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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 April 2010):
If your husband has been that bad to you, and you left him after a month, then really it's not going to work. End the marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): I do not think responsbility less affair and marriage can be compared.Most like after u marry your lover, you will have similar issues and arguments and problems that are part of family. so i do not think any one can compare the two. you need to make a best guess. My feeling is that your DH is the person you should go with. You should abide by the vows that you took. an illusion of love is what many people go after and it keep happening and at last we are not left with any one.In this way we have been left with a painful society of complex ex factors and step factors and whole family system has gone to a culture of 4000 year like tribal age.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 For money or for love?
If you have love,you do not need anything else. If you have money but no love, you will always be lonely and unhappy.
Is material things more important than true love?
What good is material things when you cannot find happiness and fulfillment?
That's the question you will have to ask yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): make a list of the reason why you love your husband, will you be able to get over the things he has done to you?.. if you can that your love for him is true... does either men love you the way you deserve to be loved?... who loves you more and for what reasons?... ask yourself these questions.. see what you find...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): follow your heart.
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reader, sweetspicy  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 what will benifit you in the long run? your needs or your wants? as you said one gives you what you need and one gives you what you want.
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reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (13 April 2010):
 I have a friend in the same situtation. As an outsider I think she should ditch her boyfriend of 4 years and stay with the new guy she is with. I have seen some terrible things he has done to her and although you have not shared your side of the story I'm sure there are some overall negative experiences. My friend gets over them because she is in love with him and he knows how to sway her mind.If one man gives you what and another gives you what you need then perhaps there is someone else out there who can give you both what you want and what you need.
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reader, lolliepopprincess +, writes (13 April 2010):
i know how you feel, same situation girl. and isn't it even more hard when people ask who you like/love more?..cuzz you dont know.
you need to putyou first...which one do you personaly think youll be happier with? you treats you with more respect? whos in better moods all the time?
which one would remember your birthday everu year? etc...
only you can decide. hope i helped, good luck xxxx
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reader, raiders +, writes (13 April 2010):
 I think you should try and make your marriage work.
Give you marriage an opportunity, make it work. Be honest to yourself and play fair if you really want to make it work than let go of the lover, other that it will be hard to make a decision.
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