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writes:Please advice me,I am 25 male, handsome, working as economic analyst, but want to have my master within 2 0r 3 years, but same time want to marry....should i do master first and then marry or i should marry and then go for masters....i will appreciate if u give ur advice on this.thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your valuable advice. I really appreciate it.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (5 February 2011):
 You know I picked marriage before finishing school (going back to shove summer school down my throat), I don't regret it one bit. In fact, I'm lucky that my husband is transferring his G.I. bill to me so that the rest of my schooling will be paid for.
However, now that were married..I wish to start a family for reasons due to our age, and other health reasons. I realize it's going to be quite a challenge to try to attend school and have a family to take care of.
My vote is you can have marriage, keep in mind that there are 2 people in a marriage and you need to invest time into it. You can really have both, go through your master's while looking for your potential wife, and when you've graduated then you can ask her to marry you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): id say go for the masters before anything. women may come and go but your masters will help you for the next 60+ years of your working life and besides you would want to have a good job and money in your pocket before thinking about marriage because its so expensive in these times were living in.. best regards
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (5 February 2011):
Masters first
Though some marriages are good for school and studying but many are not.. Take care
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (4 February 2011):
 If I were you, I'd get the Master's degree first. It will be much more difficult to juggle school, work, and a family at the same time, so finish up school first! Good luck!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 February 2011):
 I'd say school first. Marriage gets expensive and time consuming. School will definitely be easier if you're not attached.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (4 February 2011):
Masters Degree...no if and's or but's about it!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (4 February 2011):
 I don't understand why it is one or another. I am married but finishing up my degree. My partner is incredibly supportive of my education. Your relationship should not challenge your educational goals! If there is a woman who is making you choose between finishing up or marriage, she is probably not the right one for you. Good luck, sweet!
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (4 February 2011):
 I would say do the masters first, while you are young. Get your education out of the way, then look for a wife, that is if you don't already have a fiance. If you do have someone in mind to marry, and you are both ready, I don't see why you can't do that before you take your masters. It doesn't have to be one or the other, but it would probably be easier to be singke while you do your degree, just from a purely logical viewpoint. Less distractions from studying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): Your fiance should understand and not pressure you for marriage if a degree is what you want before you do. What is the rush? Tell her you want to wait until you finish your degree and then you can marry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): No reason you can't do both as many people marry and go to school at the same time. Do you have young children..is that why this question is being asked? You may want to wait until your kids are in school to get your advanced degree or your wife can stay home for now if you make good money.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): Are you with someone right now you want to marry? That is something you should discuss together when you are figuring out your life plan. Not really a dilemma you face, unless you have been with someone a while who you wish to marry.
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