I just need to get her out of my mind!
Q. hello everyone. i litterally need everybody's advices, coz im litterally going crazy , here is the situation, im in LDR relationship since 2 yrs now with my gf and for some reasons we couldnt meet, anyway lately she really changed so much i mean it ...
A. 15 October 2010: Most break-ups aren't easy, but you need to let her go. You love her and miss her now, but believe me there will come a day when you start thinking about her less and less, and one day you will find you don't miss her much and do not have the ... (read in full...)
I am fed up of doing all the chasing with her!
Q. i have been seeing this lovely woman whom i met on a date site, i like her a lot although we dont see each other much she lives 15 miles from me. when we do meet i always treat her nice ie meals etc however my problem is she will not get in touch ...
A. 15 October 2010: Some women like to be chased for to say. They want the man to initiate everything.
Your options: 1) break up with her or 2) TALK to her about it.
relationships never work out without communication. Both must give and take a little, so expre... (read in full...)
LDR - guy disappeared, but he's back again now. Should I write back?
Q. I know you might get these a lot, but I wanted to hear this great community's input. I was in a LDR - we were together for about 2 years. We loved each other, or so I thought..keep reading. Work took a lot of his time, very busy, so sometime...
A. 15 October 2010: No. First off, I believe if a guy truly likes you, that they would have a very hard time going weeks without contacting you. Now, he did it a second time, that means you leave no matter how much or how little you miss him. This just means he doesn't ... (read in full...)
I've been married 2 years and I'm still a virgin
Q. i am 23year old married from 2 years and still a virgin. my husband is being patient with me but i get frustrated.my husband even had a affair but he was not sexually involved with gal but now its all over.he says he loves me.ours is love marriage ...
A. 15 October 2010: What the others said, you need to seek help.
Two people who love each other fully are supposed to want to have sex. I can understand going a couple of weeks while married without sex out of nervousness but 2 years is a long time. Also, examine ... (read in full...)
Why didn't he tell me about this girl he turned down?
Q. my bf and i have been together for 6 years. I recently travelled and he started a new course at a new uni and made a couple friends. one of them was this girl who out of the blue told him that she likes him regardless of the fact that she knew about ...
A. 15 October 2010: Because if he had told you he knew you might have gotten upset and worried. Thus, he didn't tell you because he didn't want you worried about something that didn't happen.
(I don't exactly tell my guy if other guys asked me out.)... (read in full...)
He took my virginity and now I don't know how to handle the relationship!
Q. I was always desperate for love and to be loved. I met a guy at work and at first he wasn't my type and way too old (Im 24 he's 38), my family woudln't accept him. So I eventually (being nice) got to know him and started to develop feelings for him. ...
A. 15 October 2010: First of all, what are we supposed to give you advice on? Secondly, the man is 38 means there is a 12 year difference, which is rather big if you ask me. You had sex with a man 12 years older, wow. You already lost your virginity so don't bother ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to get over a girl.
Q. I'm trying to get over a girl. It is hard to do, especially because we are around each other a lot. I can't talk to anyone in my life about it for reasons I don't want to get into, but there is a reason I am posting this on a website anonymously. ...
A. 14 October 2010: If he like her, express your feelings to her. Maybe she feels the same about you.
Secondly, don't involve your family in this. This is YOUR life and YOU have to live it. Your family can't determine who you love and who you don't love~only you can.... (read in full...)
After 2 days and 100 texts, why did he start ignoring me?
Q. Ok, So I'm Sixteen, I have never kissed a guy and I am really embarrassed about this. I have had this one particular crush for about a year now. About two weeks ago he told me he liked me and I admitted to liking him. I thought we were going to ...
A. 14 October 2010: Move on.
P.S.: I have never been kissed yet by a man either, and I'm a few years older than you. On the other hand, I also won't let a man kiss me until he has the title "husband."
Nothing to be embarrassed about; I'm certainly not. Actuall... (read in full...)
My partner stares at beautiful women!
Q. Hi there women of the world. What do you do when your man keeps staring at beautiful and attractive women when he does not think I can see him. He just stares intently at them. The other day whilst in Melbourne he was walking ahead of me and he had ...
A. 11 October 2010: I second the reply of start staring at other guys. He'll notice and when he says something about it you reply something like "You do it so why can't I?"... (read in full...)
After 10 months LD, do I meet this guy?
Q. So I've been dating this guy for off and on for about 10 months whom I've never met in person before. We met on a chat line and we hit it off from the very beginning. Throughout the ten months we have had our differences and seen the worst come out ...
A. 11 October 2010: If you have high doubts like that, it means call it off. It's ok for a guy to get angry or made or hurt at or from a girl, but it is NOT ok for them to act on it (that means no name calling). People simply do not do that to people they love. Now,... (read in full...)
My fiance is very controlling!
Q. My fiance is a very dominating person.. he tries to control me.. he has a problem with all of my male friends.. he manipulates me..i tend to compare this relationship with my past relationships and i am afraid to say that the past relationship was ...
A. 11 October 2010: HHmm, yes, easy one. This is what you do: take your engagement ring and give it back to your boyfriend~then you won't be engaged anymore but rather broken up.... (read in full...)
Husband calls me names that no responsible woman would take!
Q. i have a husband who is too controling, mean, bitter and heartless. I am not working because we have two kids together and I am the one taking care of them, every day he calls me all kinds of bad names that no responsible lady can take, before ...
A. 9 October 2010: Leave him. Parents are old model for kids; so what one parent does can easily turn into how your kids treat people and their future families.
Ever hear that most abusers are people who had abusive parents?
You need to do what is best for you ... (read in full...)
I want to stop my daughter from making a big mistake!
Q. My 20 yr old daughter is making the biggest mistake of her life, I know that everyone says kids need to learn by their mistakes and I totally agree but not when it can ruin their future. 5 months ago she came home and told us that she was dating a...
A. 9 October 2010: Well, you could try to sit down with her and talk to her about EXACTLY why you are concerned. Another option would be to (and this is a very weird option but could work if done well and the guy went along with it)....get a girl (make her really... (read in full...)
Do I look fat in this?
Q. I am about 132 and 5'7 3/4". My husband keeps saying that I am fat. Are there any circumstances under which, or cultures in which this would be considered fat? Are there any guys here that consider this proportion too fat for their taste?...
A. 9 October 2010: Your not fat; not at all!
Wow, your husband sounds like a jerk. No better way to show lover and affection for your wife then to call her fat. Not to mention, talk about shallow. I think you picked a spoiled apple.... (read in full...)
Could I be the girl he is talking about?
Q. I met a guy online about 3 or 4months ago. I talk to him all the time. He has recently split up with his other half and has been very down about it, and I have just been a person thats there for him to chat to. He can be quite flirty but he says ...
A. 9 October 2010: The simple way would be to inquire about it more. Say "That depends; what is she like and how long have you known her?"... (read in full...)
LDR I don't understand why he can't make more of an effort!
Q. Hi am 22 f. I'm in a distance relationship fro 9 months. And I love my guy. We were best frens for 6 months prior to that.We haven't met all this while. For the first 3 months we were just great.Then he got busy and drastically cut down on ...
A. 9 October 2010: What you described is how it used to be with me exactly. (We used to talk so much, then he stopped talking to me for 2 weeks, and only 1 message in that time period; I then left him a message about the situation and he snapped back into place. Even ... (read in full...)
I don't want to sleep with my teacher but I did flirt with him
Q. I know there are tons of questions involving students adn teacher sbut i have yet to find an answer. I don't want to sleep with my teacher. Originally i did but i ditched my 6th hour to go to his class because he had a planning period and i am ...
A. 9 October 2010: What is it with teenage girls and their male teachers????
He's your teacher...only your teacher. You do NOT go to him UNLESS you have an academic question.
I'm a girl and it wasn't so long ago that I was in high school. Were there a couple of ... (read in full...)
Open relationship to save a long distance relationship?
Q. i'm in the forces and soon i'll be going away for 6 month. 3 Months ago i met a girl while i was away with work and have gotten into what seems like a really intense and serious relationship. We seem to have fallen for each other and are talking ...
A. 9 October 2010: I would NEVER agree to an open relationship ever; that is just wrong. If two people TRULY love each other, they would want to be committed to that one person and that one person only, no matter how long they have to wait to see each other again.
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How can I be happy and single?
Q. All advice would be much appreciated! I'm 16 and have never had a boyfriend, and I think I need to work on myself for now as I keep having crushes and it's distracting me from school. So what do single people do in order to make themselves happy...
A. 9 October 2010: The first time I ever got a boyfriend was between 18 and 19; I don't know which one because we started out friends first and there was no "would you like to go...with me?"
I had the opportunity in the eigth grade to have a boyfriend though; ... (read in full...)
FWB turning into a dating situation?
Q. For the past two months are so I've been engaging in a friends with benefits. He and I started seeing eachother after we met for the first time through mutual friends. Neither of us were really looking for relationships, we ended up enjoying ...
A. 8 October 2010: Hhmm, this is a perfect example of why sex shouldn't be involved in relationships. 1) Usually the girl lets him have sex too soon and 2) this is the one I like~wait until marriage! If you do this you will know if he's in the relationship for you or ... (read in full...)
How do you know when he likes you or not?
Q. How do you know exactly when i guy is interested in you or not.. with details what does he say or do t give it off that he may have a crush on you or may like you.??? Also is their something that a guy saids or does for you to get a clue that he d...
A. 8 October 2010: It can be hard to tell sometimes.
Currently I know one guy likes me because 1) out of all the people he can choose to talk to, he picks me and 2)this was the big one, he said things like "I love the way you..."
When I was younger, a boy i... (read in full...)
I have fallen for my ex's sister!
Q. Here is my story/question. About a year ago i broke up with my girlfriend whom I have 2 kids with. When she left I started hanging out with her sister. Just over ayear has passed since the breakup and her sister and I have become super good frien...
A. 7 October 2010: Don't ever date your ex's sister. It will cause your ex to become angry at you and can easily tear up her relationship with her sister. Once you break up with someone you break up with their family too; not move down the line until all possible ... (read in full...)
He took it nonchalantly when I said "I love you"
Q. I am 60 and have been dating a 63 yr. old widower for about a month and a half. He has been telling me for a couple of weeks now that he loves me.. I was hesitant to reply in kind because I didn't think I knew him well enough to respond the same. ...
A. 7 October 2010: I agree with the others said.
In my case, he told me he loved me first, and I waited a few months before I said it, and he still says it, much more than I do.
Don't sweat it. He's a guy. I can't tell you when the last time I heard my dad tel... (read in full...)
I'm ready to give up all together!
Q. How can I get over sex and men? I hate my body it's so disgusting. I'm a bit fat but working on it, although I'm not overweight, but almost. The problem is I have a disproportioned body, I have big hips, big butt with cellulite and thighs with ...
A. 7 October 2010: Your thinking wrong. First, you need to find a man who you love very very much and he the same for you. Personality comes first, not physical beauty. There once was a poll out that asked men if cellulite bothered them; despite what you ... (read in full...)
How to approach her?
Q. I'm at uni at the moment and there's this girl doing the same course as me that I really like. But I'm quite shy and I don't know how to go about letting her know I like her. The only things I know about her are her name and that she lives on ...
A. 7 October 2010: Don't ask her out right now. Maybe try to get to know her right now, but if you sense her getting annoyed with you then retreat. There is a guy like this in one of my classes~he has 5 other people sitting around him and I'm the one he talks to, even ... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and a virgin!
Q. i am 23 years old guy and going to be 24 this December......and i am still a virgin.... i masturbate when i feel turning on, but about sex with a girl(i feel like is it right to have sex with any girl who likes me, or to whom i like?).....
A. 7 October 2010: Im 21 and a vigin and have will never have sex until I am married, which I'd like to think I will be one day.... (read in full...)
I am ignored when girlfriend is stressed, what am I doing wrong?
Q. When my girlfriend of 5 years gets stressed at work mainly she practically ignores me but continues doing things with her son family and friends and then get annoyed when I raise this issue and accuses me of not being supportive, what am I doing ...
A. 7 October 2010: My boyfriend did this to me a couple weeks ago, but worse yet he didn't tell me why, I felt I didn't exist to him. So, eventually I gathered up my courage to talk to him about it; I talked to him about it in a gentle way and told him why exactly it ... (read in full...)
He's been using the word 'love' in our chats, should I tell him I've noticed or just carry on as normal?
Q. hi just a quick one, been here before, just need a little advise on what to do, my man, who i have been with for over a year and half, and we are in LDR, but we are fully committed do all a LDR does, he has a bit of a hard time telling me his ...
A. 7 October 2010: This is why it for me too. First of all, he never use any icon faces that could be misconstured as innapropriate; he asked for my permission first (so if he wanted to kiss me, even on the cheek with an emoticon, he asked first). This was AFTER he ... (read in full...)
Do men think women who don't like blowjobs are boring?
Q. Do men think that women who don't give oral sex are boring or no fun??...
A. 7 October 2010: Well, as I girl I personally think that oral sex is gross; I'd be ok with touching with hand, but not mouth, no, not mouth. A guy could call me boring all he wanted to, but then I really wouldn't care.... (read in full...)
I have to change my life... help!
Q. hi ive been having an affair for 14 years with a married woman, she has got two children and her husband is a good man who treats her good, but I'm still having this affair and i love her deeply, she says she loves me but she still flirts a lot and ...
A. 6 October 2010: You need to break up with her. First of all, shame on you for seeing a married woman. Does marriage mean nothing to you? Secondly, shame on her, and shame on her big time. I can't imagine having a mother who would cheat...bad mother and bad wife. ... (read in full...)
Fixed on feet and lost about sex. Help!
Q. I'm a 25 year old male from the UK. I have a sexual fixation with female feet, Unfortunately I judge women on their feet and am usually easily put off if they arn't nice. This being the only body part that really turns me on has led to problems over ...
A. 6 October 2010: I'm sorry but I had to laugh about the feet part! (Don't worry too much about that though; my niece has an ear fettish.)
As for the sex part...how about just not worry about that until marriage? Then both you and your wife can work together... (read in full...)
We are trying to move past the second affair. Should I stay or should I go now?
Q. I have been with my husband for 9 years, I cheated on him about 7 years ago and he found out. I never came clean but he is pretty sure that something happened. We have been married now for 6 years and for the past 2 years we have had a rocky ...
A. 6 October 2010: I say seperate. (I say this soley for your husband; he deserves a wife who doesn't commit adultery.)... (read in full...)
Help.. broke up with bf and miss him desperately
Q. hi. i had been dating someone for 2 1/2 years - let's call him jim. jim and i met online, both in relationships we were tired of. so we broke up with our respective others to get together. a week later, we had our first date. it was perfect. in the ...
A. 6 October 2010: I met a guy online too and we used to talk a lot then he stopped talking to me for almost two weeks, then I emailed him about it and he says he was just overly busy and stressed with work, but I hate those excuses. Busy or not you just don't stop ... (read in full...)
Newly separated and it's killing me
Q. We're 20, have been together for more than 6 months, and I moved 1000 miles away. We knew almost since we started dating that this day would come, but I haven't imagined we would mean this much to me. It's KILLING me, we separated only 5 days ago, ...
A. 4 October 2010: It's only been 5 days; you miss him, that is normal. (I know from experience both in the dating world and with family moving, that it takes a long time to get adjusted without them.)Trust me though, you will get used to things; just give it time. In ... (read in full...)
She wants to try again, but I'm not sure
Q. I meet this girl online about 2 yrs ago. And from that day on we have talked. So about 4 or 5 months that we have been talking I went in saw her. I live in oregon and she lives in boston. So I went in saw her for the frist time and it was great we ...
A. 4 October 2010: Calm down! First of all, figure out why she blocked you; there had to have been a reason. Secondly, if you can't find a job there you will be forced to stay somewhere where you can find a job. Maybe you can find a job closer to her and then move? If ... (read in full...)
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