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writes:I meet this girl online about 2 yrs ago. And from that day on we have talked. So about 4 or 5 months that we have been talking I went in saw her. I live in oregon and she lives in boston. So I went in saw her for the frist time and it was great we got a long good we had a great sex life. I was over there for the first time for about a month. So after I came back home we still talked for about a yr or so. Then I went to move over there for real this time. But things did not work out that good I was going to get a job in move out into my place. But I could not find a job in had to move back home. And her mom found me living with her and she has not said any thing to her mom about me so I had to move back home because I was living with her and her mom did not want me to live with her. So about a month or so from when I got back she did not want to talk to me any more she block me from calling her every thing. So about a month in a hav she called me up one night saying that she is missing me in stuff. And the other day she unblocked me from her phone so I can call her in tex her now. And she wants to try it again I want her a lot I want her to live wih me in oregon but I dont think she will I mean I dont know I want her back in I dont know what to do with out her in life!!
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reader, promiker +, writes (6 October 2010):
promiker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I love her with all my hart. I would love for her to move out here but Im not sure yet on what she wants to do. She is saying now she wants to move over here to be with me but Im not sure because some times Im thanking she is just playing with me but im not sure. Why I say that is because when I tex her she does not tex me back but when I call her it fills so weard to talk to her I dont why it fills that way but it just does? But yeah I mean maybe she is wanting to move over her she was just saying that last night I hope so but she does not call me some times so I dont know if Im just getting played out.
Well she is 28 almost 29. She does work full time 6 days a week over back in boston so I dont know if she would want to give up her job to come see me.? I mean right now Im trying to find a job here back in oregon so I can move out in get my place. I told her that if or when I get a job in my place that she can fly over here any time in stay for free.
Yeah in your right I dont want to get hurt some times when I call her I fill like Im bugging her in I dont want to should I not call her should I let her call me or should I call her?
Yeah I have wanted to go out with my friends for a long time I was thanking about going out this weekend as a single guy just to see what happens I mean I dont know what we are right now Im so lost with us I dont know what to do some time I just fill like chilling with my friends some times.
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reader, monkey friend +, writes (4 October 2010):
Calm down! First of all, figure out why she blocked you; there had to have been a reason. Secondly, if you can't find a job there you will be forced to stay somewhere where you can find a job. Maybe you can find a job closer to her and then move? If you do stay where you are at, you can try to convince her to come move by you, but if she doesn't then you have no option but to let her go and let her fade from your life. No break-ups are easy and both parties generally get bruised, but keep in mind she isn't the only female out there; you could find someone in your hometown or one who is willing to move and yet have just a great personality as her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): It may help to know how old she is and is she in school or does she work. Was she paying the rent on her apartment? Is she very close to her family and how are you with your family? I can see why they would not want you living with her but I don't understand why she did not tell them that she had a serious boyfriend. Why did she hide you from them. Are you the type of young man they would like for their daughter?
Lots of questions but details would help.
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reader, melomat  +, writes (4 October 2010):
 it sounds like you love her very much and since she's changed you have to tread cautiously because you don't want to get hurt a second time. You said it was hard for you to find work in her town so this time maybe she can move to your town. Being in a relationship is all about compromise. I've recently found out that ones parents plays a very big role in a relationship as much as we think they don't they run the show just in the background. Build a relationship with her mum and see if things won't improve
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