Everyone says he's a waste of space, but I can't take my mind off him!
Q. please help me! i had this boyfriend 5 years ago and we split up, but still said 'hi' if we saw each other! we both had other relationships in the last 5 years, but now im single and so is he. we keep meeting up but hes only after 1 thing from me a...
A. 26 September 2008: oh no !you have been sucked in to the "booty call "or what some guys like to call "the jump off", which means in a nutshell, after the sex he jumps off& takes you home...ofcourse he is after only 1 thing...get rid of this guy its to late for your ... (read in full...)
Am I just being silly? Please put my mind at rest!
Q. Hiya, Me and a guy im seeing slept together for the first time yesterday and now for some reason im so worried and nervous. I'm on the pill so i really dont know why? And i've never forgotten any. Am i just being silly? Please someone put m...
A. 25 September 2008: ok sweety honey child please tell me you used a condom ?... (read in full...)
I really love this girl, and I don't want to lose her. What are my best options right now?
Q. Hi there, I had been going out with my girlfriend for a year, and things were great, we never argued, we got on really well - as best friends, made each other laugh, and both really loved each other. Basically there were no problems whatsoe...
A. 25 September 2008: I think you should see her if you simply cannot help yourself ...I've been there before so that may be an option... or the better option could be to show her what it would really be like if you were out of her life, giving her the space that it ... (read in full...)
My gran is very ill, she's the most special person to me, I can't see her go through this, how will I go on without her?
Q. someone please help. i recently posted asking for advice after being told doctors had found a tumor in my gran's liver. on friday i was told it's cancer, i can't handle it. i am so close to her. she's 77, they won't operate, it's in her liver, going ...
A. 25 September 2008: I'm sorry you're having this difficult time... it is always hard to see someone you love ill & in pain... deathis very hard to come to grips with...regardless of what anyone says she is your grandmother sounds like you love her to pieces & have a ... (read in full...)
What does karma have to do with it? Is this just an excuse?
Q. I fell in love with my friend with benefits. We've been on and off since november 2004. What we have is a secret, even though, after all this long many people realized what was happening between us. He doesn't want anything serious, and neither ...
A. 24 September 2008: well you were intitled to "hook up " with who ever but you said it was a friend of his. to me, that's a no no... he's jealous probably feeling a bit territorial... some guys are like dogs if they don't eat no other dogs can either.. he'll get over ... (read in full...)
He makes insecure comments now after our threesome, and now when I want to interact with one of my friends I don't tell him. What to do?
Q. My Fiance and I had a threesome with one of my friends. Everything was beautiful, but now he makes these insecure comments when he knows i'm going to see her alone. I think its unfair, because she was my friend before this episode. I was open with ...
A. 24 September 2008: he knew about you from the beginning...there is more to you than your sexuality but sexuality is apart of you & if he can't hang tell him to get the steppin & call me.(smile)... (read in full...)
I really love this girl, and I don't want to lose her. What are my best options right now?
Q. Hi there, I had been going out with my girlfriend for a year, and things were great, we never argued, we got on really well - as best friends, made each other laugh, and both really loved each other. Basically there were no problems whatsoe...
A. 24 September 2008: I think that she's possibly being honest about her feelings. maybe she's feeling hurt when you leave & hurt when she wants you & you can't be there... if she's worth try & make this work the way it is now.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get pregnant if you have sex while you have your period?
Q. i know this is a really unorthodox question, but is it possible for a woman to become pregnant if she has sex during her period? has that ever happened?...
A. 24 September 2008: a woman can get preggy anytime she has sex including a period it all depends if the times right & if your ovulating... (read in full...)
I bled for a couple of hours after rough sex, then stopped. What happened?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been having sex regually for about 5 months now. i like it hard and fast, and this one time i started to bleed. i beled for a couple of hours, not a lot and then stopped. what happend?...
A. 24 September 2008: pain can be pleasure in a twisted sadistic way &some spotting is normal if he's doing it too hard...tell him to stop if its bothering you...... (read in full...)
How would I know if I've had an orgasm?
Q. im having sex with my bf but i dont know if ive had an orgasm. my friends say it feel awsome but i really dont know. sex does feel good but not so good that im screaming out so loudly that my next door neighbours hear me. how do you know when yo...
A. 24 September 2008: trust me if you had a orgasm you'd know there are only a few things in life that give you this pleasure... taking a dump , cleaning out your ear with a qtip, and sneezing... the best being the big O if it tingles burst and explodes you had it. but ... (read in full...)
We used a condom, but I haven't had my period for nearly 2 months. What do I do?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we used a condom but i havent had my period for nearly 2 months. what do i do?...
A. 24 September 2008: go to the obgyn get a test for sexually transmitted diseases and hiv & also a pregnancy test... after don't have sex without a rubber...... (read in full...)
My soon-to-be-ex husband sent me a text telling me I wasn't to look at him or speak to him when he picks up the children. Should I just toughen up?
Q. I posted a question a few week ago about my soon to be ex husband not speaking to me or having anything to do with me because of lies I told in the past. I got lots of great replies with people saying it is a waiting game, just give it more time. ...
A. 6 July 2008: whatever he is mad about must be pretty big... he is soon to be ex husband right.... nothing you can do will fix what is already damaged...your ex wants to hold a grude...youve already tried to explain things but he won't listen...he needs a lot of ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my new girl and my ex - what do I do?
Q. In Sept 2007 I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. She was beautiful and really helped me through some bad times, but she was very jealous and we probably should not have been in a relationship. I was still very hurt and hardened from my divo...
A. 3 July 2008: in a way, I believe that your ex may possibly want you to suffer for leaving her...which I can understand.... she wants you to chase her around & act a fool, probably gets a kick out of your confusion...after all you dumped her...her change in ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my new girl and my ex - what do I do?
Q. In Sept 2007 I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. She was beautiful and really helped me through some bad times, but she was very jealous and we probably should not have been in a relationship. I was still very hurt and hardened from my divo...
A. 1 July 2008: I know it's hard to sit at home alone thinking too much I'm guilty of the same... have you ever tried to go to court to get more visitation rights? you make it seem as if your bond with your child is none existant.. I think you should probably go to ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my new girl and my ex - what do I do?
Q. In Sept 2007 I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. She was beautiful and really helped me through some bad times, but she was very jealous and we probably should not have been in a relationship. I was still very hurt and hardened from my divo...
A. 1 July 2008: wow you ever heard of the saying you don't know what you got til its gone? I mean the smartest piece of advice I could give you is to be perfectly honest with the current girlfriend... but in all reality there's another saying that goes," what you ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic area?
Q. Hi there, as i've become more sexually active with my partner, i've wanted to try more and more different things with her. However, she is very hairy 'down south' and I really can't think of anyway I could ask her politely, to shave her pubic ...
A. 29 June 2008: I prefer for a man to be shaved or trimmed I mean hair, let's face it, its gross... shave yours first... tell her you think it would be way more satisfying for her if she had no pubic hair... my boyfriend does mine...just tell her she beeds to shave ... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to find my girlfriend less attractive. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Hi there, I'm 19 and I've been in a relationship for the past 2 years. To start with I loved being with this girl, however now that we've been together for so long I'm starting to feel like it's not going anywhere. Embarrising as it is to say she...
A. 25 June 2008: yes babe there is something wrong... the problem is your age first... second you're obviously not ready to settle down... 3rd your feeling guilt about wanting some booty... you should break up with her cause if you stay you're going to hurt her ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know what he wants, will he ever grow up?
Q. Hi, I have been seeing this guy for over 2 months now and it's been pretty intense. We have fantastic times together. We've had our ups and downs lately because of his actions. He says: he says he wants to be with me and we are in a "relatio...
A. 25 June 2008: I think a may actually mean what he says. just because he's 31 doesn't mean that he doesn't have the right to be confused... no one is perfect... he maybe afraid to settle down... maybe he does not want to take things too seriously for fear of ... (read in full...)
How can I let my boyfriend know, again, I am still uncomfortable with his mouth odour without hurting his feelings?
Q. Ok.. so my boyfriend has this problem that his mouth has a bad odor sometimes. We have talked about it and he start doing some things to improve it (mouth wash and so on) and then he stops or it doesn't work too good (the effect lasts about 20 ...
A. 25 June 2008: well he should definetly see a dentist. bad breathe can put a damper on romantic moments... be honest you love him rite? I'd just be like"babe umm your breathe stinks handle it"... or" babe your breathe smells like you got a midget taking a shit in ... (read in full...)
Does this confession about his past mean my boyfriend is GAY?!?
Q. Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a while and recently he just confessed something to me that hes never told anybody. When he was younger he had a gay friend (he didnt know he was gay). One night when he stayed the night at his friends house ...
A. 21 June 2008: ummm well if he did it just two years ago then idk... the fact that he wants you to finger his booty doesn't make him gay... it feels incredible for men who are comfortable with their bodies to have their prostate massaged... the fact he wants the ... (read in full...)
Man charged with sexual assault to me, I feel sorry for him and am scared.
Q. This isnt really about relationships but i value everyones advice on this site and iv always came here in the past with troubles. so im hoping you guy can help me now. A good few months ago a man who i new from a rival store to the one that i w...
A. 20 June 2008: you are not stupid at all! listen I know how you feel ...I was molested as a child and my abuser was my mothers own brother... I lost my entire family over this situation... he spent 9 years in prison..i felt so much guilt practically all my life... ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that he has so many different fetishes?
Q. I have an ex boyfriend who I see every now and again. He and I are very comfortable with each other, especially in a sexual sense, and have discussed the possibility getting back together in the future. Recently he's confessed that he wants to try ...
A. 20 June 2008: you can only do things you are comfortable with...but at the same token some fantasies are better left fantasies... today its letting you go pee pee on his hand tomorrow he will want you to hop in a diaper & massage the dogs balls. there is no ... (read in full...)
How can I show him I'm trustworthy?
Q. so i was in a marriage of 12 years to a man in the USA. it was really rough. constant physical and mental abuse and i was pretty much trapped in a hole with this man as i basically needed him around just to survive. i was not allowed any friends or ...
A. 20 June 2008: it sounds to me like you have an addiction for controlling men... in the definition of love there has to be trust inthe equation, otherwise there is no love... this man sounds like he doesn't love you... & you sound like(no disrespect) you don't ... (read in full...)
I feel bad about myself - should I confess to what I did?
Q. Ok. I'll try and be brief... Long distance relationship, been together 6 years, long distance for 3, long distance ended last month. Ok, a year ago, was out, got so drunk, I only remember bits (though I know sex happened.) Next day woke up, fre...
A. 16 June 2008: @least you feel remorse that is a good thing... I believe that you should get it off your chest... itsounds like its been eating away ai you...you need to free your mind so that you can stop worrying about this issue... I went thru this similar ... (read in full...)
I feel bad about myself - should I confess to what I did?
Q. Ok. I'll try and be brief... Long distance relationship, been together 6 years, long distance for 3, long distance ended last month. Ok, a year ago, was out, got so drunk, I only remember bits (though I know sex happened.) Next day woke up, fre...
A. 16 June 2008: @least you feel remorse that is a good thing... I believe that you should get it off your chest... itsounds like its been eating away ai you...you need to free your mind so that you can stop worrying about this issue... I went thru this similar ... (read in full...)
Bullied. Told I'm ugly. Told I'm worthless. I know I am none of that, but getting over it isn't easy
Q. Ok here it is. I am 17 and 18 in november. My problem is i was bullied from ages 8 - 15. I was told i was ugly, i was worthless and that no one wanted me. I used to think this girl was my friend but now resent her. i havent seen her in almost 3 ...
A. 16 June 2008: I'm going to be blunt...sorry if I hurt you...yes as everyone has told you already, try & ignore...i mean you can do that & yeah it going to still hurt your feelings or you can tryto think of it my way...f$u!c+k the person who ever got you feeling ... (read in full...)
I think we could work but he doesn't agree! What should I do?
Q. Here goes... I love to give advice I'm really good at it but only with other peoples problems! ... My problem - I started meeting a guy about 4 months ago and we started seing each other but argued so called it a day but then started seeing e...
A. 14 June 2008: DO NOT PUT ANY PRESSURE ON HIM! if you start to act impatient he will nto like you... if he's going to do it he will eventually.. what's meant to happen will be... and if you really like him just take things slow get to know really well as friends ... (read in full...)
Should I call and say sorry? I turned my teacher now and I don't know if I did the right thing!!
Q. Maybe I messed up by turning my teacher down,let me explain.Okay im 16 in high school and have a huge thing for my teacher.I posted a question asking for advice on how to handle it.She says she cares for me and loves me and we talk on the phone ...
A. 13 June 2008: you did nothing wrong... you were honest with her & tactful at that..she as an older woman needs to be slapped and after that they need to slap the cuffs on her for what she is trying to do... if she is mad with you so what? she is only pretending ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me twice and I just can't trust him! Is there no hope for us?
Q. Hi, My husband of 12 years cheated on me twice last year and we have been trying to rebuild our relationship ever since. Tonight (a year later) is the first night he has gone out alone with mates and I am shocked how little I trust him. Even ...
A. 13 June 2008: well I understand you have four kids... but your kids will suffer more seeing how their father's infidelities take their tole on you...your drinking & crying all the time is worst for them than watching you leave & possibly be happy... I'm sure you ... (read in full...)
I'd really like to hear female perspectives on what sex feels like for them?
Q. I've been wondering for some time now. What does sex feel like for a woman. It sounds really immature i'm sure, but I've always been curious as to what the physical sensations must be like for my significant other. I've talked to a few female ...
A. 13 June 2008: I luv this question? first off I commend you for even caring! ok, well every girl is diffrent just like every guy... an orgasm to me is like a sneeze... its over before you kno what hit you... sometimes depending on the partner it can feel like a ... (read in full...)
I don't want my 2 regular girlfriends to find out about my girls on the side, but 2 of them are now pregnant!
Q. I'm in need of some serious help. I have been in a long-term relationship with a wonderful girl for the past five years and with another equally beautiful girl for two. The first girl I met through friends, the second in a strip club. I know som...
A. 13 June 2008: Im grossed out escorts are prostitutes if 2 of some of the others are pregnant you must not believe in condoms... absolutely disgusting... you better hope the worst is the pregnancies @ the rate your going your penis is going to shrivel up & fall ... (read in full...)
Relationship problem's--he hit's me sometimes! Is he fixable?
Q. Hey i have a question, now i'm sure you've heard this god knows how many time's. But Let's start out short. I have a boyfriend and i'v been dating him for the pass 7 month's ( NOT THAT LONG ) And i really super love him, i feel that ther...
A. 9 June 2008: HE IS NOT GONNA CHANGE..i know first hand what you are going thru..first he starts off being the best thing thst ever happened to you... he probably shows you more luv than anyone ever has... then he starts being jealous and ofcourse you kinda like ... (read in full...)
My best friend said I've betrayed her?
Q. My best friend can’t take the truth and now is blaming me. She’s saying I’ve betrayed her by saying that I never told her the truth but when I did, she couldn’t handle it and got angry with me and then said I betrayed her. The truth is, my other ...
A. 7 June 2008: I had friend just like this & you are in no way shape or form wrong for what you are doing... I say you don't owe her an wxplanation but if you must send her an email explaining your reasonings for your actions & also tell her to cut the sh&t cuz ... (read in full...)
My GF's past is eating me up inside, partly because the long distance favours my idle mind to produce negative thoughts about her. Help?
Q. My gf and i have been dating for the past 1 1/2 years. I has been long distance relationship since we started going out. Every month i make a trip to see her and she does the same. After our 1 year anniversary we decided to have a conversation about ...
A. 7 June 2008: wow ! as a female I can totally identify with this situation... I've been with my bf on & off for 4yrs... the reason it is on & off is because I am 5 yrs oldr than him & he has a huge problem with my past... when we first got together (before the ... (read in full...)
I lied to my boyfriend and said I was pregnant? what now?
Q. Okay so i my boyfriend moved to another state and we decided to stay togetehr . he promised to call and he did ....FOR THEE FIRST WEEK . and then i started getting less calls . and recently he told me he was cheating on me but he was coming back to ...
A. 7 June 2008: omg that was a big mistake you made... I've never heard of any baby that can keep a man anyway...basically your lie was pointless as well as very dumb...everyone is going to want you to tell the guy the truth but ultimately its up to you to do what ... (read in full...)
He wants me to just forget about his cheating...
Q. my husband of 13 yrs, had an affair with someone I know, lasting 18 months. I always knew there was something going on, but was told bt=y him, that I was mad. He physically abused me, continued to want sex, and told me I was ungrateful, and had ...
A. 7 June 2008: I feel for you... you are worth so much more than what he makes you think... he wants you to believe that this your fault & because of this, you should have to put up with his crap! well he sounds stupid! he should not be allowed(by you) to ... (read in full...)
Why would you put a picture and you and your ex on facebook?
Q. Hi all, Me and ex g\f broke up about 3 months ago. We keep in touch every few weeks, just to say 'hi' and catch up. She does not want reconciliation Anyway, i have just logged onto Facebook and she has just posted a picture of me and her o...
A. 3 June 2008: possibly she likes how she looks in the picture... mayb she thinks you guys will get back together being that you still stay in touch...she might still have feelings for you...... (read in full...)
How do I get over this humiliation of being bullied because of my tiny penis? And how do I make them stop?
Q. ok i need help, all my life i have hid my small penis, when fully erect it only measures 3 inches making it impossible to satisfy girls, i tried when i was younger but just got laughed at when they touched or saw my penis but now its got worse, i ...
A. 2 June 2008: omg I feel horrible for you! not everybody is blessed enuff 2 have a moby dick type of penis all I can say is papi be the best @ eatin pussy...& no 1 is perrfect & just ccuz its small does not mean u can't work it ...good luck sweety..dont forrget ... (read in full...)
I don't know if this is normal or not????
Q. hey i really need some help... since my period (about 2days ago) ive had a watery discharge constant and soemtimes i can feel it like ive come on my period but i know i havvnt because it is watery and thin and clear/white. i dont know if this is...
A. 1 June 2008: sounds like that clear discharge is ovulation. & it natural to feel discomfort if he's hitting your pelvic bone tell him to be easy...... (read in full...)
I want to try cunnilingus one day but I feel it's disgusting... how to get over this feeling? How to start?...
Q. i want to try cunilingus one day because the i hear it's satisfying to ladies. but i feel it's disgusting. can anyone tell me how it feels like in your mouth and how it smells? i have this feeling there's a bad oduor in there. how do i start?...
A. 31 May 2008: definetely don't try this until your are ready...have your first be someone that is special to you... know that of you try this act on just a random chick it may go wrong and it will turn you off from it forever... and if she stinks be tactful and ... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid because of his previous betrayal?
Q. Ok to cut a long story short my husband cheated on me once before and I forgave him. Its not been easy and I do not want any advice on something I want to forget. I just need to know if I am now paranoid or have the right to be worried. We w...
A. 31 May 2008: I commend u I know first hand how difficult it can be to forgive a cheater...u need to realize you forgave him & chose to stay... u have nothing to be insecure possibly it may have been what u thought but who cares? u have your husband so its ... (read in full...)
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