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writes: I'm in a relationship with this girl, and at first things were going great! We are a young couple. I'm 18 and she's 17, but we both said we love each other and I would do anything for her. But out of a 4 month relationship we've only spent 2 hours alone together. To me it feels like she doesn't want to spend time alone with me and she has to see me with her friends. I just wanna know is there really love there or am I again gonna be left heartbroken??Please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2006): Four months... If you've dated her for four years, and she's still like that, then you can definitely question her love. Sometimes, I really wonder about people saying they love each other in such a short period of time. Take it easy man. Let's give it some time. If love is what this relationship is based out of, then don't worry so much about it waning. Just continue to show your support and consideration, and over time, this relationship will show you whether it was meant to be or not.
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reader, lizabeth +, writes (18 January 2006):
all what i'm about to say is based on personal experience. there may be something in your girlfriends past thats haunting her e.g. been broken hearted in the past. if you haven't already, talk to her about it. if you have already and its like talking to a brick wall then i think thats your answer. she may not have had a relationship thats lasted this long before and she night be a bit afraid. my advice, talk to her if you haven't already, if you have and there's no response, i think theres your answer. hope ive helped xxxx
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reader, x Chrissy x +, writes (18 January 2006):
 Hey,
It is hard to find out if your gf feeling if you are not with her alone often but dont give up yet. Try taking her out for a suprise romantic meal and her friends would not be able to come, if it is a suprise. Then you could spend some quality time with her. Or if you want something less expensive go for a picnic to the park.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2006): Have you spoken to her about this? A relationship must be built on communication. Speak to her at lunch or outside during a break.
I'm wondering if her parents do not allow her to date and she is embarrassed to tell you. Do you have a reputation for putting on the moves and she is scared of that.
Please talk to her and find out what she is feeling and why. Make sure to listen and do not get defensive. I'm sure you can get to the bottom of this!!!
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