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He's acting strange now, what do I do?
Q. me and my bf have been going out for almost 2 years and recently we got in a huge fight. it really was one of the stupid fights that mean nothing but it got way out of hand and just blew up. we forgave each other but recently he hasnt been cute at ...
A. 16 April 2010: If you two had a fight over nothing then there wouldn't of been a reason to fight. Is it what ever you two were fighting about what was really bothering him? or is there something else? Guys do this as much as girls for instance my friends booby and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was trying to hook up with my friend and now I'm pregnant by him!
Q. wanted to share my experience I'm going through right now.....Well I was with my bf for bout 3 years and onetime brought a friend around him he told me she looked familar and probably a while back tried to get with her so I left it alone.....me and ...
A. 15 April 2010: Do you love him enough to have a baby with him? A baby is ALOT of work and responibilty. If he is not being responsible and faithful to you now what makes you think he is going to change after the baby. Think about it your going to be stuck home ... (read in full...)
How long before doctor can give you pregnancy results?
Q. Hi I took a pregnancy test today and it came up positive. I have a doctors appoitment tomorrow to confirm it. I was just wondering when you get a test at the doctors how long have you got to wait until you get the results? Thanks...
A. 15 April 2010: They are just going to have you pee in a cup, wait in a room on a cold table, take your pulse, blood preasure, see how tall you are and how much you wiegh. They test your pee in seconds they will be able to tell you. Then they will spend about a ... (read in full...)
My bits don't look like the girls in porn.
Q. So any help fr guys would be apreciated, basically. As embarasing as it is my vagina isn't like the ones I've seen in certain porn videos! It's got tight small outer lips everything is good except on my right side one of the inner lips sticks out ...
A. 15 April 2010: I have to agree with not my name on this one. I've also seen some pretty outragous porn videos where the girl had nipple implants that made them look freaky because they were pointy and stuck 3 inches out. Then I also saw another freak porn video ... (read in full...)
Is she faking her attraction?
Q. Im trying to figure out what to do here. I have known this girl for just over 3 years now. We met online originally but have built quite a friendship and have been together in person many times now. I have fallen for her. Before meeting her in ...
A. 15 April 2010: Have you tried talking to her about the way you feel? I dont know if expressing your feelings comes easy to you but you say that you've known her for some time now. I'm sure if you just asked her how she feels about you she would give you a straight ... (read in full...)
He never exactly said it, but he didnt correcj me. When is a gray area considered lying...and does it indicate a pattern of deceit?
Q. Do you think if a guy lies about what he does for a living it says something more about himself? Do you think he's lying about other things? Or he's just a liar in general? The weird thing is, that he hasn't technically lied about his work. ...
A. 15 April 2010: No I think your just over analyzing the situation. All therapists of what ever kind even nurses need schooling just like a doctor, they also treat people in a way that a Doctor does and depending on how much schooling he's had he might have a PHD or ... (read in full...)
Bleeding during pregnancy
Q. Heys. I read that during pregnancy you can have bleeding that is similar to menstruation bleeding. But are there also pains in that case and if there are, are they the same kind of pains or do they feel diferent? Basically is there anything that ...
A. 15 April 2010: No, chances are you just have your period, a pregnacy test can help determine if your pregnant 5 days before your missed period. But since you are bleeding I doubt that you are pregnant. The reason woman get there period is so that way, when we do ... (read in full...)
Do you think this man will every come looking for his child?
Q. i have dated him for seven years since high school,been there for him in thick and thin,we have had aminimum of 4-5 breakups and he even once left me for another woman.when he came back,i forgave him.he has not been working since we are all fresh ...
A. 14 April 2010: you can hire a lawyer and a private investigator, or talk with social serices they can be a real pain in the a$$ but they will help you and your child find him... (read in full...)
Bleeding during pregnancy
Q. Heys. I read that during pregnancy you can have bleeding that is similar to menstruation bleeding. But are there also pains in that case and if there are, are they the same kind of pains or do they feel diferent? Basically is there anything that ...
A. 14 April 2010: where is the bleeding coming from?
The most common signs of bleeding dont always come from the vigina amongst pregnant woman and you won't be able to tell this from just looking at your panties. If you are not cramping or showing any others sign... (read in full...)
Do you think this man will every come looking for his child?
Q. i have dated him for seven years since high school,been there for him in thick and thin,we have had aminimum of 4-5 breakups and he even once left me for another woman.when he came back,i forgave him.he has not been working since we are all fresh ...
A. 14 April 2010: As a single mother I understand what you are going through, No woman should have to raise a child alone. You should look to your suportive friends and family for help in raising your child. To me it doesnt seem like he was ready for the shocking ... (read in full...)
He thinks I lied about the number of relationships I've had
Q. I have been dating a man for six months. We dated each other last year however not seriously and I ended things without an explanation after 5 months last time. This time around things are better and more serious. Initially I contacted him ...
A. 14 April 2010: to the anonymous reader that posted that "LOVELY" message to me......Domestic violence is no joke! since you are a male I would not expect you to understand unless some 200 pound woman with alot of uper body strenght choke slams you. If any guy is ... (read in full...)
He thinks I lied about the number of relationships I've had
Q. I have been dating a man for six months. We dated each other last year however not seriously and I ended things without an explanation after 5 months last time. This time around things are better and more serious. Initially I contacted him ...
A. 14 April 2010: Ask yourself this "why does it matter to him how many guys you've slept with or not?"
He is tring to TRAP you, this is a sign of domestic violence (EXAMPLES BELOW). I read your question and took some time to think about it. What are his inte... (read in full...)
Is sex something bonding for women?
Q. Do women become more attached to men they've had sex with? I've had a drawn-out flirtation with a woman. We are never single at the same time. I sometimes wonder if she thinks about me (we were pretty inappropriate for a while at one point when I ...
A. 14 April 2010: This is truth for some women but not every woman is the same as the next. For example you have thousands of women out there that sleep with men for a living and the only attachment is wondering if the man will pay more the next time. This woman that ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend in jail accused of rape!
Q. My on again off again boyfriend of three years has been in jail now for a month he keeps calling, having his family call, and write me i dont think i want to be with him anymore because he is accused of rape and kidnap but he has yet to tell why ...
A. 14 April 2010: When he gets out of jail chances are there will be some kind of follow up with his probation officer/ P.O. they will ask him a series of questions, if it was statutory rape they will ask him if he has a girlfriend, go with him when he has to see the ... (read in full...)
I was almost raped by my ex should I tell my new boyfriend?
Q. *OP's own title* Ok. I'm not sure how to do or say this. It's too hard for me to even talk about it. Writing it I think I'm ok. A year ago I was in a relationship with a guy a year and a half older than me. Kissing was as far as we'd ever went befo...
A. 14 April 2010: I think you should tell him when you're ready to tell him and when you can trust him enough to take something like that to the grave. Not because you are pressured but because you want to share something with him. You should also consider talking to ... (read in full...)
He does not even speak to me when we cross paths, ... so how should I tell him he got me pregnant?
Q. A few weeks ago my friend introduced me to the guy she's dating bestfriend. The 4 of us ended up chillen together. Drinking, playing games, just enjoying ourselves. At the end of the night me and the friend ended up sleeping together, ...
A. 14 April 2010: wow! I dont think you will like what I have to say but I'm going to say it any ways. My thoughts tell me that he isn't interested in a relationship and just saw you as a good time. When he gave you his number and said hit me up sometime, chances are ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant from oral sex?
Q. I recently gave my boyfriend oral sex and he did the same for me, but since then I've been feeling strange. Could I be pregnant?...
A. 14 April 2010: There is no way on earth that any aninimal or humman can get pregnant from oral pleasures.
You are still very young and have a great deal to learn, if your school or town offers a sex education class, sign up for it!
This type of class will tea... (read in full...)
I confessed I had sent fake pics to my online boyfriend, ..now he wants to see the real me but I am scared he wont like what he see's.
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship for 9 months. We're recently broken up, and I showed my boyfriend fake pictures, and only JUST showed him my actual self a few days ago. I was terrified to tell him, but he actually took it MUCH better than ...
A. 14 April 2010: There are many bonuses to having an internet boyfriend such as you cant ever catch an std from him (excludes computer viruses) He can't ever physically hurt you, and you never have to clean up after him. Sign me up lol
I would be careful giving out ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to fix this without kicking him out?
Q. I feel terrible for writing this, but feel I could benefit from some advice on how to approach this situation. I trust my boyfriend, but there is a money issue and I dont want to be taken for a ride. We just moved in together, and he was originall...
A. 14 April 2010: Show him how serious you are! Threaten to break up with him, obviously you dont need him for money since you are already paying your way without him. I'm guessing your in love with him and thats why you put up with his crap. I bet your doing all the ... (read in full...)
Relationship with a lawyer?
Q. Can I have a relationship with my lawyer after my case is settled?...
A. 13 April 2010: yes just be careful though if you end up having a bad relationship with this lawyer and have to bring him to court there is a really big possibility that it wont turn over well since he works for the court and will know it from the inside out.... (read in full...)
Am I finally getting a growth spurt?
Q. I am 16 I got my period when I was pretty young (11), and recently I have gained curves. I am very small in the chest but not my 32B bras fit me perfectly where before there was a little too much room. I weigh 105 pounds and I don't know where these ...
A. 13 April 2010: In addition to your other answer just wait till you get pregnant and have kids. I'm not saying to go out and do that, but when your ready. Then your boobs will get really big because they will be full of milk and the rest of you will fill out too. ... (read in full...)
She can't leave him because of money, but want's to marry me?
Q. iv'e been seeing this girl now for nearly two years and its fantastic, but there one slight problem she lives with another man. We are and were good friends and there was always a chemistry between us and on a night out it all came flooding out, how ...
A. 13 April 2010: I was always told the best things in life are worth waiting for. Since you are her friend and dont want her to depend on this guy for the rest of her life why dont you try and help her to become a little more independent so she can rely on herself. ... (read in full...)
I am a lesbian, how can I get my friend to like me back?
Q. Ok so I like this girl well she is actually a friend and I fancy her and have done for the last few months so I told her. not really my best idea but she was cool with it. Its just am not sure what her sexuality is because she has never said am ...
A. 13 April 2010: Telling her how you feel about her was the right way to go, she might just be taking her time to feel you out maybe a little curious about you and a little scared of what other people would say if she were to be with you. Try talking more with her ... (read in full...)
How do I heal from my Mother's horrible abuse? Please help!
Q. Dear cupid...please help me...I was emotionally and sort of physically abused by my mother when I was a teenager...my mother left my family when I was about 9 years old. I went to live with her again when I was about 14. Before that, except for when ...
A. 13 April 2010: I'm very sorry that you had to carry an extra load on your back through out your life. It must have been hard for you, just know that it was NEVER your fault. She sounds like she has alot of insecurites and takes them out on you, this doesnt m... (read in full...)
I know he can be a player but why is he doing this to me?
Q. He is very cute, this older girls than him are "very" friendly around him, he is funny, a grade ahead of me, has kissed me three times just never asked me out so I told him I thought it was wrong and basically pushed him away, after that he told me ...
A. 13 April 2010: sounds like he wants someone that is easy and will put out right away. It doesnt seem like age really matters to him as long as it's with in 5 years. He might have a little crush on you and thats why he's picking on you so much but stick to your ... (read in full...)
I love two men. I don't want to make a bad choice, who should I choose?
Q. I'm in love with two men. I wish I could put both of them in one. I married my husband after a ruff two years. I should have waited. But I loved him. I left him after a month of being married.I just couldn't get over all the stuff he have done to ...
A. 13 April 2010: what will benifit you in the long run? your needs or your wants? as you said one gives you what you need and one gives you what you want.... (read in full...)
Differences in how you interpret the guy checking you out.
Q. Case for the female reader, discuss the following: 1. you walking in the store, shopping for something - see a guy and not exactly paying attention. He is checking you out, but you see noticed that after and he turns away. 2. same as 1 but onl...
A. 12 April 2010: 1. I like to flirt and I'm single
so if I find myself interested in Mr. mysterious I would walk over and talk to him. I might aproach him and say you look familiar do I know you from somewhere? or might give him a compliment and then start up a co... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said I gave her HIV, but my test came out negative
Q. I'm in a relationship that is 2years now,recently my girl friend is behaving strange.In february,she came crying to telling me she has gone for Hiv test and is positive,and that she visited a habalist who told her i infected her and that he can cure ...
A. 12 April 2010: There's no cure for HIV!
If I were you I would tell that little %*$@ to go %&*# her self.
Her intent is bad and is upsetting you to the point where your loosing it, throw that fish back into the fish pool.
She is tring to upset you, possibl... (read in full...)
First time sex-- now it hurts when I pee!
Q. I have just had sex for my first time and now I feel kind of strange and it hurts when I pee. Is there something wrong with me? ...
A. 12 April 2010: If you did not wear a condom go get an std test its better safe than sorry, most often times they're cureable. Yes it is normal for it to hurt the first time you pee after having sex or even if you go with out sex for awhile it may hurt when you ... (read in full...)
Should I just keep it to myself until I know for sure?
Q. Hi everyone... I am just looking for some advice with my current situation. I recently started sleeping with my ex boyfriend who I still have strong feelings for and he is not in a place where he can he give me the commitment that i want.....
A. 12 April 2010: sounds like your period might be irragular this month and if not only time will tell. If you go and get a blood test/pee on a stick test to early it will say negative. I know it sucks waiting the two weeks out but it's alot better than spending a ... (read in full...)
Is this going somewhere bad?
Q. I think my hub is slowly gaining all control over me and getting me into an abusive relationship.. it all started amazing, he was nice in every way. Then he got more angry more easily. He gets mean out of nowhere but is really nice after that but ...
A. 10 April 2010: Oh dear?! Maybe I wasnt clear enough you only need for ANY ONE of these signs to happen. That's all it will take if he has shown more than one, I would be carefull around him. Also men and women have different roles in a relationship. You might ... (read in full...)
Should I go there or would it be unwise?
Q. there is this guy i might be into he is 8 years older then me please help theres this guy i've known because he is my sisters husbands friend he always gets me into this night club that you have to be 18 to get in..and he is super nice one night m...
A. 10 April 2010: Leave him be!
You are worried about his age wich could get him into trouble with you being so young.
He has been with alot of girls, maybe even girls from these clubs. To me that screams "DISEASES".
You menchioned his parents being divorced so ... (read in full...)
Friends with benefits and I don't know what to do.
Q. OK, lets say harry, last year he asked me out, i wasnt sure what to say, we kinda just were together. I thought he was over me but start of this year he has been calling me babe and sexy. I guess he pulled me in again and we sent nude photos o...
A. 10 April 2010: There's nothing wrong w/ having a friend w/ benifits just as long as you are both on the same page. You dont wana go out for dinner some where and unexpectedly see him on a date with a girl friend or another "friend". Also be sure he doesnt catch ... (read in full...)
How can I meet new girls? The ones I like all have boyfriends!
Q. My ex and I have been broken up for a couple months now. She broke up with me and I was/still am heart broken. I feel like the only way I'll be able to completely get over her is if I start dating other girls. A little background: I'm...
A. 10 April 2010: It sounds like you have set standards in what you are looking for. Maybe these standards are set a little to high. Just because a girl isnt your type doesnt mean she cant make you happy in every other aspect you are looking for. I find that almost ... (read in full...)
Is this going somewhere bad?
Q. I think my hub is slowly gaining all control over me and getting me into an abusive relationship.. it all started amazing, he was nice in every way. Then he got more angry more easily. He gets mean out of nowhere but is really nice after that but ...
A. 10 April 2010: Its doesnt sound like it's going anywhere "GOOD" I've reposted all the signs of what to look for in a relationship that will turn violent. A guy that really loves you will not cause you physical/mental harm in any way, infact he will prevent it ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend using me financially?
Q. hi all heres the thing my bf i think is using me see when i met him he wasnt working and been going around looking for work and things . anyway hes getting benifits and things and just well when he gets paided he will spend it so quickly like in ...
A. 10 April 2010: When he gets paid take a portion of his money and put it in a bank account for when he really needs it. It doesnt seem like he's a bad guy but it should be 50/50 half and half, you and him working together as a team not 50/30 or some where ... (read in full...)
Was he implying anything?
Q. what does it mean when a guy kiss his girl on her forehead or her hand? He is planning to buy a house,so he took me there to see it. what does his action mean? does it mean he include me in his life now? ...
A. 10 April 2010: WHAT EACH KISS MEANS
-Kiss on the Upperchest; I want you.
-Kiss on the stomach; I'm ready.
-Kiss on the Forehead; I hope we're together forever.
-Kiss on the Ear; You're my everything.
-Kiss on the Cheek; We're friends.
-Kiss on the Hand; I ... (read in full...)
Why did she say she remembers how we used to fall asleep at night together cuddling?
Q. So yesterday night my ex and I were talking and randomly she bought up the past between us. She goes "I remembered how we fell asleep together at night cuddling" and I'm thinking oh..boy..i felt like weird after she told me that? I love the girl ...
A. 10 April 2010: Flirting? Bringing up the past? wierd feelings? butterflys? Hmmm.....If you keep finding your self with this girl you wont be broken up for long.
You might wana try talking with her and see what you both could have done to make your relation... (read in full...)
Questions about drinking and pregnancy.
Q. Hi aunts, I need some insight. I just got married March 27. I found out yesterday my wife is pregnant! :) she took 3 at home pregnancy tests. All positive. We are both so excited. It wasn't part of the plan, but it's a blessing all the same. ...
A. 9 April 2010: No your baby will be fine, infact some woman dont even know that they are pregnant until 3-4 months into the pregnancy, so they go about everything they normally do untill they find out. Your wife needs to stop drinking if she were to continue it ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified something bad is going to happen to the baby. I'm an unlucky person generally!
Q. took two pregnancy tests, both came back positive right away, it was a huge shock to me as im only 18 i couldn't stop shaking, but i have my family and my boyfriend who are there for me 100%. im 6 weeks pregnant and i decided to keep it, i know its ...
A. 9 April 2010: You need to stop worrying, to much stress can cause a miscarrage. now sit back and take a deep deep breath, hold it in and let it out slowly. Feel better? You'll be a great mum especially if you have so much consern for you child already.
c... (read in full...)
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