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writes: Last night i was at my girlfriends, her cousin left her Email-inbox signed in when they went to the video store, im a inquisitive guy and seen a email from my girlfriend to her cousin..i feel rude for reading it, but the Subject line was Private, the email contained normal chit chat and the following sentence.---edit- is a gaylord but im still attracted to him as i am only human...he is really an asshole...but he is an asshole with an awesome taste in music.--She works with this guy, they talk alot during there work time..she stated him as a gaylord, should i care?is this normal 17 year old behaviour?Ive seen her lookin at guys every now and then, i am attractive, fit and understand most aspects of our relationship.Im a 20'yo male, and i shouldnt be bothering others with my miniscule problems.Thanks regardless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2006): hey love, hmm it doesnt necessarilly mean she wants to be with this other guy..speaking from experience and as a woman, i have been in a reltionship where i was very much in love..but didnt feel he felt the same for me..i needed more comittment, attention, love etc from him.. soon i met another guy who told me he liked me and eventually i started flirting back with him cus i enjoyed the attention, and although i felt attracted to this other guy, i knew nothing would become of it.and it didnt. talk to ur gf, tell her ur worried,its likely shes just feelin insecure. gudluk hun xx
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reader, Sis6372 +, writes (4 May 2006):
From one girl to a guy, get out while you can, if she doesn't break your heart with this guy, she eventually will, I know, I once was just like your girlfriend! Sorry man and Good Luck!!!
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reader, Gryphon +, writes (2 May 2006):
 I may be reading a little too much into this, but I think this is the typical female attraction to the 'tough jack-ass guys'. While the jury is out on why women get attracted to these numbskulls one thing is very certain: it is a passing fad and will never go anywhere. All things considered, I wouldn't worry about it. She may fantasize and get the occasional 'crush' but lets face it - who hasn't? I know I'm guilty and I'm pretty certain everyone else under the sun is as well.
Take care,
~Jake~
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reader, Danielle934 +, writes (1 May 2006):
 I don't think there is anything to worry about. You wrote it yourself that she thinks the guy is an asshole, and unless your girlfriend has no self respect then that statement alone should be enough to stop your worries. So she may think he is hot... big dael. Everyone probably has someone at their workplace who they think is hot. Unless you plan to end up with a woman who just sits at home all day, then you will have to accept this.
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