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I know he can be a player but why is he doing this to me?

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Question - (12 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

He is very cute, this older girls than him are "very" friendly around him, he is funny, a grade ahead of me, has kissed me three times just never asked me out so I told him I thought it was wrong and basically pushed him away, after that he told me the next day out of a conversation topic of games that his ex knew the games that he was talking about unlike me :P(he had never brought the ex topic out and he knew it would be awkward, since I had just the day before stopped our friends with benefits thing) and today when the topic of what race I might be (im hispanic SALVADORIAN but have really white skin lol) his friend said maybe I was albino mixed with mexican (and he said "i don't like albinos" but the way he said it! I'm really trying to be nice to him and sometimes I think, why did he like me? He could have gotten a better girl I'm not saying I'm ugly because I know I'm not but I'm a grade below him and all this older girls are over him maybe his too friendly? Anyways...imagine the girls in his grade! I guess he doesn't like the chase? Since that what he'll have to do to get one of them...(older girls) i don't know I'm getting over him and I know he can be a player but why is he doing this to me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010):

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Well i've started going out with another guy now and am starting to really forget him, yeah his not worth waisting my time thinking about ;) thnx for the help ladies!

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A female reader, rambini United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2010):

rambini agony auntyou said it yourself, he is a player. he is an immature and arrogant player who doesnt give a monkeys about anyone elses feelings. keep your distance.

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A female reader, sweetspicy United States +, writes (13 April 2010):

sweetspicy agony auntsounds like he wants someone that is easy and will put out right away. It doesnt seem like age really matters to him as long as it's with in 5 years. He might have a little crush on you and thats why he's picking on you so much but stick to your morals and dont give in to temptation. If he's a player you dont want to get mixed up in it.

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