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writes: i have just come out of a 9 yr relationship,and i dont want it to be like that. my partner myself and daughter went to a friends house to stay and have a few drinks when the kids went to bed.her bf kissed me to which i responded to for a sec and then i pulled away and told him it was wrong and shouldn't of happened,he persisted and i gave in to get it over and done with because no matter what he still carried on pushing himself onto me.his gf questioned me if we had kissed and i admitted we did,my partner got beaten up from him and so did his gf.i have put up with alot in the past from my ex partner not coming home him being at other girls houses late at night even sleeping with one of his ex gf's. mine was a genuine mistake and in no way revenge. after all that happened we decided to try harder and spent loads of time together talking and going out, till he suddenly changed his mind. i still love him and want to try because it seemed to be going fine till his phone call.how can i try and get him back he wont even talk to me right now.
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reader, Sis6372 +, writes (12 May 2006):
He wont be with you because your the only person he trusted, he doesn't even trust himself so you letting him down probably made him give up all hope. I hope it works out, but I doubt he'll get passed it. GOOD LUCK!
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reader, Confuddled +, writes (12 May 2006):
 i don't think he is any good for you... he cheated on you!!! that is low beyond low!! and he is mad at you for an unwanted kiss??? who does he think he is?? your bf should love you even more for not being like him and not having sex with the guy!! what a weiner... he's no good... i can't believe you could put up with that... he cheated on you!! i nkow you love him and its hard... but you only kissed a guy! in fact he kissed you!! he should not be mad about that... tell him to think about what he has done and how this compares to sex!!... not even close!! he has to get over it... he seems like and asshole to me... sorry to say... but that guy kissed you you didn't plan to kiss him... he had SEX with another woman... thats TOTALLY different... he should be happy that you two didn't have sex!! anyways... thats all i can say... good luck!!
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