Should I fight for our 7 year relationship?
Q. Ok heres the layout.... Me and my wife has been together for 7 years sept 13 we have been married for the last 2 of the 7 we have a beautiful son that is turning 1 year on oct 1 i am really excited and for those of you wandering he was planned not a ...
A. 10 September 2009: I know first hand how hard it is to let go. I commen you for just letting her go. You cant make someone love you if they dont want to... Let her be... When she realizes that she made a mistake she will try and come back again.. The grass to her ... (read in full...)
Should I fight for our 7 year relationship?
Q. Ok heres the layout.... Me and my wife has been together for 7 years sept 13 we have been married for the last 2 of the 7 we have a beautiful son that is turning 1 year on oct 1 i am really excited and for those of you wandering he was planned not a ...
A. 9 September 2009: Sorry but shes playing you like a piano. She sound like she wants to come homme because of the sense of security you might give her but thats it. Question is, why on eaarth do you want a woman that says shes going out disappears for 3 days comes ... (read in full...)
We planned to have this baby and try to make things work, but all of a sudden he wants me to have an abortion!
Q. Hi Guys, Just want some outside opinion on a tricky situation. I've been seeing a guy for a couple of months and last week we found out I am pregnant. I know it is iresponsible, but I don't want a lecture! We talked about it, and even though w...
A. 9 September 2009: I hate to sound harsh but it sounds like he may not be that into you..It is just as hard for a guy as it is a girl sometimes to deal wit these types of situations. You are both young & in over your heads to soon. But whats done is done at this ... (read in full...)
Do women brag about their sexual experiences too?
Q. Do women brag about their sexual experiences the same way guys do?...
A. 4 April 2009: yes they do but I personally don't women are sneaky & might want a taste of what I have I've seen it happen to a lot of ppl... but yes women do talk about men in the same way men talk about women... (read in full...)
Ending up alone
Q. life is very depressing having no freinds and no body eles to talk beside my mother.i am going 30 yaers old and i never had a boyfreind i am very shy.there is no where to go .guys i like always hurt my feelings and insult me.what can i do.i am going ...
A. 4 April 2009: life has a plan for everybody...evrything happens for a reason if your sad & insecure & have no backbone some ppl my take advantage of you & also these are not very attractive qualities to land a nice person... if you don't change your attitude ... (read in full...)
I'm loose. Will my future husband be put off by this?
Q. Dear Angony Aunt, I am a 17 year-old high school senior. Last summer I lost my technical virginity. Since then I have had sex with six guys.I start college in the fall and I expect to bed a different guy every Friday and Saturday night.Do you thi...
A. 4 April 2009: the truth is most guys want to know your past but if that person isn't mature to handle it he will be insecure & constantly throw it in your face... I'd be super careful how you approach that... six guys doesn't make you a whore or a bad person, ... (read in full...)
He's lying and cheating & I want him to marry me
Q. He has another girlfriend and he’s denying it and I know that he has a girlfriend. His closest friend told me and this guy doesn’t have any reasons to lie to me. My boyfriend had a fight with his close friend because this decent guy advised me to ...
A. 18 December 2008: Girl where's your dignity?! I'm sorry I don't mean to judge you, but he only wants you because he knows that you aint going no where... Your financial stability should be the last thing that your true love or soulmate would think about... I hope ... (read in full...)
Could there be other guys she has done this too and lied about that also?
Q. I have an issue in my marriage that I am seeking advice. My wife and I have been married almost 3 years, no kids yet, but we have started talking about it possibly this coming year to start trying. My wife told me she was very inexperienced in...
A. 18 December 2008: sure there could be other guys but why should you care? I mean yes I'd be pissed too I get that but the bottom line is it was before you right? I mean that is what it boils down too... also do you really want to know every single intimate detail of ... (read in full...)
I doubt his feelings for me
Q. Hi I really need an advice here, I have been with my boyfriend 10 months, he is a very good guy, he does everything to please me and I do the same also. I love him but sometimes he has attitudes that makes me doubt of his feelings for me. For ...
A. 18 December 2008: if the guy is in college & has other obligations apart from you it is natural that he may not contact you for a day if he gets tied up with other things... not for nothing, but you do sound a little needy & insecure... & that too ruins ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?
Q. What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer ...
A. 18 December 2008: pop in a movie & handle your business... the risks of being with a prostitute are not worth busting a nut... when the right time comes it will happen... why are you in such a rush??i have the suspicion that eblvn if your did use a condom that you ... (read in full...)
Why can't I forget about this man?
Q. I need your advce guys, I met a guy in 2006 while I was in my second last year at uni, he was working as a legal adviser and some how we liked each other, he use to call me almost 5 times a week, we use to meet mostly at night because I was doing ...
A. 18 December 2008: I agree you shouldn't have jumped into anything that serious with your eyes closed... the fact that he has disappeared out of your life like that just proves that he wasn't ready for anything that serious. that being said, when you love someone you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend masturbates to trans-sexuals
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over one year and we are both in our early 20's. About 3 months ago, I was dinking around on his computer and I found a site with t-girl porn (men qo view themselves, and live, as women). I asked him about ...
A. 18 December 2008: some men a fasinated by a man that looks like a beautiful woman... I think this may be way deeper than any of us can assume...i mean I get turned on by lesbian porn but I'm not gay... I have a friend who is gay & had sex with a tranny female because ... (read in full...)
Is she with me for what she can get out of me?
Q. hi iim really mixed up about my relationship.i am a lesbian, i have been with my girlfriend for 6 yrs. we dont live together as i had a flat before we met. an she had house with her two grown up daughters. whenever i go there its like if she dont ...
A. 17 December 2008: I agreevwith the first commnet but also she may be tired of the relationship, if you acting parsnoid & jealous... the only way to find out is to ask her if she's happy... if she says she is try to have better communication...& when she picks fights ... (read in full...)
Fishy smell?
Q. if i have a fishy like smell what to do...
A. 17 December 2008: don't douche !it is not safe... womans body have natural good bacteria that keeps up clean & keep bad bacteria from coming in, by douching you are ridding your body of this natural bacteria therefor allwoing for this bad bacteria to thrive... go see ... (read in full...)
I could really use the help in dealing with my jealousy and feelings towards this situation.
Q. Ok... My ex-girlfriend and I broke up in February, but have remained in contact. We lived together for a year before breaking up. We spoke over the phone semi-regularly but for 6 months we never really saw eachother. We work together but are in 2 ...
A. 15 December 2008: Man she's playing you like a piano! She does this because she can... Anytime she has an itch she knows where to go to get it scratched... When she's bored she gives you a call to "hangout". When she's not bored she goes out with her friends and ... (read in full...)
Any role playing ideas?
Q. Hiya, Me and my bf love sex and we're really into role play like naughty maid and school girl etc. Does anyone have any other ideas we could try? We are gonna try a drama one where we walk into the room in dfferent roles and act out a wild love ...
A. 15 December 2008: Let's see there's cops & robbers... my personal favorite which is president clinton & monica lewinski... nurse & patient... correctional officer & inmate...you can also act out scenes from movies like that movie 300 I like to do that one... you can ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a woman to be on the prowl?
Q. i am recently divorced from my second marriage and is it wrong for a woman to be on a sort of prowl or a look out for a man to satisfy her intimately, emotionally and privately? in this day and age society is making a big hoop to do over sex but i ...
A. 15 December 2008: why is it wrong your not attached to anyone? you said your divorced right? so rideum' sally... you don't have to answer to no 1... you are a free woman to go out & explore so if it makes you happy who cares what society says... society is not paying ... (read in full...)
She kissed another man!
Q. Here is the situation, My girlfriend got together with me when i was hung over my ex. Things started out well and we fell for each other. I soon had to leave to study abroad 6 months into the relationship. While i was away i got lost in influenc...
A. 15 December 2008: As they say what's good for the goose! you did & now you know how she felt... not to say you guys should go tit for tat but forgive her & try to move forward...... (read in full...)
I can't handle the guilt
Q. Theres this married guy at my work. We flirt ever in a while or so. But recently it got a little more serious we made out. I know shouldn't have and I feel disgusted with myself after it. I mean dont want to disrespect his wife or myself. Im a...
A. 15 December 2008: Handle it by not doing it again... Don't let things with this guy get to that level...He is married & you are the one that will get hurt... He will only go as far as you allow him to... ... (read in full...)
My ex wants us to be friends, any chance of getting back?
Q. Hi my recent girlfriend left me and says she dosent love me any more she has since dated but i desperetly love her and would take her back.but now out of the the blue she wants to be friends What does this mean is there a chance she might want to ...
A. 15 December 2008: She might want to get make the only way for you to find out is to ask her directly... I wouldn't push her into anything... Maybe she just want you back in her life as a friend... What is meant to be will be... Just be cool about it don't tell her ... (read in full...)
Why did he suddenly decide to wipe me out of his life?
Q. I asked a question on here about a week ago about a FWB relationship that I was in. Everyone was very helpful, but things have now changed and I would really appreciate a blokes point of view. The guy in question is away a lot so only really saw ...
A. 14 December 2008: listen sweety... you will probably end up seeing him... & if he doesn't bring the other girl he dissed you for he will speak to you... he will give you this bogus song & dance about why he erased you off his facebook & erased you off his mind in ... (read in full...)
Threesome with girlfriend and her brother?
Q. Hello, I've been with my G/F for a long time and have always found her and her brother to have an awkward but really good relationship. Everyone thinks so too that know them. She is older than him and when asked about their relationship wit...
A. 14 December 2008: I've done the same things she has done with my brothers but I think your a bit of a pervert to think shed want her brother to bang her.. if I were you I woudnt even take it there with her... & if I were her & you came at me with that nonsense first ... (read in full...)
Can't stop comparing women to my ex.
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago and I've been trying to replace her in my life. I've done the free online dating thing and I even posted an ad on craigslist. The problem is that every woman I see I immediately compare to my ex ...
A. 14 December 2008: Basically you are not over your ex- girlfriend. what's the rush trying to "replace" her so soon? spend sometime by yourself and be comfortable with you first... then move on... or are you the type that can't stand being alone? by moving on too soon ... (read in full...)
Why did he suddenly decide to wipe me out of his life?
Q. I asked a question on here about a week ago about a FWB relationship that I was in. Everyone was very helpful, but things have now changed and I would really appreciate a blokes point of view. The guy in question is away a lot so only really saw ...
A. 14 December 2008: Well just forget about that money he owes you because you'll never see it again! Sounds to me like he may have a girlfriend or maybe met someone else... I wouldn't waste my time and effort contacting him... If he couldn't even have the common ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's brother and I have become really close - what would you do?
Q. ok i have a 23 year old bf and i'm 18, my bf has a 19yr old brother. The brother and I have become quite close ever since we were introduced, we spend a lot of time just talking But now i really feel something between us, like a spark or somethin...
A. 25 November 2008: I think he will understand and probably respect you for being real... ii don't know why but it kinda sounds like you caught feelings... I mean its not really being cold to just keep things on a certain level but from what it sounds like to me you ... (read in full...)
We plan to marry in January but I can't forget that she has been unfaithful, please advise.
Q. Dear Sir, I’m happy to stumble upon your website. I have a fiancée whom we have dated for 6 years 3 months. I really love this girl and she claims to love me too. We arranged to get married early January 2009. All the marriage arrangements have been ...
A. 25 November 2008: wow maybe you could postpone the wedding... jan09 is rite around the corner... I don't think your going to come to grips with this in 1& 1/2 months... she betrayed your trust you have the ritw to feel the way you do...maybe you guys could go to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's brother and I have become really close - what would you do?
Q. ok i have a 23 year old bf and i'm 18, my bf has a 19yr old brother. The brother and I have become quite close ever since we were introduced, we spend a lot of time just talking But now i really feel something between us, like a spark or somethin...
A. 25 November 2008: omg definetly don't tell your boyfriend... stop now before something happens... I know you say you love your man but the closer you get with his brother the worst your sitution will become... don't chat with his bro on any level other than hi & ... (read in full...)
How do I make him miss me?
Q. i really want my ex back, but because when we first broke up i did the typical girl thing and panicked and text him and rang him so he didnt even get a chance to miss me. he said to my friend he thinks we'd be back together if i hadn't have don...
A. 25 November 2008: just do your own thing for now.... try to distract your mind with diffrent hobbies...call him once in a while and keep conversation very brief... when you do talk to him sound very happy...and give hime time he will miss you once he thinks he may ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend having thoughts of her past relationship that was bad.
Q. I have been dating the same woman for about 3 months now and everything at the time appeared to be going great until today she said we needed to talk. Granted we have been talking for about 3 months and started talking a little over 2 months after ...
A. 25 November 2008: well that's great that you trust her & you know for sure there is no communication... sounds like you know exactly what your going to do...... (read in full...)
Girlfriend having thoughts of her past relationship that was bad.
Q. I have been dating the same woman for about 3 months now and everything at the time appeared to be going great until today she said we needed to talk. Granted we have been talking for about 3 months and started talking a little over 2 months after ...
A. 25 November 2008: I have been in an abusive relationship in the past... I think that she is being honest with you but at the same time let me tell you that getting over a person like this is never easy... this not about love though it is about the control that he ... (read in full...)
Female advice wanted please
Q. So, I recently got back together with an ex-girlfriend. This has only been going for about a month though. We have been dating on and off for the past year and a half. In that time, she got back with her another ex-boyfriend for a very short period ...
A. 25 November 2008: well she may be being honest as far as her confusion goes... she may just be using you because you are there for her... she may not want to hurt you due to her confusion and therefor doesn't want to get too serious... or too she may not wanglt ... (read in full...)
I met him and he looked NOTHING like his picture!
Q. It all started about a year ago when I met this guy online, who lives in another country, I was at the time dating someone else, but the guy online was just a friend for 6 months, so no I wasnt cheating. I did in the end sort of break up with my bf ...
A. 24 November 2008: lmao! I'm sorry but this is priceless! dump him but say its because he's a liar not cause he's fat... in my opinion your being too nice... & he lied first what's good for the goose babe...... (read in full...)
I've lied to him about my real age...
Q. Hi, I've been going out with this guy for 4 months now but we have liked each other for a year now he loves me so much and we have been through so much together, I can't imagine my life without him. I love him so much I've sort of pushed my friends ...
A. 24 November 2008: omg I used to lie about my age all the time when I was younger I thing its normal... I'm asking myself what you could possibly have in common with someone that age but whatever.. you should tell him the truth ... in my country he can go to prison ... (read in full...)
I came home to find my brother-in-law and my dad sitting on the couch in their underwear kissing one another!
Q. I'm 25, been married to my wife who's 24, for about 6 months. Everything's been great, and I get on well with her family great too. My wife's brother, who's 22, is gay, and very openly gay, and I'm not homophobic at all. I get on with him well ...
A. 24 November 2008: I know that anyone can say anything about what they would do or what you shouldve done. this is a very difficult issue... what bothered you the most that your dad may be gay or that he was making out with your bro in-law?... wow I know that so many ... (read in full...)
Every time I try to leave him he always makes me feel sorry for him.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we broke up about 4 times and it's always the same reason because he drinks too much, I have lost a lot of feelings for him, I really can't stand him any more!!!! Every time I leave him he comes crying b...
A. 21 November 2008: I agree with midge... I've been in this type of relationship before and he is a screw up. his tears may be genuine but he is definetely munipulating you because he knows from past experience that if he's sorry enough you will sgay with him... its ... (read in full...)
STD from a dog?
Q. I came home from work early and saw my girlfriend at the time uploading videos to the web. When i logged onto the PC i went to check out what she recorded. It seems my ex-girlfriend engaged is sexual acts with my German Sheppard. She literally had ...
A. 4 October 2008: is this a joke? I don't know whether to laugh or cry... wow she is definetly mentally sick unstable & possibly insane... what did she tell you when you confronted her with this? she needs some serious pyscho therapy... I believe anything is ... (read in full...)
I never know when my violent boyfriend will lash out and hit me again!
Q. Hi there. I have recently separated from my husband and met a guy who I really like and I fell in love with him. We have been together for about 3 and a half months, the only thing is he hits me. He does not hit me in my face just my body like my ...
A. 28 September 2008: omg run like the wind! I've been with an abuser for 5 yrs & it started just like this... it will only get worst & worst... he doesn't hit your face because he doesn't want anyone to know...he will graduate to doing worst things... its still ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a guy who's got a girlfriend but I don't want to turn him gay. So what can I do?
Q. Hey Guys I'm a 18 year old gay guy and i have 2 really big questions so here is the first one: I am deeply in love with a guy who is in two of my classes with me, since im a total failiure with relationships i asked some "flirt" advices to my...
A. 28 September 2008: sweety you can't turn ppl gay they either are or arent... my bestfriend is a gay male & he goes thru stuff like this all the time... first for future reference, try not to become attached to unavailable men especially if they're straight... second ... (read in full...)
Who can I talk to without feeling sorry for myself? I feel like I can't confide in anyone.
Q. I feel really stressed out with everything thats happening in my life, and I want to be able to confide in someone but I don't know how. I have tried in the past but I end up sounding like im just being sensationalist or needing of attention. I ...
A. 28 September 2008: everybody needs somebody sometime! everyone needs someone to listen without opinionating.... I'm here for you... (read in full...)
Is my wife cheating on me or not? I have to know!
Q. My wife slept with someone behind my back some time ago. I found out about it, and I have forgiven her. Then more recently she saw the guy out in a bar, a chance meeting according to her, and talked with him. Again, I found out, she says, they just ...
A. 26 September 2008: you're definetely not an idiot... you love your wife it doesn't make you stupid... she actin suspicious ofcourse your doing what anyone in your position(even her) would do...dont sneak around or show her you suspect something... I know its hard but ... (read in full...)
I need to protect my son, and should I seek legal advice for our future?
Q. Hi, I feel so weak, i need to protect my son. I live with my partner of 4 years and my 9 year old son from a previous marraige. Last night my partner prevented my son from using the toilet for 10 minutes because he was on the loo, then he had...
A. 26 September 2008: your child comes 1st forget the house or that idiot.no man is ever going to love someone elses child the way he would love his own...a good man can love a child that's not his but treat the child as if he were his own but this is the case if the ... (read in full...)
Everyone says he's a waste of space, but I can't take my mind off him!
Q. please help me! i had this boyfriend 5 years ago and we split up, but still said 'hi' if we saw each other! we both had other relationships in the last 5 years, but now im single and so is he. we keep meeting up but hes only after 1 thing from me a...
A. 26 September 2008: oh no !you have been sucked in to the "booty call "or what some guys like to call "the jump off", which means in a nutshell, after the sex he jumps off& takes you home...ofcourse he is after only 1 thing...get rid of this guy its to late for your ... (read in full...)
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