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Is he in this just for the sex or is he getting more serious?

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Question - (29 July 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi

I have been seeing a man for several weeks now. We have sex, I stay over, he says hes out for just fun, however in the last week or so has become very very affectionate, outside of just sex which is what he told me he wanted ( and I was fine with).

hes started wanting to see me constantly, mentioned falling for me, and being less discrete about brushing past me at work ( we work in the same company who are fine with workplace dating, but we have kept it out of their view due to the fact it was only fun)

I dont know what to do about it I feel a little in limbo with him saying he only wants fun but acting completely the opposite, I dont want to loose what we have by asking and him not feeling that way, as I really like this man, we've got on brilliantly for the past year.

Any help would be more than greatfully recieved

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A female reader, Shan14 United States +, writes (30 July 2007):

Shan14 agony auntIf you've been doing this for a year then of course he will eventually fall for you, at lease that what I think.

You can ask and see because if you don't you will never know!!!

?Hope this helps?

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