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writes:me and my bf have been going out for almost 2 years and recently we got in a huge fight. it really was one of the stupid fights that mean nothing but it got way out of hand and just blew up. we forgave each other but recently he hasnt been cute at all. i mean he calls me baby and says i love u, but its definatly not like how he used to talk to me all sweet. he said he doesnt want to break up and that it will blow over and he will feel better (back to normal). he takes awhile to get over things so im trying to be patient with him but its hurting me so much. i dont want to keep pushing him and asking ?'s to fix it cuz i dont want to be annoying. he also says that hes feeling a little better and asking me why im worrying so much. but im worrying cuz hes acting strange.what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, sweetspicy +, writes (16 April 2010):
 If you two had a fight over nothing then there wouldn't of been a reason to fight. Is it what ever you two were fighting about what was really bothering him? or is there something else? Guys do this as much as girls for instance my friends booby and jen have been dating for a whle and will fight just like you and your b/f. Jen forgets to get milk at the store by the time she gets home the store is closed, boby cant make his dinner now and they have a huge fight it sounds stupid. But it was never the fact that she didn't get the milk that is bothering him, it was alot of little things and lack of communication that caused him to act this way. Try talking to him about things you do that might bother him and see what he sugests you do to change the initial problem.
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reader, xsarabethx  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 Theres to things I would do.
1: Bring it up one LAST time. Tell him why you've been worried about it and how you feel. After that just forget it.
2: Let him have his time and never mention it.
There maybe a reason to this as well.
For me it happened with my first serious boyfriend, Albert. He started acting different because he was confused. He started developing feelings for someone else but he knew he loved me more.
Also he could be going through a rough time and just needs to think things through.
Hope you well(:
-SaraBeth3
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reader, xsarabethx +, writes (16 April 2010):
Theres to things I would do.
1: Bring it up one LAST time. Tell him why you've been worried about it and how you feel. After that just forget it.
2: Let him have his time and never mention it.
There maybe a reason to this as well.
For me it happened with my first serious boyfriend, Albert. He started acting different because he was confused. He started developing feelings for someone else but he knew he loved me more.
Also he could be going through a rough time and just needs to think things through.
Hope you well(:
-SaraBeth3
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): just ask him if he really loves you he will not get mad...and all guys act weird sometimes so it is probably nothing to worry about
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