Boyfriend is not ashamed of being nude in front of others...
Q. Last night, we had around 20 people over for a New Years party, and I was trying to fall asleep a little later in the night. I was nearly asleep when someone ran to the bathroom (which is right outside of my room) to inform his girlfriend that my ...
A. 1 August 2011: I finally dumped him on May 31st, and I'm with a great guy who has been wanting to get with me for a long time. We're going through a little bit of a tough time, but it's just the situation we're in.
And he shares my view on the "owning" thing, s... (read in full...)
How do I dump him?
Q. I've been with this guy since October 28th, 2007. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up here shortly, but I find myself not being in love with him anymore. I'll try to make this as short as I can. He was in the Army when I met him, but he hadn...
A. 1 August 2011: Alrighty, guys. I dumped him! I left him May 31st, because he thought I was cheating on him. Funny, right? Anyway, I'm with a really great guy who treats me well, and never does any of that sneaky, underhanded stuff that I had become so very ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is not ashamed of being nude in front of others...
Q. Last night, we had around 20 people over for a New Years party, and I was trying to fall asleep a little later in the night. I was nearly asleep when someone ran to the bathroom (which is right outside of my room) to inform his girlfriend that my ...
A. 11 January 2011: Chigirl, I'm assuming that you're not currently in a relationship, or have never been in a very strong one. Anyway, you said that exposing himself isn't cheating. I suppose this is true.
But neither is buying a woman a drink at a bar. No sexual c... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is not ashamed of being nude in front of others...
Q. Last night, we had around 20 people over for a New Years party, and I was trying to fall asleep a little later in the night. I was nearly asleep when someone ran to the bathroom (which is right outside of my room) to inform his girlfriend that my ...
A. 9 January 2011: Well, he was drunk, but he was adult enough to say that he wasn't going to blame being drunk on his behavior.
And he doesn't have an occupation. He used to be in the military, but went AWOL for a few reasons.
And to that person that said "What ... (read in full...)
I'm tempted to have a one night stand and maybe get it out of my system but I really don't want to hurt my boyfriend... Help!
Q. Hi I've been in a gay relationship now for four and a half years. Not long after getting with my boyfriend I found out he was chatting to other lads on the internet and swapping naked pictures. When I found out and confronted him about it he said...
A. 1 January 2011: Stop sending pictures, and do NOT cheat on him. It will most likely become a habit. Break up with him if you want to have sex with others. It's not right to put your partner through these things!... (read in full...)
Boyfriend watching nude pictures!!!
Q. I am in a committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months. its a ldr.recently i visited my bf.we had lots of fun and even sex. but during sex his p***s was not so erect.i don't know whats the reason behind it. after i came back i checked my bf's ...
A. 1 January 2011: Dear, I watch porn all the time, and I'm a woman. It has nothing to do with how well your partner is. It's just that sometimes you want to get the job done yourself. I don't believe watching porn is cheating, as long as you don't actually know ... (read in full...)
My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?
Q. So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's ...
A. 1 January 2011: YES, it is cheating. She is with you, but is still flaunting her body to other people - her ex of all of the people in the world.... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's boyfriend, what should I do?
Q. Okay, this might be quite lengthy but please try to bear with me, I'm really confused and desperately need some advice! :/ I'm male, 16, from the UK. And there's this guy. He's just perfect... he's funny, witty and so god damn sexy. He's roman...
A. 1 January 2011: It's really quite simple. He has a girlfriend, which makes him off-limits. Unless the girl is into sharing. Other than that, keep your hands off of him and your comments to yourself. Would you want someone trying to "steal away" a guy/girl that you ... (read in full...)
We have a mutual understanding about harmless flirting, but should I tell me Fiance I told a guy to meet up with me?
Q. Ive been with my fiance for nearly four years. Im very happy with him although we r not havg as much sex as i wud like. We ave discussed this and are working on it. A few months back we wer both at a bday party and so drunk we both cant remember ...
A. 20 February 2010: Flirting is cheating. Flirting will lead to more serious things, like what you are currently doing: asking someone to meet up with you. Stop the flirting, and do NOT meet up with this person. You will regret it.... (read in full...)
Is going to a striptease cheating?
Q. Hi, It's been 4months I got married. Few days back when we were talking about the adult store I asked my husband if he ever went to striptease. He said his friends arranged a bachelor's party for him there so he went to that place. Its just a week b...
A. 20 February 2010: It is cheating. He was looking at someone else in a sexual way. It doesn't matter if it was a bachelor party or not; he was engaged to you, so he was NOT single, and he acted wrongly.
Guys always say it's "their last night as a single man," bu... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me and I need to find a way to forgive him!
Q. My husband cheated on me with a married woman. I found out by accident and it has wrecked what was a great relationship between he and I. He is sorry, won't do it again, blah blah blah. We have a stormy road ahead as I can't let it go. We have ...
A. 19 February 2010: I think her husband should know that she betrayed him. You don't have to tell him, because the truth will most likely come out.
And it's good that you want to forgive him. It's only natural that you want to know all that happened, and you deserve ... (read in full...)
Is it right to give an engagement ring during an argument?
Q. Is it a bad idea to give a engagement ring during a argument or a break up to try to mend things back together if you really love that person?...
A. 19 February 2010: I don't think it is. Proposing to someone in the middle of an argument can make you unfairly win the argument. "I hate you so much right now... aww, you want to marry me? This changes everything. I love you!!"
Just wait to propose. Wait until th... (read in full...)
I really like my professor but I don't know what to do!
Q. I really have a big problem, because I really can't admit that I really do like my professor, and I am not already the kind of student before, when I still do not have the feelings for him yet. I am a first year college student and I'm 16, also, my ...
A. 19 February 2010: No, no, and NO! Do not peruse anything with him. He can get in a lot of trouble if he is caught doing anything with a student. If you really care for him, do not make a move. It WILL end badly.... (read in full...)
Can't help looking at other women and thinking about them sexually! But I love my fiance.
Q. I have a wondeful Fiancé. We've been going out for over 9 years. The problem is that she is the only woman i've ever been with - I always had low self esteem - and lately i've found myself looking at other women and wondering what it would be like ...
A. 19 February 2010: It's fine to think about, as long as you keep it all to yourself. Don't let it be known to anyone else. As long as it's in your mind, no harm is going to come of it.... (read in full...)
Straight man with homoerotic thoughts?
Q. I'm straight but I've recently questioned my sexuality because I started liking penis. I don't think I have homosexual tendencies because I have absolutely no "emotional" or "romantic" attraction towards men and don't want to start a relationship ...
A. 19 February 2010: This may just be a phase. Many people go through it, but refuse to admit it. I think everyone has bisexual tendencies, but not everyone acts on them. You are quite young, so it may either be a turning point in your life, or just curiosity.... (read in full...)
Wife no longer interested in sex; is it OK to look elsewhere?
Q. Hi there everyone, Mike here, new to the site but isn't it good? I have a problem, we've been married over 35 years and we hav'nt had sex for the last 22 of them, we've not fallen out in fact we're far better together than when we had sex, but just...
A. 19 February 2010: It is VERY wrong, Mike. You are married to her; you made a vow to be with her for the rest of your life. If she doesn't want sex, then that is her decision, and do not pressure her.
If it is bothering you that much, speak with her about it.
H... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps talking about his ex...
Q. I've been in a relationship with a man who I've been living with for 1.5 years. He is committed to me and acts in ways that confirm this. But he still mentions or references his ex--sometimes once a week! He tells me what the weather is like in her ...
A. 19 February 2010: He is obviously not over her. This doesn't mean that he doesn't want to be with you. Just look at what you said: "She cheated on him 3 times in their 10 years together but he was the one who always went back to her."
He was, and still seems to... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with my boyfriend of 5 months and am worried it is too soon. What do you think?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months. Im 27 hes 30.i have a 5 yr old daughter which he treats like his own. We are very much in love we dont live together but see each other all the time. Ive just found out im pregnant. Weve had conversations ...
A. 19 February 2010: Yes, it is way too early in my opinion. It's too early to even be discussing marriage, children, moving in together. Five months isn't enough time to get to know someone, at least on a relationship-level.
Then again, this is my opinion. It's you... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband of 4 years to be more affectionate?
Q. My husband of soon 4yrs is no longer affectionate towards me. I tried talking to him about it and he says I'm annoying that I always want attention! when we dated he always wanted to be with me held my hand everywhere, why would I think he would ...
A. 19 February 2010: In some ways, counseling is a waste of money. You fork over hundreds of dollars to be told things that both of you already know deep down.
Sometimes love fades. I'm not saying that he no longer loves you, he is just having a hard time showing ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about my period sickness?
Q. Hello, I take to my periods very badly.. Every time I get my periods I experience Dizzyness, Feel very sick, Sore Heads, Bad moods, very sore stomach, and loose my appetite .. Should I be concerned? Thanks...
A. 19 February 2010: I suffer from this about %70 of the time. It usually only lasts the first two days, and then for the remainder, it's gone. What I do is take a few aspirin, Tylenol or any type of pain killer and rest.... (read in full...)
Why do women not mention their husbands in a positive way?
Q. Why do married women with kids never mention there husbands in a way you feel they are in a happy marriage. For example, I was talking to a lady who lost everything in a flood and she mentioned she will miss the kids pictures those types of m...
A. 18 February 2010: Men rarely speak of their wives in a positive light, either. Husbands and wives have to work closely together to make their day-to-day lives work, and one or both of them tend to get lazy and not hold up their ends of the deal, so they both slowly ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in jail, I send him money, he used to cheat, should I leave or wait for him
Q. my boyfriend in jail for escape.he got one year for it but the thing is when he was home he show me and my kids no attention bt i love him but to set this whole question off i got locked up behind him treating me like cramp and he wrote me once and ...
A. 18 February 2010: Leave him, I think. He doesn't seem willing to straighten himself out for you or your kids. It isn't worth it.... (read in full...)
Our parents got married, now they say we have to split!
Q. I got enganged 1 year ago to "stepbrother" - well he wasnt till 2 mounth ago. both my parents and both his parents were devorsed, and my mam and his dad have been very good friends since we got together, and 2 months ago they went on a cruise and ...
A. 18 February 2010: Don't break up. You were together first. It's not right of them to ask you to break up just because they are now married.... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I can't get a girlfriend
Q. I'm 15 and I've been single for about a year. And I'm trying to get a girlfriend but I can't. Any tips? ...
A. 18 February 2010: You're fifteen. Don't worry about finding a girl.... (read in full...)
We have set a wedding date and I am on probation for beating up a woman he had sex with
Q. Me and Alex have been together for 2 yrs in the second month dating i kissed another guy then around the 6 month i sent some (pics) to a different guy then we went to a club and i danced with sum1 he claims the guy was grabbing me but he wasnt ...
A. 18 February 2010: Let me say this: You two are not ready for marriage. You are cheating on one another, and acting like children. Put off the wedding until you get your acts together.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my same sex teacher
Q. I am a 13 year old girl and im in love with my female karate teacher weve known eachother for almost 3 years, she is married and has 2 children with her husband ( my other karate teacher) 1 child is 2 1/2 and the other is 8 months, when i dont see ...
A. 18 February 2010: She is married and has children. The right thing to do is back off and let her carry on with her life. If you love her, you will want her to be happy, even if you're not the cause.... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: She had sex with two guys. You had sex with five girls. Five is greater than two. If you consider sleeping with two people a slut, perhaps you should look at yourself first.... (read in full...)
Is a body fat percentage of 11% a turn off for guys?
Q. Am i too thin or muscly and does this turn guys on or off? Im 5 foot 3 inches, have a bmi of 20 but my body fat is really low at 11%. I am quite muscly because I dance and climb a lot, but is having so little body fat a turn off to guys? Also, do ...
A. 18 February 2010: All guys are different. Some like fat, chubby or skinny. And don't even try to live to please guys. There is no way to win. Just please yourself.... (read in full...)
What does it feel like to receive oral sex?
Q. this is a bit of a rude question but im really curious to know what it feels like to recieve oral sex. can anybody describe it. does it feel weird? im worried i wont like it. im a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have done everything else and now ...
A. 18 February 2010: It might feel weird at first. When my boyfriend and I got together, I was a complete virgin; never did a single thing, even kissing. When he gave me oral sex, it wasn't very pleasurable at all, but now it's great, and it's my favorite thing to do.
... (read in full...)
I'm white, my BF is black, and I find ebony porn on my computer every so often.
Q. *OPs own title* First of all, my boyfriend tries to deny that he watches porn for the purpose of sexual excitement--as Myself, I have no problem with porn. I'll be the first to admit that I watched plenty of it when I was single, and I wouldn't mind...
A. 18 February 2010: Don't stress about this. It's really no big deal. Perhaps I look up, for example, lesbian porn, but I have a boyfriend. It doesn't mean that I no longer want to be with my boyfriend. It just means that I wish to live out a fantasy without cheating.... (read in full...)
How do I carry on after my partners affair?
Q. after being together for many years,i found out that my partner had been having a sexual affair with a female work colleague of his.this occurred as i was recovering from breast cancer.previous to this i thought we were happy in our life.obviously ...
A. 18 February 2010: I wouldn't even try to make it work. He did something horrible. You could have died, and all he was worrying about was who to have sex with. It was perfectly fine for him to do it, so long as you were ignorant to the whole thing.
Don't give him... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a boyfriend of 5 years to refuse to go to my Aunts funeral?
Q. My aunt just died yesterday. I'm just wondering if it's wrong for my boyfriend of 5 years to not want to go to her funeral with me? This is pretty much all new to me. I have never been to a funeral or known someone close to me that has died. I am 27 ...
A. 18 February 2010: He might be like me. I just don't like going to funerals if I didn't know the person very well. It's kind of disrespectful to go to a near-strangers' funeral.
Then again, if you're asking him to go just for support reasons, he really should o... (read in full...)
Is he intentionally being cruel to me?
Q. I'm so upset right now. My ex was brn premature, like i was, and he was born with one leg shorter than the other, and he also has scoliosis in his back, so he has a lot of pain. He found out this week that its so bad now that he might need a ...
A. 18 February 2010: People who are depressed can rarely see passed the haze of hurt that they feel for themselves. They are almost always angry - whether it be at things, people or just angry in general. He probably wants to be with you deep down, but right now ... (read in full...)
To stay or to go...that is the question...
Q. *OPs own title* My husband and I are about to have our 10 year anniversary and I don't want to be together anymore. Now don't get me wrong I didn't just wake up and decide this. Let me start at the beginning. He didn't want to marry me, he just did ...
A. 18 February 2010: First of all, you married for the wrong reasons. You should never, and I mean NEVER "stay together for the kids." Don't sacrifice your happiness for some guy that obviously doesn't care for you. He is trying to cripple you emotionally and mentally. ... (read in full...)
My parents have been married 25 years and now suddenly my dad seems to be bi and cheating on my mum!
Q. Ive just found emails that my dad has sent and received from various men, and there sexually explicit. My parents have been married 25 years and now suddenly my dad seems to be bi and cheating on my mum. I have no idea whether he has done anything, ...
A. 18 February 2010: I think it's best to tell her. "I'd rather cry over the truth than smile over a lie." He has made these completely conscious decisions, and he is married. Your mother deserves to know. If you were married, or even just dating, I think you'd ... (read in full...)
How do I dump him?
Q. I've been with this guy since October 28th, 2007. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up here shortly, but I find myself not being in love with him anymore. I'll try to make this as short as I can. He was in the Army when I met him, but he hadn...
A. 12 October 2009: Thanks for the help, everyone, even if your advice was a bit harsh. I talked to my family, and my brother said that if I want him to, he'll come over Tuesday or Wednesday to get me. I know it won't be too easy on me, but I'll try to be strong.... (read in full...)
18 months later and b/f still doesn't have a job..time to leave?
Q. Please can you advise me although I think I may know the answer already.... I have been with my current boyfriend for 18 months after being friends for about 4 years. Previously I had always gone for 'bad' boys and was in a relationship where th...
A. 12 October 2009: That's horrible that he's gone this long without a job. It would be a different story if he was at least looking... I'm guessing he either plays RuneScape or World of Warcraft?
When you get the chance, ask him why he can't look for a job online w... (read in full...)
Should I stay because I did wrong and I deserve this?
Q. Hello well i feel really confused and i need some advice. I have been married for 2 years. After a couple of months of marriage i found out my husband met up with another woman in an inappropriate way (he says he didn't sleep with her) after that i ...
A. 12 October 2009: It is most certainly NOT your fault. Getting revenge the way that you did wasn't the best way to handle it, but it doesn't make it your fault.
If I were you, I'd just leave him and start over fresh. And please, don't be so vengeful in the future. ... (read in full...)
How can we marry when his parents hate me?
Q. I bet you've heard this one before: His parents don't like me. However, my case is VERY different. Here's how: Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and a half live in the U.S. And his parents live in Eastern Europe. So far I've tried everything to make ...
A. 11 October 2009: Well, if you truly love him, you can try to work around his cruel parents. If nothing you do is good enough for them, then just stop trying to impress them.
I understand that family is important to you, but it doesn't have to be a huge deal. Wh... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend that his girlfriend kissed me?
Q. I have a good male friend that has a girlfrind that he has been dating for a few months.She is a really cool person,but for the last month or so,i having been getting this flirty vibe from her.At first i thought that i was tripping a little bit ...
A. 11 October 2009: I think you should tell him. She cheated, and I think anyone would like to be told when their boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on them, no matter how much it hurts.
And you did right in fleeing when she started doing it. Most people would have jus... (read in full...)
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