Cheating husband says I am violating his privacy!
Q. Hello all. My marriage has been having its fair share of problems but have been working on it. I have caught my husband twice cheating on me previously and just found out he's at it again. I wouldn't say I'm still in love with him as my feelings ...
A. 17 March 2012: I just wanted to say I am sorry for you. This has to be hard. Before you through things away just make sure you have done all you could. Do you think you could be contributing to his behavior at all? Counseling may be a great idea. Are you ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to some random girl while drunk, while I really like this other girl. Should I tell her?
Q. Ok I basically lost my virginity last saturday, I was so drunk that I literally cannot remember what happened, the whole night was a blank. I only found out I had sex the next morning. The problem is I am into a girl, who is also into me, but she ...
A. 17 March 2012: No. Not at all. And you should not play with fire like that ever again. STD's are very real and you need to be careful. She is not your girlfriend so you do not need to let her know. Just don't make her believe she took your virginity if you do ... (read in full...)
Thirty, single, no prospects, frequents hookers.
Q. Hi, i have recently turned thirty, only to realise that i am growing old with no experience with women and dating game. i just feel shallow, empty and detached. i have been away from home when i was 15 and have lived for the last 15 years on my own. ...
A. 17 March 2012: First off. You should be sure to get yourself checked out for all STD's..just to be on the safe side. It sounds to me you need counseling. There is nothing wrong with counseling and it does not mean there is something wrong with you. I think your ... (read in full...)
My current boyfriend wants me to delete FB pictures of my ex and I! Should I do this or not?
Q. My boyfriend feels uncomfortable seeing videos and just a handful of pics on my Facebook page of my ex boyfriend, it's vids and pictures of him and a few if my friends hanging out and normal pictures of me and him.. He's asked me previous times to ...
A. 13 March 2012: Are you kidding? Print them, and put them away in a box. He will leave you if you don't get rid of them. It is COMPLETELY embarrassing for him.... (read in full...)
Is he in a rebound relationship with his current G/f, does he still have feelings for me or is he just playing me for a fool?
Q. Me and my ex are still good friends after we broke up almost 7 months ago, although now he has a girlfriend that he claims hes in love with. He spends alot of time with her or which is what he says, and then when hes not with her hes talking to me. ...
A. 18 March 2011: You should have never contunued to be his friend. That was a big mistake. You seem to be in the friend zone. It is terrible to be in your situation I know because I have been there. Just ask him what is going on because it seems like he still ... (read in full...)
Does the old boyfriend deserve another chance? Or should I go for the new man despite the fact that my sister was in a relationship with him and is unhappy about "us' together now...?
Q. I had been in a relationship for 5 years. He was wonderful,charming,sensitive,everything a woman could want. He was my best friend. A year before we got together he had lost his young wife to a health problem and was devastated.After 5 years,he ...
A. 18 March 2011: Sheesh...I like the old one and the new one. I am just as confused. I do not think you are betraying her. You told her, if you didn't tell her then that would be wrong. Talk to her about it and let her know you love her very much. She is ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants us to stay in different rooms for a month!
Q. my girlfriend turned round to me as i was about to get into bed last night and said she wanted us to stay in different rooms and not have sex for a month so she can work herself out and that it wont be a problem if i love her. Someone tell me how i ...
A. 9 March 2011: Something is wrong. The best thing for you to do is to be understanding. Do it and do not complain, do not mention it. She needs time away from you and she will most likely work everything out if you give her the space. This is the perfect ... (read in full...)
Has too much time passed for me to tell her how I really feel?
Q. I was in a very long relationship that ended last December. She started seeing someone else, but then was on again off again (talk of reconciliation, then not) with me until last May when she became official with this guy(despite saying weeks ...
A. 24 February 2011: Go for what you want! Seriously.... (read in full...)
Would have I been better off if I had had a girlfriend years ago? Be honest.
Q. Hi everyone. I'm back. I would appreciate an honest answer to this question. I like feeling sorry for myself and blaming God for everything, but to do that, I need amunition. I need proof that what I'm complaining about is fair enough. I have always ...
A. 17 February 2011: not enough info in your question. better off in what sense? relationships? career? what?... (read in full...)
29 days of no contact and I miss him so much!
Q. I am 28 year old female and have been dating my 35 year old boyfriend for 10 months. Our relationship was rosey the first 4 months. I met all his family and he met mine, i know all his friends and he knows mine, he even said that I was the one that ...
A. 15 February 2011: Yes you take him back. You are putting him through absolute hell right now and that is not fair. Especially because he began to treat you wrong because you aborted his child. So...you should not have left like that. What you should do is contact ... (read in full...)
Why does my x-emotional affair start talking to me again after telling me good bye?
Q. Hello: I had an emotional affair with this guy at work. THings got pretty rough, a lot of back and forth 'games' almost with his behavior. Work place drama put a wedge between us. I carried a torch a while over him, dealing with his hot and...
A. 13 February 2011: He is an idiot. He left you probably expecting you to chase after him but you did not. Good for you. You threw him for a loop. Now STOP ACTING SAD, he will probably come after you more. Do not even contact him at all. He will contact you. Be ... (read in full...)
He's unhappily married...should I give "us" a shot again?
Q. I'm in love with my ex boyfriend..I never stopped thinking of him, even while being with another. I saw him for the first time since 2003. Exchanged #'s and boom the chemistry was hot and back all over like we were still together. I ended up ...
A. 13 February 2011: I feel you should let him know you are interested but you will not pursue anything while he is still involved with her. That is important because if you become involved with him while he is still living with her etc. it will drive you crazy. He ... (read in full...)
He keeps rejecting my advances. Am I doing something wrong?
Q. How do I make my boyfriend make love to me? He keeps rejecting me and I don't know what to do. Maybe im doing it wrong? Every time i try to make love to him it seems like he is pushing me away, i dont know what to do. I'm madly in love with him and ...
A. 12 February 2011: Very rarely do men want a woman coming on to them like that. Stop making advances and chill. He will come to you. Right now he has absolutely nothing to work for.... (read in full...)
How do I know if my boss likes me?
Q. My boss and I flirt on a day to day basis. Sometimes, the flirting is just fun, but other times, it is what I would consider more than flirting because of the gestures and body language he uses. He will cup my shoulders when walking past me, fidget ...
A. 12 February 2011: He is a loser. No respect. I am telling you right now he is messing with you to have sex with you. It is inappropriate. He grabs his crotch???? Really??? Why does he feel that is okay? He has no respect for you now it is going to be very ... (read in full...)
My LDR blocks me and unblocks me at random
Q. Why does she block me from calling her and then some thimes she unblocks me? Like yesterday I tryed to call her and it rang then I texed her by the end of the night saying. Dont forget to block my phone number. Then she texed back saying "Who is ...
A. 11 February 2011: Block her and keep it moving! Forget about your stuff. If it is not priceless or sentimental who really cares. If you can let it go then do that. So, block her calls asap and move on. I would not be surprised if she came running after you.... (read in full...)
Has she lost interest? Changed her mind?
Q. i would greatly appericate the help you would give me, and the advice. I have been going out with a divorced lady for about a month now.she is cool, smart, funny, good work parties, she has a hard exterior but a soft interior, shy, and single. ...
A. 10 February 2011: Just slow down. How do you have 100 reasons why you like her after one month? That would be odd to me.... (read in full...)
What does take it slow mean?
Q. what does it mean, when he says,"Lets take it Slow" in a new relationship? ...
A. 10 February 2011: He wants to take his time and feel you out to make sure he is making the right decision. My advice is to not ask him about the relationship again. You will just push him away. All you have to do now is move slow too, go with the flow.... (read in full...)
We are always joking around so I cant tell if my friend is interested or not
Q. So I'm now in high school and i thought things have been going really well. I get along with almost everyone, I have the perfect boyfriend, and I hang out in a small group that consist of 5 of my best guy friends. Well lately rumors have been ...
A. 9 February 2011: Not sure if he likes you. Maybe a little. But, what I would advise you to stop doing right now is joking with guys about sex. It makes you look bad. And you definitely do not want to do any of that knowing you have a boyfirend, it makes him look ... (read in full...)
How painful is bikini-waxing?
Q. dear cupid, soo, i'm pretty sure that this question has been asked on here before, because i know a lot of girls who are trying to figure out the exact same thing. i'm looking for hair-removal methods for the bikini area...BESIDES shaving. i curre...
A. 8 February 2011: Getting a wax is fantastic. I get a brazilian and I love it. It hurts like not other pain. My first wax I broke out in a sweat from the pain!! But, afterwards I realize the pain was well worth it. Shaving with me does not last at ALL. If you do ... (read in full...)
Be friends but dine me?
Q. Oh dear, I text-killed my date! So I meet this girl through Internet dating, we text for a few weeks then decide to meet up. We get on so well, she even says people would find it hard to believe. Eventually she asks me to kiss her and we're kissing ...
A. 8 February 2011: Leave it alone. She is controlling and trying to run you. You seem weak..you may not be...but that is definitely how you are coming across to her. So..do not contact her again and ignore her if she contacts you. How dare she demand you take her ... (read in full...)
My LDR blocks me and unblocks me at random
Q. Why does she block me from calling her and then some thimes she unblocks me? Like yesterday I tryed to call her and it rang then I texed her by the end of the night saying. Dont forget to block my phone number. Then she texed back saying "Who is ...
A. 8 February 2011: This girl is your girlfriend? Leave her alone. She seems to be trying to distance herself or something. It is very very childish behavior. Maybe you smother her, give her space. Either way her behavior is unexceptable.... (read in full...)
Whatever happened to holding hands and watching the sunset?
Q. So, alot of things have been hard to adjust to since I got out of the Army. Not the least of which has been dating, or...not dating, I suppose. I like to think I'm a nice guy, outgoing in public, but private at home. I own my own house, and c...
A. 7 February 2011: They text you because it is the easy way out without talking to you again. It got to that point where they do not want to talk to you at all. I really feel you are moving to fast or applying too much pressure, you can definitely do that without ... (read in full...)
Whatever happened to holding hands and watching the sunset?
Q. So, alot of things have been hard to adjust to since I got out of the Army. Not the least of which has been dating, or...not dating, I suppose. I like to think I'm a nice guy, outgoing in public, but private at home. I own my own house, and c...
A. 7 February 2011: Nothing is wrong with your belief system it is nice and different then the norm which is good. I can sum up your reason for being dumped all the time pretty quickly. You move too fast. There is no reason for a woman to know you are celibate until ... (read in full...)
No sex and worried my girlfriend wants to cheat on me
Q. Hi guys and gals. alright so where to start.Ive been in a relationship for a lil over 4 years now, it used to be great but now i have a few concerns/issues i was hoping to get some feedback for. *facts* me and my gf have had sex before. i...
A. 7 February 2011: You are very very welcome because there is a HUGE chance that is the problem :) she can switch to a new form and tell her doc she has lost her sex drive or just got back to condoms.... (read in full...)
She says she is going to break up my boyfriend and I. How do I handle this situation?
Q. Okay, quick question. I am a 16 year old girl, with a very good social life. I'm very popular, have lots of friends, and even have a sweet, caring boyfriend!(Yay!!) At the beginning of the year, I made a friend, let's call her Nicolette. Lately, ...
A. 7 February 2011: She does not like you! Kick her out of your life. Leave her alone you don't need her. Tell her the truth, that you do not think you two should be friends because you feel you cannot trust her. Talk to your bf about it and see if he agrees that ... (read in full...)
Should I send him a Valentine's card?
Q. Hi, I hope some of you can help, there seem to be some very good answers on here. I went out on few dates with a guy, we had an amazing few nights, we were both amazed how much we'd in common, got on, fancied each other etc. Then shockingly, he said ...
A. 6 February 2011: Do not think you should do that. That is coming on a bit strong on the outside looking in, especially it being anonymous. What you can do is send him a text that EVENING and say "hey! wanted to wish you a happy valentines day :)" Leave it at that. ... (read in full...)
I have having the lights on while having sex
Q. I wont let my Fiance keep the lights on during sex and he loves me and never complains but i am too insecure because of my body because i am fat and big is beautiful but i have like cottage cheese looking fat, oh anyways TMI sorry my Q is how can i ...
A. 6 February 2011: Go ahead and try to lose the weight if you are bothered by it. Nothing wrong with being insecure most are. Im slim and was insecure because I did not really have hips or a butt lol, I have filled in some (just a little) but I really appreciate it ... (read in full...)
How can I stop this cyber bullying?
Q. Somebody please give me some good advice, i`ve been a victim of cyber bullying, i know who's doing it but just have to get the propf, what can i do about this? i`ve just getting police involved but no joy. Please help,...
A. 6 February 2011: Can you block the person somehow? I would make the police listen and make them do their job. You should not be being harrassed by anyone. Go back to them and tell them you are afraid for your life and you want to file a report against whomever is ... (read in full...)
No sex and worried my girlfriend wants to cheat on me
Q. Hi guys and gals. alright so where to start.Ive been in a relationship for a lil over 4 years now, it used to be great but now i have a few concerns/issues i was hoping to get some feedback for. *facts* me and my gf have had sex before. i...
A. 6 February 2011: IS she on birth control? Sometimes that can destroy your libido and you just do not want sex. If not then she has a naturally low libido which is not good for you because you obviously want to have sex. Stay if you can deal with that. I ... (read in full...)
Should I go back with my girlfriend?
Q. hello everyone and thank you for taking the time to read my question. sorry if it is lengthy. I met this girl through a mutual friend and started dating her. I am 29 years old now and I had not been in a serious relationship for about 10 years. my ...
A. 6 February 2011: Tell her that her being back and fourth with the relationship is making you not trust her. That if you do decide to take her back, if she ever leaves again she needs to stay gone because you will not put yourself through this again. You still need ... (read in full...)
I found out she's a loose easy fluzzie.She's not wife material.
Q. Evening everyone. I'm in need of suggestions on how to break it off with a woman I've been seeing since this past August. I want to do in a way that won't insult her or cause her self esteem to go down. For the most part we've got on pretty well and ...
A. 6 February 2011: Be honest with her because she needs to hear the truth. She needs to hear that no self respecting man will want to settle down with a woman who behaves in that manner. Then, maybe she will change her ways and stop being so loose. You may help to ... (read in full...)
Is he serious about me? Or does he just want to get laid?
Q. I've been seeing this guy on and off... It all started off when we ended up kissing on his birthday (we were best friends)...and the kiss was so good that we ended up getting frisky a couple of times after that. I fell for him...and even told...
A. 6 February 2011: Do not stand him up. Tell him you like him too because you do. If you live in different cities that is more understandable. Not all men are after sex and since you two were best friends before I do not completely belive he is all about sex. Do ... (read in full...)
Is this guy full of it?
Q. I need some help. I just have a bad feeling about a guy I have been seeing for 3 months. When we first me we hung out 3-4 nights a week and some weekends. But even back then the weekends were hard to come by. If i text him on a sat he takes hours ...
A. 6 February 2011: Instead of asking him if you two will be doing outside things you need to ask him if he has a girlfriend or wife because that is obviously what it is. Maybe she was sick of him and cut him off. He may be lonely but still wants her that is why he ... (read in full...)
How can I survive working with my ex for a year?
Q. I wrote earlier in the week about finding out that my boyfriend of one year, had been married for 3 years. I was devastated, accused him, he denied it, called me crazy, I gave him proof, he back paddled, we cried, I asked him to leave. He did. ...
A. 6 February 2011: Keep your business to yourself. Is there a rule on not dating the people you work with? Many companies have this rule so you should look into it. If so, definitely do not say anything. Just put that relationship behind you as best as possible ... (read in full...)
She told me not to wait around for her
Q. every thing was so perfect she told me she wanted to make this work so bad and likes me a lot that i am the best thing that has ever happened to her and i think she really meant it we were the perfect couple and had everything in common possible and ...
A. 5 February 2011: You are a push over to her. She does not respect you period. She is back with him? I thought she was having family problems? Hmmm. She is a liar too. Try your best to forget about her. Once she sees you don't give a damn anymore then her ... (read in full...)
She told me not to wait around for her
Q. every thing was so perfect she told me she wanted to make this work so bad and likes me a lot that i am the best thing that has ever happened to her and i think she really meant it we were the perfect couple and had everything in common possible and ...
A. 5 February 2011: You can always date other people but let them know you have someone else also. Have fun with your life. It sounds like she was trying to let you down easily honestly. If you feel she is worth it then you be patient but still have your own life.... (read in full...)
Wondering if I'm just a booty call to him. What do you think?
Q. Ok so I am 36 met this guy online about 4 months ago.. we hit it off dated for a month or 2 before we took the relationship to a physical place. The problem is, now that is kind of ALL it is. He is in the he middle of a divorce (legally separated) ...
A. 5 February 2011: Stop contacting him and let him do all the work. When you do talk to him be happy and nice. Next time you see him leave before you have sex but whatever you do...DO NOT ASK IF YOU ARE A BOOTY CALL. You will look like you have no self esteem ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure in my relationship..
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now.These days im going through really hard times in my life and i always ask my guy to be there for me. He goes to work full time, come home study and talk with me on the ...
A. 5 February 2011: Okay. Here comes tough love. YOU SOUND OVERWHELMING!! For one, you should really STOP calling him everytime you are down, he is not your crutch and I can bet you that is wearing him down. My best friend use to do that to me and I started ... (read in full...)
Should I explain why I can't be his friend anymore?
Q. Hi - I need to decide what to do but I do not know what is best ... The situation is pretty standard. Me and him started to talk every day, we liked each other and inevitably we made everything we could to get together. We have been seeing...
A. 4 February 2011: Just take this as a learning lesson. Do not have casual relationships. Get to know a man before sex. Go on dates, talk on the phone, be sure to have conversations and fun before sex. Nothing is wrong with you not being his friend, cut him off he ... (read in full...)
Marriage or master's degree, which should come first?
Q. Please advice me, I am 25 male, handsome, working as economic analyst, but want to have my master within 2 0r 3 years, but same time want to marry....should i do master first and then marry or i should marry and then go for masters.... i...
A. 4 February 2011: Masters Degree...no if and's or but's about it!... (read in full...)
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