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writes:Last year, I went to an overnight camp on the other side of the country and met the most amazing girl I had ever laid eyes on. It was love at first sight. By about the time that i was about to leave camp, we knew we were into each other but we didnt do anything about it. Later, back at home, I discovered that she got a new boyfriend after i left. At first i didnt think it was really serious but it has been almost a year so far. She and I have still been communicating and we are actually really good friends. We can trust each other with anything. But, I dont want to be just friends, I'm in love with her. I've tried to forget about her but it's no use. She lives on the other side of the country and she's with another guy. How could things get any worse. I need advice.
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reader, rose007  +, writes (6 April 2010):
Does she know that you still like her as more than a friend? I like a guy who lives overseas but a big factor in not telling him how I really feel is because I can't see the long distance thing working out. Even if she likes you this might be a reason she wants to just stay friends. But tell her how you feel and you can make a decision together.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (2 April 2010):
 ok then
Well, you need to keep chatting everyday, and send her a gift.. a teddy bear that has you name would be good.
You need also to emphasise that you like doing the things she likes. So that she wants to chat with you over anyone else.
This will also make her bf look bad. Dont push to hard, be subtle and when she starts complaning about her bf your in.
There is just one more thing, choose a time or date and if it just isnt happening then move on, people waiste their whole lives on loves that never were. Dont make that mistake
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reader, luke9847 +, writes (2 April 2010):
Hey. I wrote this question and im not about to give up on this. I asked for some real advice. not someone to tell me to forget. And in my opinion, a long distance relationship is better than none at all. I want advice that will help me get her.
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reader, Myau +, writes (1 April 2010):
You are about to learn several of lifes lessions.
So do you want the bad news or the worse news?
You are in love with her, but she isnt , you are a good friend to her...nothing more.
So now you have to decide if that is enough because you wont get more out of this.
Even if she was interested, you live so far apart..dont fall into the longdistance relationship trap. I did and its very lonely. Its also a lie, you arnt together.
So I feel your best bet is to tell her how you feel and say goodbye. Go and meet a girl in your area and have a rel relationship
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