Should I give him more space?
Q. He said we could still be friends, and i want to. We still love each other but broke up 2 days ago. NOt necessarily because my my insecurity and trust problems.. assumptions, but it made us unhappy. I still want this and I think he does too, he just ...
A. 28 October 2010: its bizarre.
i have just recently posted a question almost exact to this.
however, i am your boyfriend and you are my boyfriend in mine.
we've been on a one week break already. and wow, its most definitely helped both of us think more clearly on w... (read in full...)
Is she denying that she's really in love with me or what?
Q. I have a female friend, in fact she calls me her 'best friend', we hang out almost every day, and if we don't hang out we'll normally text or chat to each other. However, she doesn't treat me like 'just a friend', sometimes she'll want to hold my ...
A. 28 October 2010: from a girl of your age POV,
shes into you alright.
all i had to do was read the first few lines.
im really close to my guy mate, very similar to you and your mate. however, i would never be toucky feely with him unless i liked him more ... (read in full...)
My jealousy's slowing us down.
Q. I am a very jelous girl. and i think my boyfriend is getting tired of that, and he thinks i don´t trust him. what should i do ?...
A. 28 October 2010: you need to ask yourself what is making you feel this jealousy? maybe it might be down to the fact that you are indeed what one would class as a jealous person in general. don't be too hard on yourself though. its what makes us human.
my advice is t... (read in full...)
Out of the 3 men, who seems more like relationship material?
Q. Which guy seems more like relationship material? SAM- my ex who i was in a relationship with a year ago. i was in love with him. he is gorgeous, smart and shares my similar sarcastic, smarky humour. doesn't know exactly what he wants at times t...
A. 14 September 2009: Thankyou :)
You've helped me an awful lot in seeing the reasons to why i'd be better off with either Sam or Andrew.
I guess you're right when it comes to Matthias, I don't think i could cope not seeing him often in the longrun. It'd be painful.... (read in full...)
Do you follow your head or your heart?
Q. I am married to a wonderful man. He is smart, kind, has a good job, and is a hard worker. In fact, I love him - but only as a friend. I don't want a physical relationship with him at all. I have told him I want a separation, but I am not sure if ...
A. 14 September 2009: I follow my heart. i don't trust my brain and i know it constantly wants me to make the wrong decision so that the next morning i'm like...wow that was a missed opportunity.... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend's husband
Q. Over the past few years I have come to have very strong feelings for one of my dear friends husband. I am also married. As much as I try to move past these feelings I cannot. I know to feel this way is morally wrong. I just don't know how to ...
A. 14 September 2009: you see i couldn't put the happiness of those i care for in jepordy. i know your happiness is important to but to wreck someones marriage, its a no go zone.marriage to me is a commitment.which all people should respect.if you were to get involved ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend's husband
Q. Over the past few years I have come to have very strong feelings for one of my dear friends husband. I am also married. As much as I try to move past these feelings I cannot. I know to feel this way is morally wrong. I just don't know how to ...
A. 31 August 2009: If you cared about you're friends happiness that much, you'd walk away regardless of how painful it must be. sometimes you have to put others before yourself. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cums too early, help?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend can't have sex with me for over 5 minutes without orgasming. We do have amazing sex (during that 5 minute period) don't get me wrong, its just its not exactly a very long time for me. I don't know what to do. I know for a fact ...
A. 22 July 2009: Thankyou :)
Youve all helped!
I guess we do spend too much time on foreplay and rush into face-paced forcefull sex.
Maybe I should take things more slowly with him...take breaks...and get him to stimulate me :)
Again, thankyou
x... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's blue balls.....he says if I don't give him head he will leave me!
Q. My boyfriend says every time we hang out he gets blue balls and is in pain for hours, even days. It causes him headaches and muscle cramps too. I do plenty of sexual things for him almost every time we hang out. He's tried masturbating beforehand, ...
A. 22 July 2009: If you don't mind me asking, Why on earth are you with the guy?
Dump the B******!
x... (read in full...)
One day I'm the girl he's going to marry, the next day he's stand-offish!
Q. I am quite hurt and confused and would really appreciate any advice! Me and my boyfriend of six months broke up about a month ago but during that month we have been in contact every day, talking meeting up and even going away on a trip together! For ...
A. 21 July 2009: I can only answer this question to some certain extent because I don't know exactly how strongly he feels towards you. I've had the same happen to me in the past. Its one of those horrible things, that you feel in time (because you care about him so ... (read in full...)
Moving country for a bit and unsure what to do with the guy I care for immensely?
Q. Ok. Me and this guy had been texting, bumping into eachother on the odd occasion and having very few one-to-one sit down chat sessions to start off with. But one thing is sure, there was some major sexual chemistry between us both. A month ag...
A. 28 February 2009: thanks for your advice. You have both helped me by making things clearer :) x x x... (read in full...)
I like him but I get the sense he can't be bothered. Do I forget him?
Q. I've started talking to a guy lately, we have known each other for three years through friends but we have never really talked properly. He texted me a lot for a few days but then started to lose interest, I texted him but I could tell he couldn't...
A. 28 February 2009: Personally... I'd give up. Hes either just not interested in starting anything not necessarily just with you, but anyone in general. When you start getting that feeling a guy isn't into you, most of the time you're right in some respect. If he f... (read in full...)
How do I not get attached to him?
Q. I've been sleeping with a guy since early this month. It started out as a NSA (no strings attached), but after being with him, chatting with him alot, sleeping with him twice, it's getting more difficult for me to get him out of my head. I try to ...
A. 24 February 2009: This is very bizarre. Your dilemma seems to be the complete reflection of mine; word for word perfect. NSA has the whole laid-back, remain cool, easy and drama-free vibe going on-which for someone who doesn't have "relationship" necessarily on their ... (read in full...)
I went from wanting him for sex to wanting him for a relationship.
Q. Ok. Me and this guy had been texting, bumping into eachother on the odd occasion and having very few one-to-one sit down chat sessions. But one thing is sure, there was some major sexual chemistry between us both. Weeks went by and he visited ...
A. 3 February 2009: Youv'e really helped me with the answer
Thanks ever so much hun!
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Cannot orgams with boyfriend
Q. i have been dating a man for about 2-3months now and i cant seem to orgasm vagina or clitoris when we have sex. i am quite a shy person and i tend to become self concious when he is looking at me when he is trying to make me cum. i know it sounds ...
A. 3 February 2009: its normal.
everyone is different.
its all about being comfortable with yourself. i know this sounds silly...but...
get a mirror, strip, masturbate and really make yourself feel sexy.
next time you come to have sex, try and picture yourself... (read in full...)
He tells me he loves his girlfriend but there is still sexual tension between us.
Q. dear cupid, Me and my partner split up a few weeks before christmas and it really hurt me. We were still sleeping with each other right up and till he got a new girlfriend which I found out was his house mate which hurt even more but on Christma...
A. 19 January 2009: The exact same situation happened to me...and shockingly at a similar time period to yours.
From past experience I have met many men and women alike who are immature. Not ready to commit, handle relationships efficiently and most importantly are ... (read in full...)
Broke up, then slept together, now I'm pregnant
Q. Last summer i was seeing this guy. We fell hard for each other but we broke up in September because our relationship just didn't feel right anymore. To make it easier for both of us we decided that we would just stay away from each other. But about ...
A. 19 January 2009: You need to speak to him.
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Three girls love me! I want them all!
Q. I have three girls i have been talking to!! they all have told me they are in love with me!!! I wabt them all but dont want to break their hearts =[=[=[=[, how do i choose??...
A. 19 January 2009: Woah.
What an awkward stickey situation you are in...and a personal achievement almost; though it may not seem it at the moment.
Well I can't say more, other than take a step back and think "what do i want?"
When it comes to each of the three gi... (read in full...)
I want her back but she won't hardly look at me
Q. Me and my gf had been going out foe 5 months before we broke up one week ago. We were each other's first make out partner all the way to oral sex in this time. All of the people in school said we were a beautiful couple and we were perfect for each ...
A. 19 January 2009: what you waiting for??
go get her back tiger.
don't do what i did and loose those you love to a petty petty argument over absolutely nothing.
thats the worst of it, not knowing what may of happened if that night hadnt happened... (read in full...)
My so called "best friend" tells the guy I like that I"m a slut!
Q. I went to visit my so called best friend at her university for a few days in october. During that time I had immediately grew rather attached with her boyfriends mate. We clicked, had loads in common and sitting opposite ends of a couch for 5 hours ...
A. 19 January 2009: yeah babe
your so right... (read in full...)
Caught between the two, don't know what to do!
Q. I've really liked this guy for some time. But it was only recently that I found out he likes me back. Nothing has happened between us; we aren't even dating yet. Last night I went town with my "friend" who I previously hit it off with in the past...
A. 17 January 2009: Right ok.
I just texted my friend saying...
"i really want you to know i care about you. that will never change ever. i still have feelings for somebody else. ive known that for a few months now.im so sorry ive complicated things.i told myself o... (read in full...)
Caught between the two, don't know what to do!
Q. I've really liked this guy for some time. But it was only recently that I found out he likes me back. Nothing has happened between us; we aren't even dating yet. Last night I went town with my "friend" who I previously hit it off with in the past...
A. 17 January 2009: I really want to do that...i just dont know how i could do it if you get me
Its so typical of me to do this. with alcohol i do stupid things that cause havoc in the future. just complicating things.
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I've never felt this way about anyone before..I'm really hurt
Q. Please help me. I really need someone's help. I feel very depressed and frustrated. How do I get over someone I think stole my heart. I'm just hurt. How do I overcome this "rejection" and go on with my life? I think about him constantly. He's been ...
A. 17 January 2009: Is it a relationship you miss or him as a person?
Seriously.
The exact same thing happened to me a year ago. I now realise the familiarity, closeness, the lack of an explaination from him to why i was dumped and the thought of seeing him moved on... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I like to "tease" guys?
Q. I don't really like to hook up with boys any more but I like to have fun and the attention they give me. At parties, I dance and flirt with guys all the time and they think they will have sex with me but I don't even give them a kiss. Is it wrong to ...
A. 14 January 2009: its completey fine in my eyes...
its better opposed to someone who constantly sleeps with men..
a guy would only see you as hard to get..and thats great.
obviously when your in a relationship teasing can't persist for a long time.... (read in full...)
Choked during sex...was it wrong of him??
Q. I've been with my overly passionate, subtle and lovely boyfriend for some time now. He's not very spontanous, everything seems like a walk in the park... and almost routine. Last night we had sex. And he started choking me towards the end out of the ...
A. 14 January 2009: thanks everyone.
pvtguy, you really helped! :)... (read in full...)
Choked during sex...was it wrong of him??
Q. I've been with my overly passionate, subtle and lovely boyfriend for some time now. He's not very spontanous, everything seems like a walk in the park... and almost routine. Last night we had sex. And he started choking me towards the end out of the ...
A. 12 January 2009: Thanks!
You've all helped me put things into perspective
Like most of you have all said, If i liked it and allowed him to do it..whats the problem?
None :)
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Why are men so obsessed with breasts but hardly notice them during sex?
Q. Why are men so obsessed with breasts when during sex, they don't even spend that much time on them. lol Just curious!...
A. 11 January 2009: Geez
I was having this discussion yesterday with several girls and we found ourselves cornering this poor poor lad.
They never seem to take a step back, stare and appreciate things do they wneh it comes to the bedroom department? They just constant... (read in full...)
Hairy chest--what do you do with it?
Q. For guys and girls... This is the first time I have dated a guy who has a really hairy chest. When getting intimate with him, besides just running my fingers through it, what else can I do? Girls, what kinds of things do you do? and Guys, what ...
A. 11 January 2009: OH WOW.
I think i'm turning extremely green with envy my dear.
Instead of having a set of idea on what to do...just stop and stare at it. Use your hands, mouth...everything!... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to approach this in a way that's not embarrassing if he doesn't reciprocate my feelings?
Q. I've liked this boy from afar for about 15 months now, and haven't really spoken to him one on one. Last night, I was out at a club and we ended up speaking and spent most of the night kissing. I think it was just a few drunken kisses (we both kis...
A. 11 January 2009: If you got his number either just give him a bell or a straight forward text telling him you had a good time and do you fancy meeting up for a few?
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Would this be classified as incest?
Q. Hi i have a little problem im 14 and currently single. Now you may get confused with this ok? Im in love with my uncles girfriends brother who is 17. but i think he has feelings for me too. we have lots in common and is always talking. but only...
A. 11 January 2009: This would definitely not be incest.
Nor is he part of your immediate family he also isn't related to you by blood...
0ne could say you aren't related to him at all, even when your uncle marries his girlfriend.
To put things in to perspective,... (read in full...)
Visiting America and VISA's??
Q. Ok. I'm planning on going to Philadelphia towards the end of summer for a week or so. Do I need a Visa of any sort? I didn't think I needed one as it isn't for a long time period however my mum told me differently. Help?...
A. 9 January 2009: cheers Gina
you've helped me ALOT!
:)... (read in full...)
Confidence when giving a bj?
Q. How can I feel more confident when giving my boyfriend a blow job? I've been doing it for a while now and I don't really have a major problem with it or anything. The only real problem I have is that I don't like doing it when it's quiet becau...
A. 9 January 2009: Well... Apart from moaning, gurgling...the odd eye contact definitely wont go unnoticed by your partner. trust me that alone will send him under a spell. I normally tend to give my bf a blowjob before we have intercourse. Sometimes you find yours... (read in full...)
Does this make me...well... a slut?
Q. OK. Again similar to my previous questions... I will condense what could definitely be an essay worth sized question down to a simple straight-forward, all rounded question. OK. I've had many relationships in the past. Some I would say were ...
A. 9 January 2009: Cheers guys.
You've all individually helped me to look at things in perspective.
Maybe, I am being too harsh on myself afterall.
x... (read in full...)
Oh lord... he's come back to me again??!!
Q. Let me condense this essay worth of a question down to a simple yet truthful question. I started casually dating this man who was not only dry humoured, overly sarcastic and independant but gradually as the relationship progressed; showed many ...
A. 8 January 2009: awww cheers babe!... (read in full...)
Should I continue to pursue this online relationship, or is it a waste of my time?
Q. Here it is, one of the most oft-used opening statements in any relationship question asked on any site like this one; I met a girl online. Yeah, there it is. Just to get it out of the way (because I see stupid comments like this in any question ...
A. 8 January 2009: If deep down you feel its worth it...then do it.
If you can surrender to the barriers and leap across the many hurdles you both will face from now on...then do it. If you feel you love him...then do it. If you feel like its self-destructive, you ... (read in full...)
Oh lord... he's come back to me again??!!
Q. Let me condense this essay worth of a question down to a simple yet truthful question. I started casually dating this man who was not only dry humoured, overly sarcastic and independant but gradually as the relationship progressed; showed many ...
A. 8 January 2009: Thanks guys.
I can say for a fact, you both have honestly helped me put things into perspective.
Its just a case of moving on again unfortunately.
Much love,
Linds
x... (read in full...)
Why are men so bothered about the size of their penis????
Q. I know men will never get over this, but why on earth are they so obsessed with penis size? Personally I think a large penis is not that enjoyable, as it just hurts. What is wrong with a nice 5 or 6 inch average penis? Why do they always have...
A. 8 January 2009: without sounding explicit, its become a personal thing for me. as im introduced to new partners with new penises of course...ive always got the peak penis size floating in the back of my mind and i cant help but compare. i am generally more ... (read in full...)
Good idea? I put condom on a banana and used it
Q. Dear cupid, Am i a freak? I was sitting in my room bored with nothing to do. It was a guy friend texting me telling me all these freaky toughts he was having about me. While later on that night I was kind of horny. So i went and got a banana a...
A. 8 January 2009: i tried that. were girls its normal, dont we all wanna try everything kinky at some stage in life? the banana split...and i was left was banana gooey gunk sunk to the bottom of the condom. after that, i cant say ive tried doing it again :/... (read in full...)
My little sister is obsessed when it comes to guys, how can I make her see sense?
Q. Hey guys, I need some help... it's not for me but I'm really worried for my younger sister, she seems to absolutely obsessed when it comes to guys... she's only 15 and she does everything in her power to so called "pull". I love her so much but am ...
A. 8 January 2009: You've probably heard this from several people before...But shes going through that "phase".
Its like an addiction. Giving her that tad bit of confidence boost all girls crave (exp at her age), meeting new people, the fascination to experience alot... (read in full...)
If you love somebody would you be with them no matter what it takes?
Q. I've been married for 3 years now and no longer love my wife... I believe I am still with her only because I don't want to see her fall again before we were married... I rushed into this marriage only knowing her for 2 months and I work out-of-state ...
A. 8 January 2009: What a tough cookie of a question. There seems to be no apparent, obvious solution. No comprimise or in a matter of fact no right or wrong answer. Make the other half remain happy by maintaining a marriage which lacks the ticking of many boxes in ... (read in full...)
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