when i'll probably always see him, hear about him, hang out w/ him, ect.? i cant figure out how.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): After he breaks up with her, then you should tell him how you feel and if he loves you back you should go for it.
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reader, x Chrissy x +, writes (14 January 2006):
 It must be hard to find out tha a guy only loves you as a sister but you dont have to give up all hope the best way is to look at yourself as more than a sister and maybe he wil see it too. If he doesnt then dont worry about it because there are many guys out there and Im sure that they wont be looking at you like a sister. Try a makeover or change your style a bit, not too much. this might grab his attention. Good Luck.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (14 January 2006):
 It sounds like you have taken the first step in recognising that you will never be with him as a lover. Beyond that i would say you should treasure his affection and know that it is something that will always be there and not be subject to the demands and strains of a lovers relationship. At least that gives you a solid base to build on as you look for somebody who you can have everything with.
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