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Hairy chest--what do you do with it?

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Question - (10 January 2009) 14 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2013)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

For guys and girls... This is the first time I have dated a guy who has a really hairy chest. When getting intimate with him, besides just running my fingers through it, what else can I do? Girls, what kinds of things do you do? and Guys, what kinds of things do you like done?

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A male reader, almorr United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2013):

That is great that your boyfriend has a hairy chest, I do as well, never shaved or waxed the hair off ever in my life. You ask what makes a guy feel great when his girlfriend or wife plays with the hair. My wife likes to gently stroke the hair or pull it very gently when we are in bed making love, this of course can prolong our lovemaking. Many a time she has said to me that IF there were no hairs on my chest she would be lost not gently stroking, pulling all the hair that I have. Remember be very gentle when doing that, you do not want to pull the hair off on anything like that.

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A male reader, almorr United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2012):

That is wonderful, you heard it on the news that hairy chests are back, as far as I am concerned they were NEVER away. I have a hairy chest, I have never shaved or waxed it ever, in fact some people have commented on seeing it that it is as hairy as a werewolf, that is their opinion, but I am not that hairy, just all over my chest but not that much that you cannot see the skin, some guys are like that, just a bit too hairy for my liking.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009):

Every guy is different - some guys will like it when you play with their chest hair and some don't. So the most important thing is what he likes.

Personally, I have a hairy chest and stomach and I love it when my boyfriend plays with it. Try running your fingers through the hair, licking it, pulling on it with your lips, rubbing your hands on it in circles. And compliment him on it. If his chest hair turns you on then tell him. These things always get me going.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009):

I like to sit on it and get it very very wet, while squirming all around in the fur of my partner (s) They like it and so do I. You will never want to go back to a hairless guy after that erotic experience.

JMHO

Amber, age 23

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009):

This just in: Hairy Chests are Back! I saw it on the news!!! They Even had a plastic surgeon talking about hair replacement surgery for mens chests! (although in 5+ years, it'll probably will flip back)

Sorry bare chested men :) it's time to move over and give hairy guys the spotlight!

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A female reader, UnfinishedSymphony  +, writes (11 January 2009):

UnfinishedSymphony agony auntOH WOW.

I think i'm turning extremely green with envy my dear.

Instead of having a set of idea on what to do...just stop and stare at it. Use your hands, mouth...everything!

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (11 January 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntHi Friend Tom,

That sounds a lot like my Gretchen.

What's he doing? Is he misbehaving?

Gretchen has had a bad attitude lately, and she's been misbehaving a lot, but she has "issues." She was a rescue and unfortunately, I doubt that she was in loving hands with her previous owner. :(

If he's being bad, he needs some obedience training, and lots of love, of course. Dogs are social animals and love attention. :)

Off on a tangent, I know. But we all love our dogs. I'd like to hear more about him. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009):

SirenaBlusera! I had no such thoughts! (lol) I have a German Shepherd myself. He is only six months old, but he thinks I am his servant...Where did I go wrong? He was just weaned when I got him(?)(smile). I need to get him to a dog psychologist before he gets much older and starts trying to run the place...(lol).

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (10 January 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI clarify that it's my PET!!!

Get your mind out of the gutter, all you sickos. :)

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (10 January 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI think the question is, what are some ways to play with the chest hair during intimacy. It's almost a given that she doesn't expect him to wax or depilate in any way.

If I were a man, however, and I had chest hair, I would wax it. I might grow my head hair long, but no chest hair for me! I'm already knee deep in German Shepherd hair.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009):

Thanks to those of you who answered. It's me "anon".

I just wondered, because when we get close I like to go everywhere, and I've never kissed or sucked on a man's chest who has a lot of hair. It's just new for me. I wouldn't ask him to shave it. Lord knows i have enough hair to get rid of as a woman, God forbid we start asking our men to do the same!

Thanks for the input!

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (10 January 2009):

eddie agony auntI have a hairy chest too. I'm 45 and can't really think of anything sexy you could do to it.....maybe some cute hair clips or some lubricant to give it the salon quaffed look. You know, spiked up and sassy.......

Just kidding about that part. Many women don't like hairy chests and hair removal seems to be the rage. I can tell you that many years ago my wife happened to say on night in bed, as she ran her hand over my chest, " I love your hairy chest" It was just a random, little remark but I still remember it after many years. It made me feel good because it was a comment made out of the blue.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (10 January 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntMy boyfriend has a nice fireman's chest o' hair and while I can't think of anything kinky or sexy that I do to it, he goes crazy when I run my hands through it. He just loves his chest touched, especially when he's going to sleep.

Mmm, manly men.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009):

(smile) Well, I have a hairy chest too, anon, and to be honest, it really is no big turn on whatever you do. Hair does not have nerves. But, it is nice just to have your partner/s.o. run their fingers through it. It is a big turn-off if anyone goes "oohh! Yuk! Icky hair!" Ha!! If anyone asked me to shave it, the whole chest, I might balk. Would I have to do this from now on...just to please her? I would wonder if she was worth it. I already shave my face every day. That is a big enough pain in the arse..ermmm face...

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