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writes:OK, lets say harry, last year he asked me out, i wasnt sure what to say, we kinda just were together. I thought he was over me but start of this year he has been calling me babe and sexy. I guess he pulled me in again and we sent nude photos of us to each other. We meet up every now and then, we kissed last time. About a week after he said lets just be friends, with an advantage. I said ok, he sent another photo of his penis. I dont know what to do!! Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, cnith +, writes (10 April 2010):
 I fail to see the problem.You know what friends with benefits is or what friends with an advantage means. It means you're nothing but a sex partner. He owes nothing more to you. You're a vagina he can put his penis into. That's all.What is the problem? You don't like it? You DO like it? I don't understand.I don't understand how you could allow this either but I'm not in your head. I'm selfish. I want more than just a penis.
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reader, anonymous_jp  +, writes (10 April 2010):
he sounds like he just wants to use you for sex, unless you want that, tell him you just want to be friends. see how he reacts and then go from there. have morals about sex and benefits, i only would do things with someone if they mean everything to me. try and get him to delete the photos of you too, they could haunt you if they're in the hands of a user, he may have shown his friends. be careful.
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reader, sweetspicy +, writes (10 April 2010):
 There's nothing wrong w/ having a friend w/ benifits just as long as you are both on the same page. You dont wana go out for dinner some where and unexpectedly see him on a date with a girl friend or another "friend". Also be sure he doesnt catch feelings for you, incase you find your self tring to date someone that does want a relationship.
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