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writes:How can I feel more confident when giving my boyfriend a blow job?I've been doing it for a while now and I don't really have a major problem with it or anything. The only real problem I have is that I don't like doing it when it's quiet because my mouth sometimes makes noises and sometimes I feel like I'm not doing a good job and then I kinda lose interest and then I try to avoid actually sucking it.I just want to know, how can I be more confident when doing it so I don't lose interest and how can I get over the whole noise thing?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): Thanks everyone. I won't worry about the noise next time, seeing as boys seem to like it.xx
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 While I cannot speak for every guy, the sounds that a girl makes while giving head are totally erotic to me, especially when they can take it deep. Cunnilingus for her makes slurping noises too, and I've never heard any complaints about that. Keep the music level low - slurp and gargle at will. The best sound of all is "mmm, yummy" when we finish, even if it's actually gooey and bitter. Just make sure that you get your satisfaction first.
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reader, UnfinishedSymphony  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Well...Apart from moaning, gurgling...the odd eye contact definitely wont go unnoticed by your partner. trust me that alone will send him under a spell.I normally tend to give my bf a blowjob before we have intercourse. Sometimes you find yourself sat looking away from him..as if your going to ride him reverse cowgirl style? BJ facing away from him would be alright i guess. But we can do better than that girl...When you go down on him, maintain eye contact and kiss him down his stomach..and along his inner thighs. That one stare..oozes confidence.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 January 2009):
 You know, I used to be really aware of the noises my mouth would make until my boyfriend told me that he LOVES hearing those noises. The sounds just add to the amazing experience. There's no need to be weighing yourself down being self-conscious about the noises you make, that'll just distract you and make you lose your groove while giving head.
Think about it, in porn they don't cover up those noises. They amplify them!! And hey, girl... if you really want to cover up the noise, turn on some music and that will help you keep your groove and your mind in the right place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): hey hun when your givin him a bj try new things as in music and some cream as in wipped also try suckin his balls he'll like that xx it does not only happen to you hun there as plenty of girls that it happens to xxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): My boyfriend is laying next to me and this is HIS answer lol. He says the noises are hot so why cover them up? Maybe you should get your bfs opinion. I say get your bfs opinion, maybe tell him how you feel, so that will either help you get more comfy with it, but if you just dont feel comfy with it, then I'd go for the music. All girls mouths make noises when givin bjs lol, so dont worry too much.
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reader, tinylass +, writes (8 January 2009):
 why not put some music on while you are doing it that way it will drown out the noise.
hope it helps good luck x
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