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writes:Dear Friends,it's the first time i really feel i need help !, till now i was in control of my life. i thought i would not fall in love simply because this special girl in my dreams doesn't exist and i decided to lead a single life . however i recently fell in love with this girl , words can't describe her , just can say that she's the one i've been waiting for. the problem is that i can't tell her my feelings :Si speak with her in so so many stuff , once we were speaking about likness, she told me there a guy she likes , and i was like ,oh no . problem is um leading messy life now, can't tell her my feelings as she likes someone else, don't know who is that guy so um living a dream it could be me !i know i sounds crazy but um really in love with her and really don't know what to do plz help :)
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reader, cassanra")  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 omg!
thats so cute okay all you have to do is tell her!!!
be like heyy i need to tell yu something..
I like you and i want to be with you.
thats it but you have to make sure its at the right time!
dont do it over the phone or when theres a lot of ppl around. ask her out to the movies, dinner, ice skatting something cute with just ya'll two and then yu tell her,
good luck,
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reader, needadvice101 +, writes (27 March 2010):
 telll her how you feel as soon as you can maybe your the one she wants! maybe the guy she like is you!!!! this could be perfect or maybe she doesnt realize she likes you because i didnt realize i liked a guy untill my friend told me he liked me and i was totally at a loss for words it took a few days for me to grasp it but i realized i liked him! so if she seems confused give her a few days and make sure she understands if she really is a good person then youve got nothing to lose i hope you get her :)
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reader, Myau  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 You dont know is right.
What is stopping you?? really?
Take life as it comes or miss out and wonder what if.
Its your call
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Why can't you tell her your feelings?
If this is your dream girl, will you lose her before even trying?
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reader, lilacfox  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 How well do you know her? Is she a friend already, or just someone you like but don't know very well?
Have you tried writing down all your feelings, how you feel about her, how you feel about your life as it is right now, what is good and not good within your life? These are things to write down only for yourself, not to be shown to anyone else.
Imagine you are writing her a letter, about all of your feelings for her, and how you feel about the situation that you are in right now. Don't show her, just write it for yourself. Put it away somewhere.
If she is already a friend, then it will be hard to see her being interested in someone else.
Don't let your life become messy for the sake of someone (however much you may feel for them) else. Your life is only your own.
Make good of your life, be happy within yourself. If this girl is meant to come to you, she will. Everything happens for a reason, and things will happen if they are Right.
This is the Hardest thing in the world to believe in, believe me I know, but once you believe this, the rest is not as difficult and painful as it seemed before.
I hope I made some sense - please feel free to message me if you need me explain some more.
Good luck :)
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