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My friend's telling my boyfriend that I'm cheating, when I'm not, what can I do?

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Question - (5 May 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2006)
A female , *ophs writes:

hi im with my boyfriend now and my friend always stirs it up and has been telling him that im cheating well im not and my boyfriend does not believe me at all and i feel like i want to cry and my boyfriend said well if im being cheated on then i can cheat too please help what should i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006):

Ok..you need to straiten your friend out and put her in her place. Get even with her for trying to break you up. Stay away from her and find yourself a new friend. Oh and dont forgive her. She's problaby doing it to try to get with your man. I had a friend who tried pulling the same crap and I of course got even. Tell your man that she is so full of it and that you love him deeply and that he should ignore her #$%@! Tell him that if she was your friend, that friends dont tell on eachother when they cheat on their boyfriends and that you didnt, and that she's obviously pulling something here for trying so hard to break you up. Just let him know that there is no proof of you cheating on him because you didnt and that it would be wrong to break up over your friends lie. Try your best to reassure him that everything is fine and that you love him. I hope this helps...

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2006):

bonym agony auntMy dear, your friend is a manipulative, scheming, deceitful, envious minx. Find yourself another friend a TRUE friend, and as long as you have nothing to hide, your fella will see you are telling the truth. xXx

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A female reader, Angel ron +, writes (6 May 2006):

Angel ron agony auntsounds to me your friend is jealous of you having a boyfriend and wants to create trouble. If you ask me talk to your boyfriend and if he loves you he will beleive you.

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2006):

Angelicc agony auntTell your boyfriend that want to talk to him about it. tell him that you want to explain that you have never cheated on him. that your friend is trying to ruin your relationship, that if he had a trust in you that he would believe you. tell him how your friend is jealous and that he needs to believe you because you don't want your relationship to end espeically over a lie.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2006):

Sounds like someone is INCREDIBLY jelous and wants to break you two up. Tell her to grow up. If she was really your friend she wouldnt want to spread lies about you, especially not to your boyfriend.

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A female reader, Sis6372 +, writes (5 May 2006):

KICK HER BUTT!!! No but she's not a friend if she's doing that and it sounds like she probably likes your man. Tell him you think she's just trying to break you two up. Tell her that if she doesn't stay out of it that when she has a boyfriend next you'll mess it up for her. I personally would never talk to her again but you nee dto have a serious talk eith your man and let him know its only him your involved with. GOOD LUCK!

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