Should I tell her husband she was cheating on him?
Q. ok, so I was seeing a girl who lied to me...I later found out she was married. Apparently the husband was away overseas; she has gotten back together with him and has cut off all communication with me. My question is should I email/ tell the ...
A. 17 September 2009: Frank b is right on this one. Snitches get stiches.Dont hate the player hate the game. She obviously loves her husband realized her mistake and thats why she cut all the communication. Its not like shes leading you on right now so get over it.Put an ... (read in full...)
Females only, please: I'm in love with my sister!
Q. Probably I'm gonna get flamed here but I'm just curious if there are people out there like me and my sister. Everything started out as kid play. We both loved our Barbies and dressed up as princesses. We made up these stories about being save...
A. 16 September 2009: I dont want to call this weird but Im curious to understand your situation. Im sur that as children most of us have played the hide and go get it game. Or played house and got a little curious., but as we get older society morals and I dont know ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel she see's right through me...
Q. I just wish she loved me. We've been together for 7 years and have 2 children. I love her, in love with her, she isn't. It's reaching obsession point now and I'm craving affection and her love. I want to marry her but she won't marry me. I adore her ...
A. 15 September 2009: she doesnt appreciate you. theres gotta be more to this story.... (read in full...)
Husband told me he liked small breasts now he tells me that mine are too small!
Q. Hi guys, I have never had problem with my breast,I have always liked small breast,and i have even been asking god I hope they never grow and they always stay small. before I get married I asked my husband if he likes small breast or big one.his a...
A. 15 September 2009: i knew he wouldnt appreciate a dick joke. most can dish less can take it. Im not saying hes a bad person hes probably not. my brother is this way with his wife with jokes only he thinks are funny but that is just his personality hes really not a bad ... (read in full...)
Am I making a decision based on rationality or am I just fed up?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live together in my home and have children from previous relationships. He is still married and trying to get custody of his children. The children live here 1 week and at their mother's for another ...
A. 13 September 2009: Your husband sounds like hes depressed. He needs some zoloft & some therapy.... (read in full...)
I"m in love with my wife's sister...I want to marry her!
Q. i am and have been overwhelmingly in love with my sister in-law (my wife's sister). first u must understand my wife and i are not in love with each other and haven't slept or been intimate with each other for a least 10 years. i had a few chances ...
A. 13 September 2009: Shes your wife's sister dude. PLAIN AND SIMPLY OFF LIMITS. Dont do that to your wifes family. You dont love someone it ok, move on. In life we all got to have some boundaries, morals. Marrying your wifes sister, highly immoral. What ever your ... (read in full...)
Should I stay secretly unhappy in love?
Q. I need help? I am in a de-facto relationship of 18 months, we have bought a lovely home together. I love him very much but unfortunately it is the old hollywood line "I love him but I'm not IN love with him". I don't want to hurt him, I thought I ...
A. 13 September 2009: You cannot be with someone you dont love it will make you bitter and him too,in the end. However when you are in love you cant expect to for it to be rainbows and lollipops allday everyday. real love goes thru stages. sometimes when you love someone ... (read in full...)
I don't like sex, it's despicable, what do you think?
Q. I don't like sex, I never have and I don't think I ever will. I'm not asexual, I'm anti-sexual. For me, sex has a negative impact on a relationship not a positive. I think as a man, if you have a sexual relationships with a women they ...
A. 12 September 2009: Your pretty judgemental youself there buddy. You want a woman whos physically attractive but doesnt want to fornicate. I mean that soundd just as shallow if you ask me. If you dont want to have sex then dont. whatever floats your boat but dont pick ... (read in full...)
Relationship where we've never had sex, he's never said I love you
Q. Hi I am a 28 year old woman and have been in a relationship with a 32 year old guy for over 3 years now. He has never said I love you to me. Also he will not have sex with me- we have never even slept in the same bed. He always has an excuse and we ...
A. 12 September 2009: This guy sounds strange and suspect. I dont get it. Ive never heard nothing like this before. Ive heard off giving a person time ,but damn! personally couldnt be me you cant even sleep in the bed with me? Nah something isnt right. I suggest you get ... (read in full...)
He left me for another man!
Q. my bf and i've were 2gether for a year and half and i love him i do i really do but he says that the feeling is not mutual he likes men.... he is gay.... i felt like i wanted to pass out. what am i going to do he left me for another guy! am I that ...
A. 12 September 2009: Your not useless at all.He wasa gay the day he wans born when he met you and he will remain that way until he dies. Its nothing that you did, thats life. You have nothing to feel bad or insecure about. You are a a real woman and are capable of ... (read in full...)
He's married and I want him back!
Q. I just got back in contact with my ex that i was truly in love with but he cheated and left me for another women and married her. Years later I moved into a certain area and he stayed across the street from me. We talk and got caught up with one ...
A. 12 September 2009: I can understand your need for revenge. Despite what anyone on here says were all human and most of us dont like to be hurt and when we are we want to get back at the other person. As they say hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. However in your ... (read in full...)
I had a terrible accident 4 years ago and my girlfriend has looked after me, but now I find out she has been talking to a guy behind my back
Q. Hi‚ I,ve been in this relationship for 9 yrs and we live together. I was in an accident 4 yrs ago, I almost lost my life. She's been helping me with everything because I'm in a wheelchair, I have to learn to walk again but she been there for me. ...
A. 12 September 2009: I think its awesome that you have someone thats been there for you thru this difficult situation. I suspect that theres more to it than you sleeping on the couch. I think you should communicate with her more openly and show her more love and ... (read in full...)
Why do women have checklists for potential boyfriends? Is it all about box ticking?
Q. Ok so this is really a question for men who have been through the same thing and women who have told a guy this and what it really meant for them. I'm in love with this girl for quite some time now. She is my best friend. So much so that I d...
A. 12 September 2009: We women tend to be over analytical about everything. We wait a lifetime for the guy on the white horse to sweep us off our feet.... (read in full...)
B/f is friends with his first love again, I feel jealous!
Q. when it comes to my boyfriend's ex i never really used to have a problem with her. before me she was his first love and as teenagers they were together for about between 18 mths to 2 yrs. they broke up and it just happened that i was his shoulder ...
A. 12 September 2009: It might be innocent. Mostly I think your jealousy comes from your own insecurity about yourself. I dont care how much weight she lost or how much better looking you perceive her to be. Dont let anyone take yourself confidence. You have to have the ... (read in full...)
I want to get closer to him but don't want him to think I'm feeling sorry for him
Q. I have been in a troubled relationship and noticed it morewhen I started developing a crush on my hairdresser - single parent. His dad died of prostrate cancer. It never went anywhere the crush I believe was two ways as I could tell by the way he ...
A. 12 September 2009: A STRAIGHT MALE HAIR DRESSER! Wow never seen one of those. Just converse with him on a friendship level. Im pretty sure he will know your intentions.... (read in full...)
Married have a lover but now he wants to cool it
Q. im a 24year old female and have be with my man for 8years.and married 3years...the last 2months i have been with a married man and he told me that he thinks hes falling in love with me and i feel the same but he said for to cool it for a while..im ...
A. 12 September 2009: Why people choose to cheat instead of just being real is beyond me I still dont get it. He probably wants to cool so you dont get caught or because hes not feeling you anymore or maybe hes having some type of remorse. He could also be tired of being ... (read in full...)
Husband told me he liked small breasts now he tells me that mine are too small!
Q. Hi guys, I have never had problem with my breast,I have always liked small breast,and i have even been asking god I hope they never grow and they always stay small. before I get married I asked my husband if he likes small breast or big one.his a...
A. 12 September 2009: umm when he met you he knew you where part of the itty bitty titty commitee so he shouldnt have a problem with them now. maybe hes saying that because hes mad his ass got fat and want to give you a reason to feel bad with him and since you are ... (read in full...)
How do I prove something I'm not doing?
Q. My husband and i have a rocky marriage and have been trying to decide if we should divorce. He thinks im cheating on him but im not. Ive only been acting weird because i dont know what to do about us. I keep telling him im not cheating and that i ...
A. 12 September 2009: Hes going to belive what he want he has issues. Probably insecurities I dont know maybe genetics, it could be a number of things. What ever the problem is its not your problem its his. If he loves you hes got to stop all that nonsense. Talk to him ... (read in full...)
B/f cheated on me with ex
Q. I have been in a relationship with a guy for the past 9 mos. When we started dating he had came out of a 10 year relationship and had a 6 month old son with his ex. I was hesitant about dating him at first because of this and had told him on quite a ...
A. 12 September 2009: This guy is an idiot! Well hes definetly earned his player stripes. Because hes making an ass out of you and especially the other girl. And you both lety him. Why? Everything your mom told you about this guy is true. Momma knows best! Im going to ... (read in full...)
My partner of four years is driving me insane!
Q. my partner of four years is driving me insane, we have had some very great times and some very bad times, he had to move out becuse of problems he is having and i speak to him horribly, he has lied to me, gone behind my back and mad me feel like ...
A. 12 September 2009: You did the right thing. I know it seems harsh but you are not his meal ticket. There is no reason why a grown ass man cant get a job & fend for himself. That isnt your problem . What is his problem? I her McDonalds is hiring all over the world. ... (read in full...)
I want him to be part of our daughter's life after he gets out of jail ...
Q. My daughters father was brought up in an insane household.. honestly his mother believes in all types of religions and his father would cheat. when i found out that i was pregnant with my daughter he left and started dating numerous other girls. i ...
A. 12 September 2009: girl what ever hes feeding you now is called jail talk. hes in jail bored an feeling vulnerable.. when he gets out you will see what imean he will get back in his routine and wont be even thinking about you & your girl. leave him alone. not to ... (read in full...)
Friends and family are judging my guy on his appearance.
Q. Hi. Recently, I decided I'd introduce my boyfriend to my friends. I met him through the internet and we had an online relationship until we met some months ago. Of course all of them didn't believe such thing as internet relationships could ever ...
A. 12 September 2009: who are you trying to please sweety? the only pperson that opinion counts in this mtter is your own . diffrent strokes for diffrent folks. who cares what superficial ppl think.opinions are like assholes everyone has one. i wouldnt worry about it . ... (read in full...)
He turned off his phone and wouldn't tell me where he was -- did he cheat?
Q. ive been with my bf for nearly 2 years but he recently went out and didnt turn up until the early hours of the morning, he loves me but do u think hes cheatd on me ? (he turnd his fone off and wouldnt tell me were he was)...
A. 12 September 2009: anything is possible. if he did that to me id probably suspect yes. but at the same time maybe not. are you one of those girls that act super jealous,insecure & stalks him every chance you get? if yes you could of just pissed him off or he needed ... (read in full...)
How do I show him I'm glad that we're not friends?
Q. I broke up with my friend yesterday, he was annoying. He used to lie about small things for example, the shops he bought his clothes from. He gave me stares which totally freaked me out and would sit very close to me that I could practically not ...
A. 12 September 2009: if hes ugly is it really relevant? i mean, who cares? you alreaady broke up the friendship, so just let it go. its not even worth it if he talks about other ppl its probably because hes insecure & lacking in something himself. why do you care? he ... (read in full...)
Is it unusual not to have your father give you away at your wedding and have your brother do it instead?
Q. I'm getting married soon (yay!) and I'm worried about that tradition where the father of the bride gives her away. You see, my dad was never around...I think I've met him on 3 or 4 occasions and never had more than a superficial conversation with ...
A. 11 September 2009: your wedding is about what makes you happy. my brother got married in june and the brides mother walked her down the isle and i was my brothers best man woman! we had a great time all the brides maids walk down th isle like a cat walk in a fashion ... (read in full...)
I cant stand his accusations any more!
Q. I don't know if this is abuse or not. I have been dating my boyfriend (he is from Europe) for almost a year and a half. It started a year ago when he would tell me that I am looking at other men (when I don't) and that I wanted to be with other men ...
A. 11 September 2009: No. You are definetely not being overly dramatic. I used to be with someone like this. I had to seek therapy because like you he destroyed me as aperson. from the sounds of it he has done quite a # on you . the reason he says these things it not ... (read in full...)
He's married and I want him back!
Q. I just got back in contact with my ex that i was truly in love with but he cheated and left me for another women and married her. Years later I moved into a certain area and he stayed across the street from me. We talk and got caught up with one ...
A. 11 September 2009: i gotta jump on the band wagon =(... sorry dead ass wrong. two wrongs dont make it right. as enticing as it sound nah uh dont do it. plus hes used goods he hurt you once. he will have no problem doing it again. history repeats itself. hope your ... (read in full...)
Desperate for answers... please...
Q. I am a gay woman in a 2 year relationship with my partner. I also have a 5 year old beautiful, intelligent little girl. My partner is extremely strict with my child and only shows her affection when we have company around us. This is hurting me ...
A. 10 September 2009: im sorrry if i sound harsh... its just that i had a boyfriend who used to be the same with my son.maybe more extreme than your case. my son is a very sensitive loving little boy. he would get jealous my sons and my relationship. call my son a ... (read in full...)
She just keeps hooking up with her ex
Q. I've been seeing the girl of my dreams off and on for about 2 months now. She was suddenly dumped by her ex about 6 months ago who she had dated for about 2 years. Everyone I know say he is a absolute jerk and hated that she was dating him, but ...
A. 10 September 2009: oh honey theres options you can keep being aa fool for he theres one. theres nothing worst than a blind man that doesnt want to see... you know that pain you get in your gut? its telling you shes a lying snake and you know it. how can you say she ... (read in full...)
Desperate for answers... please...
Q. I am a gay woman in a 2 year relationship with my partner. I also have a 5 year old beautiful, intelligent little girl. My partner is extremely strict with my child and only shows her affection when we have company around us. This is hurting me ...
A. 10 September 2009: children require more than juslt finacial stability... they need love and support. it is incredibly unfair for you to have to ask a person to pretend your daughter is your household pet. give me a break . you deserve better and your daughter ... (read in full...)
He keeps talking about his ex all the time and it's driving me nuts!
Q. I am dating a wonderful man than I just met a couple of month ago. Everything is great except for the fact that he wants to talk about an ex-girlfriend with whom he broke up about ten years ago. He claims to have been in love with this woman. ...
A. 10 September 2009: im so happy that you told him off.. if hes upset tough tittie as they say . he has no right to be talking about her with you in that type of setting or period. if she was so great than why isnt he with her. obviously maybe he wasnt good enough. ... (read in full...)
How do you react when you break up but your ex wont give you the space to heal?
Q. you are dating someone and you break up and you don't have time to heal because they call you and act like nothing has changed and then they suggest to you to move in and act like roomates but they also say I love you and call you sweetheart and so ...
A. 10 September 2009: real love doesnt allow you to hurt another person. and when its real you know it. you dont have to think about it. sound like hes playing head games... oh he wants you but he also wants his cake. take you out of the equation and all he has is a ... (read in full...)
Desperate for answers... please...
Q. I am a gay woman in a 2 year relationship with my partner. I also have a 5 year old beautiful, intelligent little girl. My partner is extremely strict with my child and only shows her affection when we have company around us. This is hurting me ...
A. 10 September 2009: as parents it is our responsibilty to protect our children. if she doesnt love your daughter get rid of her. love hurts but your child is the most important person . she has to come first in all decisions. you can fins another woman but who is going ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make this relationship work?
Q. i've like the guy i'm dating for months and just over a month ago we finally got together. everything was going really well till recently he cancels on me without really letting me know. i'll bring up the date we're meant to be meeting and he goes ...
A. 10 September 2009: I hate to sound like a biatch but i gotta say it. He hit it & quit it. In other words the only thing he sees you having in common is in the bed. Hes not feeling you like that. And believe me honey he knows you stalk the facebook & doesnt care. Some ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be seen as a homewrecker if he leaves his girlfriend for me!
Q. I am in a bit of a messy situation. Last year I reconnected with a very old friend of mine. We have history, massive attraction and flirtation, and an emotional connection that I have never felt with any other guy before or since. The only reason ...
A. 10 September 2009: You sound like an awesome person. I think its better to keep your feelings to yourself for the time being. If by chance they come out are revealed & he feels the same way then he needs to leave her & take sometime to himself. The reason I say this ... (read in full...)
How do I stop telling the world every detail of my life?
Q. My problem.... I must not email/text everyone over every detail and tell world my news.. Not good It is like I can’t deal with my emotions, and so I have to air them to everyone else, then I say something and then feel bad, guilty or conflic...
A. 10 September 2009: I have had this problem before and its a very good question.You first have to think before you speak. The possible consequences that come attached to your words. How they make others feel. How they effect your life negatively. The power of the ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I shake myself out of this depression???
Q. Hello, I thank everyone who takes their time out to sift through my ramblings. I suppose I am lost as to what I should do. For the past year or so I have had then daunting feeling of unhappiness. I am so completely unfamiliar with this I do not re...
A. 10 September 2009: Wow believe me you are not alone. You may have a chemical imbalnce which leads you to feel like this... Everything you described is something i have felt at one point and i mean everything. First you have to makle one step. You feel lazy i know but ... (read in full...)
Should I fight for our 7 year relationship?
Q. Ok heres the layout.... Me and my wife has been together for 7 years sept 13 we have been married for the last 2 of the 7 we have a beautiful son that is turning 1 year on oct 1 i am really excited and for those of you wandering he was planned not a ...
A. 10 September 2009: I know first hand how hard it is to let go. I commen you for just letting her go. You cant make someone love you if they dont want to... Let her be... When she realizes that she made a mistake she will try and come back again.. The grass to her ... (read in full...)
Did what I said push him away?
Q. I need help. I've been dating this guy for over 2 months. while we speak each day sometimes more than once,he is never clear on the direction of where we are going. he recently invited me to a family bbq who i know pretty well and he expected...
A. 9 September 2009: I dont think your wrong for telling him how you feel & wanting to be clear on where you 2 stand. however having said thaat, there is such thing as tactfullness & also saying too much too soon. i think that men sometimes arre acccused of not telling ... (read in full...)
Should I fight for our 7 year relationship?
Q. Ok heres the layout.... Me and my wife has been together for 7 years sept 13 we have been married for the last 2 of the 7 we have a beautiful son that is turning 1 year on oct 1 i am really excited and for those of you wandering he was planned not a ...
A. 9 September 2009: Sorry but shes playing you like a piano. She sound like she wants to come homme because of the sense of security you might give her but thats it. Question is, why on eaarth do you want a woman that says shes going out disappears for 3 days comes ... (read in full...)
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