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writes:Hi, I hope some of you can help, there seem to be some very good answers on here. I went out on few dates with a guy, we had an amazing few nights, we were both amazed how much we'd in common, got on, fancied each other etc. Then shockingly, he said he didn't think we should go out again as he wasn't over his ex and still missed her. Because I met him through friends of friends type of thing, I know it wasn't a line and that he hadn't been out on date for long long time, and he doesn't go out picking up women at the weekend..I said ok and I respect that etc, (what else COULD I say?..) But my question is this - I have an overwhelming urge to send him an anonymous valentines card..Is this crazy? I wouldn't mind if he suspected it was me, but I think to send him one with my name on would freak him out, and I like to think that there might be some kind of possibility for us in the future..This guy btw totally chased ME.. I do believe what he say's about his ex..Any advice would be greatly received..thanks so much all :) Mary
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): Hi both, just wanted to say thanks veyr much for the advice!..Think it is really best to leave it on thinkin about it, that's the advice I'd probably give someone else on the outside looking in! :)
Have already bought two cards :( will keep for next year.. ;)
Thanks again
M
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): I agree with Patientlywaiting1. Except I would suggest you don't even text.....unless HE texts YOU first. He has told you were he is at... leave it at that. He is more likely to think of you more and maybe come back to you in the future, if you don't push in any way. Let him send you the card or the text. If he doesn't, then he won't really care that much about receiving yours.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1  +, writes (6 February 2011):
Do not think you should do that. That is coming on a bit strong on the outside looking in, especially it being anonymous. What you can do is send him a text that EVENING and say "hey! wanted to wish you a happy valentines day :)" Leave it at that. Short and sweet..thoughtful. Then continue to respect his decision. He may come around eventually.
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