My b/f says it's the baby or him
Q. Hi I am 14 wks pregnant and been in my relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years and we have a 5 year old son together. My boyfriend is not happy about this pregnancy and says he doesnt want anymore kids and is forcing me to choose between him and ...
A. 2 March 2010: I'm sorry but that is BULLSHIT. You have been together for 8 years... and now he's actually making you choose between your baby or him??? If he loves you he would NOT make you choose like that. It takes two to tango, and if he really did not want ... (read in full...)
Trying to have a baby!
Q. Me and my husband are trying to have a Baby. So if i were on top of him and he came inside me like halfway almost at the tip of my entrance and i stand up then go and lay on my back for like 5-10minutes. Could that help us to have a baby. We are ...
A. 2 March 2010: Yeah I'm not too sure about being able to choose the sex of your baby or the theories, but I can tell you that I felt what mine was at 12 weeks!!! Like at first I really didn't know and one day I just woke up and looked at my boyfriend and said ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I can go through with this pregnancy because I don't want to be a single mum with 2 kids to 2 different fathers
Q. I find myself in a tricky situation. Im 7 wks pregnant to a guy ive been with for 5 months hes loves me totally but im not sure i feel the same.i feel something but not sure what. Getting pregnant has been a shock an accident. Ive been single for 3 ...
A. 2 March 2010: I think that this was meant to happen. You said so yourself that you've wanted a baby, but never had anyone, and now you do. From what you say it sounds like this man really loves you. I think you are letting your fears and worries get to you as ... (read in full...)
I want to keep my virginity until I am married, but my current boyfriend wants to get intimate. How do I deal with this?
Q. I recently started getting "serious" with a guy I like and we are pretty happy, except I'm really nervous about one thing: sex. I'm still a virgin and no, this is not my 1st relationship-the problem is that my last one ended because the guy was ...
A. 26 February 2010: I don't know ow you would tell him, but I honestly think that if he does love you then he will wait for you and if he can't then he's just not the man for you.... (read in full...)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 21 February 2010: Well rape by definition is any act of sexual intercourse that is forced. While its true he stopped about a minute or so, you specifically told him not to before hand, yet he did. It may not have been some brutal form of rape, yet even though it was ... (read in full...)
My BF&GF fight all the time over me, and its getting kinda old
Q. OK.. so Im bisexual, and pregnant. Im only in high school, and am doing Really well. My BF and GF fight all the time over me, and its getting kinda old. I know I can only DATE one of them, but Im having a hard time chosing who I NEED to stay with.. ...
A. 21 February 2010: Well, I am bisexual, and I also was pregnant and just had a baby. I know you are going to HATE hearing this, because at your age I would have too. I really think you shouldn't be with either of them due to your age and the point you are at inyour ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want a baby but I want to make my husband happy!
Q. Everyone wants me to have babies. My parents, his parents, him, our friends,our relatives... etc.,etc... I am 35 and married to a wonderful man. I told him when we got married that I would give him children. He has wanted to have a baby for ...
A. 19 February 2010: Well you just seem to have a different mind set about children, as a lot of women do before they get pregnant. You have a work - based mindset which is fine, totally normal. No one really wants to gain weight from pregnancy either, but if you are ... (read in full...)
Will taking a birth control pill after unprotected sex help prevent pregnancy?
Q. I just started back taking my birth control pills this past sunday night. Me and my boyfriend had sex but the condom broke even and he didn't ejaculate in me. I had already taken one of my birth control pills a few hours before we had sex. The next ...
A. 18 February 2010: So let me make sure I'm gathering the right information you took a bc pill and then had sex, but you had just started taking the birthcontrol that night, an fearing that you could become pregnant you also took two pills that next day?? If that is ... (read in full...)
Have any of you girls out there had a pregnancy scare?
Q. I have a question for any girls / women out there have you ever felt you were pregnant, if so before you found out if you were or not, how did you feel, what could of the man / boy have done to make things better for you? what did you think? X thank ...
A. 18 February 2010: I have had 3 pregnancy scares. Although for me it didnt really sink in. the first time, my breasts hurt terribly for two weeks, literally like they were goin ot fall off. I was seventeen at the time and fed 30 horses as a job, and when I'd go to put ... (read in full...)
Are these signs just circumstantial or could I be pregnant?
Q. I know this might be a stupid question but I would honestly like some opinions on this matter before I spend $10. I haven't had sex since about mid-January and I started on birth control about a week after my boyfriend left for university again. ...
A. 18 February 2010: You know I have had times where I too, took the placebo pill and didn't my period until a few days later. Mind you I also just had a baby and while pregnancy symptoms are different for all women, when I first fell pregnant I constantly felt like my ... (read in full...)
I had my contraceptive rod taken out 5 months ago, now I'm trying to get pregnant and nothing is happening!
Q. hi i got the contraceptive rod in , it last for three years, unfortunately i had it in for four. i just got it out 5 months 6 maybe due to trying to get pregnant, but nothing happening.. do i wait longer for my body to get back to normal or ...
A. 21 January 2010: You really should speak to a doctor about this, but I know that someties it can take your body a year or more to regulate its self. Sometimes implants can make you sterile as well, but thats usually very rare. Anywho do talk to a doctor.... (read in full...)
I'm 18 wks pregnant and my BF is still trying to get me to have an abortion or miscarriage.
Q. hi i am 18 years old im 18 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend of 2 yrs is still trying to get me to have an abortion or a miscarriage he said if i love him i would do that for me. mind you dat 1yr ago i had an abortion of havin 2twins 1girl n1 boii - ...
A. 20 January 2010: This is most likely easier said than done, but if i were you I would end it with him. He is not reliable, not if at first he says that he will help you and stay by your side then, goes off and isn't there for you and doesn't help you. Its also ... (read in full...)
Implantation bleeding?
Q. hi i'm 18, just got a quick but serious question, 6 days after ovulation (i did have sex the day before ovulation,) anyway i had a brown spottin for about 6-7 hours, i figured it was implantion bleeding, i'm not 11 days late on my period, took 2 ...
A. 20 January 2010: You really need to see a doctor for that, as soon as you can. So please go pay the doctor a visit, if you notice any other changes like if you get a fever or start vomitting, then go to the emergency room, for the implantation could be making you ... (read in full...)
Question on conceiving...
Q. Do you concieve on the day of ovulation? Or before of after? Confused!...
A. 20 January 2010: BabyMama is right, although you can concieve at anytime, you just have a BETTER chance when you ovulate (or a day or so before) But yes you can concieve anytime, even during your period!... (read in full...)
What are the chances of me being pregnant?
Q. My period started on the 4th, so I started taking my birth control that same day, for the first time in 5ish months.. Period was normal. Well Saturday, 16, my boyfriend accidentally came inside of me, whats the chances of me being pregnant?...
A. 19 January 2010: Well, I would say you could be pregnant, because normally you need to take birthcontrol at least a whole month before it really is effective. But remember that when you have unprotected sex, though you are using birth control, there is always a ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and worried he is cheating on me!
Q. I'm afraid my fiancee is or soon will be cheating on me. I'm 4 months pregnant and I've let myself go a bit because of it. I've found emails of him emailing craigslist girls saying he wants to chat and he's looking for a friend AND lover. He even ...
A. 19 January 2010: First things first confront him about it. Tell him that what he's doing is hurting you, because frankly it is! You are pregnant with his child, and he is out talking to other women, thats just not right! Tell him you would like him to stop and ... (read in full...)
I am profoundly hurt over her behavior!
Q. My boyfriend proposed recently and gave me a beautiful ring. We have been together for over 6 years and we are very happy. I called my best gf's first and the one that I thought was my very best friend, said she was at a bar and too drunk to talk. ...
A. 19 January 2010: Try to approach her about this, maybe she is just trying to tell you how she feels but can't find the right words and doesn't want to hurt you. Talk to her honestly and openly, try to be cordial about it so there is no argument. I think that would ... (read in full...)
Is my soon to be ex husband's friend off limits?
Q. My husband and I have been apart since 2003/2004. He started using drugs/alcohol and abondoned his family in 2004. He has caused nothing but pain and anguish... but I did try to stick it out because of my wedding vows and our child. Over the years, ...
A. 19 January 2010: I agree with pinktopaz, please wait until everything is legally said and done, and that you are divorced. Also you would need to make sure that you did have your life straightened out, its best not to rush into a relationship. Especially due to your ... (read in full...)
Baby situation as well as boyfriend!?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and want a baby at least one, so we have been trying for a while but I don't no whether he wants as much or his hope is just lost, at the minute we are waiting to see if i am pregnant, but if i ...
A. 19 January 2010: I do agree with the anonymous poster. If you two are completly sure this is want you want and you are ready to commit to eachother ( marriage?), have financial means to support each other and a baby, have your own place, ( be it rented or owned)have ... (read in full...)
Is he just in denial about the baby?
Q. I let myself be used and abused willing by a ramdon guy i've know for a little while, now i'm pregnant - the thing is he has a kid and we joked about having kids, not that i really thought anything of that, kids were the last thing on my mind. It ...
A. 18 January 2010: He may need more time, but he could be in denial. If he doesn't step up in a few months I would agree with you that you sould just cut your losses but DO provide an "open door" so to speak, for him to be a father, if infact he does decide to step ... (read in full...)
Give the engagement ring back... or sell it???
Q. I was with my ex-fiance/girlfriend for nearly 4.5 years. Our relationship was very up and down, and I believe I never could make her happy. In fact, I don't think she's a very happy person at all. When we met, we were friends, her then 4 month...
A. 18 January 2010: Actually the rings were a not a gift, but a symbol of marriage. You bought them for her because you wanted to MARRY her, and that did not happen. You bought them, they are your rings, and based on the conditions of the relationship, they were not a ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong not to have anything to do with him?
Q. Hello, I was wondering if anyone could help me...I am a 38 year old women who just had a set of twins boy and girl by my formal lover...We where never in a committed relationship, so when I got pregnant he wanted a abortion I chose not to..Well he ...
A. 18 January 2010: It wouldn't be wrong for you to have nothing to with him, its his own problem if he can't man up to take care of his babies. What would be wrong to do is to keep the children from him. You don't have to be in a relationship with him, but make sure ... (read in full...)
Which one do you think could be the father? I'm two weeks late.
Q. Ok ive been so naughty and feel so bad but ive slept with 2 different guys this month... The 1st one my ex boyfriend we had unprotected sex but it was only anal sex and he came there.. the 2nd guy i met on new years eve i have slept with twice we...
A. 18 January 2010: Get a pregnancy test first and see what it says, then tell us what the results were. Its not impossible for you to be pregnant, but if you don't know for sure, then you are worrying for nothing. Worry can actually delay your period so see if thats ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy Smyptons
Q. I need some advice. I read many posts on this site and I value the advice u give people. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex just after my last months period but not durin my ovulation period. I was just wonderin how soon can u experience ...
A. 18 January 2010: Well, women that become pregnant can get morning sickness, along with other pregnancy symptoms as early as three weeks of pregnancy! But its honestly too soon to really know if your pregnant because pre-menstrual can be almost identical to ... (read in full...)
I am 16 and expecting twins!
Q. I am going two give birth to twins for the first time and does it hurt...
A. 17 January 2010: I am going to be giving birth shortly to a baby boy... if he EVER decides to comeout! I only have one more week or so before I'm induced lol. But yes I have heard, and am prepared for a world of pain. My friend told me when her sister had her baby, ... (read in full...)
I am close to my dad now, should I tell him or not?
Q. well 3 yrs ago i was sexually abused by my sister's boyfriend, i wasnt very close to my dad back then, so he is the only one out of my family who doesnt know, i dont want to worry him if i tell him, but i dont know wearther it will cause arguments? ...
A. 16 January 2010: Well you should tell him then, especially if you have a good close bond. Keep in mind he will probably be angry, not at you but at the man who hurt you, as any parent would be. He may go through a stage where he is very protective of you, but I ... (read in full...)
I want to self induce, & I don't care if its not scientifically proven
Q. Hello all. My question is simple really. How do you self - induce labor? I am 39 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My doctor told me that if I have not begun labor within a week and half they will have to induce me. I really prefer not to have to ...
A. 16 January 2010: Lol thank you!!! Yes I've heard that you aren't supposed to have sex after you lose your mucus plug, and you aren't supposed to take baths either, though showers are okay. But I haven't lost my mucus plug yet. I was up all night walking around the ... (read in full...)
I want to self induce, & I don't care if its not scientifically proven
Q. Hello all. My question is simple really. How do you self - induce labor? I am 39 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My doctor told me that if I have not begun labor within a week and half they will have to induce me. I really prefer not to have to ...
A. 16 January 2010: Yeah I know pizza sounded weird to me too but I heard that eating things with a lot of basil and oregeno, and some people swore by eating pizza!!! So I had to try... lol. I figured if it didn't work at least it would taste good. (and it did)... (read in full...)
Pregnant to another man...
Q. I'm a married woman, and have been married for 8 years. I love me husband and see him as the man I will get old with. He's my best friend. My future is with him as emotionally we just 'click'. Sexually we are very compatible too. He satisfies ...
A. 16 January 2010: Well since everyone else decided to tell you their opinions of your relationships, I really think I should tell you my honest opinion too. You asked people not to judge you, but how can you expect people to help you lie to your husband? You don't ... (read in full...)
A general enquiry about sex and pregnancy and timing
Q. Lets say you have unprotected sex two weeks before your period is due to start. If you were to get pregnant would you still have your period that month...like two weeks after you have sex?...
A. 16 January 2010: I'm no doctor, but you most likely would not have your period, although you could have "spotting" or what would seem to be your period, but it is not actually your period. My best advice is, one day after your period is due to start, take a ... (read in full...)
Pregnant without having sex?
Q. dear cupid, my period is one day late. I am a virgin and I wonder if there is any possibility of me getting pregnant without having sex. if not, what is happening and what could be the causes. for the record, I have been menstruating since I was...
A. 16 January 2010: Oh honey, sometimes your period can come late. If you haven't had sex or had seiman introduced around your genitals in anyway there is no way you can become pregnant. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant to another man...
Q. I'm a married woman, and have been married for 8 years. I love me husband and see him as the man I will get old with. He's my best friend. My future is with him as emotionally we just 'click'. Sexually we are very compatible too. He satisfies ...
A. 16 January 2010: I'm not going to answer your question, purely because you said not to judge the relationship. But I have to tell you, you cannot include your lover in the child's life without your husband knowing. Its not fair the child to grow up living a lie, and ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my teacher, who always looks depressed and sad
Q. Ok I have this crush on my teacher and was wondering how a good way to start a relationship I love her and can't stop thinking of her her name is mrs relinski she is so awesome and pretty I know she dosent have a boy friend and when she comes to ...
A. 16 January 2010: Like said honey, its ILLEGAL. Give it like 5 more years, if you are 14, she can't be with you, even if your feelings are true. She will lose her job and go to jail if she DOES start a relationship with you, you are a student, and she is a teacher. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a pimple on his penis, is this normal?
Q. i kno this is goin to sound weird and all and i just want to make sure that we are both ok and safe. my bf has a pimple on his you know what... and i looked at it. it def. looks like a pimple and nothing else. Is that normal?...
A. 16 January 2010: I would say to have him get checked out just incase... I've heard that its normal and that sometimes guys can get zits on their genitals but I've never seen it myself lol.... (read in full...)
I am acting like a jerk because I want her to break up with me
Q. I think I need serious help. I haven't been happy one day in the past 3-4 months after I left my ex. I'm starting to get worried, i'm constantly thinking about her, and I'm always missing her. I'm with a girl I dont even like, I have lately stopped ...
A. 15 January 2010: As far as your ex goes, I think that counseling or therapy could really benefit you and eventually help you to move on. You don't deserve to abused or mistreated that way, and no one deserves to be in a relationship where there is constand arguing. ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my teacher, who always looks depressed and sad
Q. Ok I have this crush on my teacher and was wondering how a good way to start a relationship I love her and can't stop thinking of her her name is mrs relinski she is so awesome and pretty I know she dosent have a boy friend and when she comes to ...
A. 15 January 2010: Okay I'm really sorry to burst your bubble, but there is such thing as laws, and you ARE a minor. She honestly couldn't date you even if she wanted to. I know she appears to be upset when she comes into class, but think about how much more upset she ... (read in full...)
I want a baby, I don't want a baby..
Q. Ok, I am 18 and in my second semester as a college freshman.My boyfriend and I just got engaged and we really want a baby. we don't live together but he said If we had a baby we would just figure it out. I plan on finishing college after I have the ...
A. 14 January 2010: I agree with the last post. Its wonderful that you want to have a baby, but honestly you are still young, enjoy it a bit longer. You should wait until you both have finnished college and have stable jobs. You should get a place together, whether ... (read in full...)
How can I help her get over the loss of her baby?
Q. I am currently engaged to the love of my love who is 19 years old, she her self has been through some very difficult times included losing her father, a drug addiction and she also suffers from bipolar, we have been together for all most 2 years and ...
A. 14 January 2010: I'm glad she has someone like you to help her with everything she's been through. As to how you can help her... I think what she really may need is maybe some therapy where she can just talk about what she went through. Its a very hard subject to ... (read in full...)
What are vaginas supposed to smell like at 14?
Q. hey guys. im 14 years old and ive had a sertain problem for a while now. but ive never had the corrage to tell any one about it.. but thats not what i need to know. im not sure if its normall but ive had a very strong fishy sent coming from m...
A. 10 January 2010: When you bathe, do you make sure that you really clean yourself? Sometimes just showering doesn't really clean your private area well enough. If you are having trouble try bathing yourself in a tub. Or it could be that you do need to see a doctor to ... (read in full...)
I like Chris but I slept with his brother who now says he loves me
Q. OK well I started the basic training for my job (Navy) about a year ago, this lasts 3 months and we are told from the start that it is the most intense 3 months you will ever have to work. What happens is you are given a date that you will be ...
A. 10 January 2010: Oh well... thats a different ball game now! You definitly should have included that. So you are in a relationship with him... well you got yourself into a bind. Do you want to be with Jaden? If you don't then you you need to tell him. You have to be ... (read in full...)
I like Chris but I slept with his brother who now says he loves me
Q. OK well I started the basic training for my job (Navy) about a year ago, this lasts 3 months and we are told from the start that it is the most intense 3 months you will ever have to work. What happens is you are given a date that you will be ...
A. 10 January 2010: Yeah, you probably should have known when "Jaiden" mentioned a hotel that something would happen, even if it didn't include sex. But you probably should have told him before hand that you liked him only as friend. Now you are going ot have to ... (read in full...)
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