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writes: i am 21 years old and i am in a long distance relationship my boyfriend i love him but we get into rediculous arguments i think becuase he is immature it wasn't always long distance but i am use to it now. i get very stressed out after an argument and angry i dont know what to do?
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reader, Sis6372 +, writes (4 May 2006):
I've been where you are, and I got out, I regret it everyday. Talk to your man, tell him how you feel and tell him you love him. Don't give up just yet. I gave up too soon and after 3 years long distance and 3 years in the same town, we couldn't make it work. You just have to understand that he's in a different town and its different for him. Let him do what he wants or needs to do and DON'T sweat the little stuff, trust me its not worth it. You can't control a guy that is in a different town, it doesn't work. GOOD LUCK!
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (4 May 2006):
 if all you both do is argue I can'y see much point in you both continuing with this relationship as you both unhappy.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (4 May 2006):
 Ok I think we need to start with what is causing the arguments. Is it his insecurities about being away from you? I think the the first thing you need to do is set aside some time for some serious but calm chat, say that you dont want an argument and that you just want to sort things out and address the issues there are.
If they are his insecurities then maybe you need to reassure him a little. Long distance relationships can be hard work and maybe what is happening is it is just the strain on both of you telling. The best thing i can suggest is talk it out. Hope that helps.
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