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writes:Ok I have this crush on my teacher and was wondering how a good way to start a relationship I love her and can't stop thinking of her her name is mrs relinski she is so awesome and pretty I know she dosent have a boy friend and when she comes to class she looks angry and depressed and I feel horible when I see that so cananyone help me try to get close to her
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): believe me dude. i was 14 once upon a time. youre confused. crushes are normal but you probably dont even know what love is. give it some time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): do you not understand what the aunts have writtne here? its AGAINST the law for a teacher to have any kind of r/ship with a studentshe will GO TO JAIL, try to move on and forget her,you will get over it
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (16 January 2010):
 Like said honey, its ILLEGAL. Give it like 5 more years, if you are 14, she can't be with you, even if your feelings are true. She will lose her job and go to jail if she DOES start a relationship with you, you are a student, and she is a teacher. Student/Teacher relationships are illegal even when you are not a minor. Wait awhile. You don't even know if she feels the same, and at this point you really shouldnt push anything for the fact that this isn't a realistic relationship right now. Good luck.
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reader, D_is_online +, writes (16 January 2010):
D_is_online is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI said this wrong she has no boyfreind or husband when I look at her she smiles at me all I can do is daydream and I DO love her I know my feelings
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): just be nice to her and do your homework. youre not in love with her. you are confused. she is too old for you. you have no idea how much complications are associated with that huge age difference. wait at least ten years.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 January 2010):
You're too young, so anything would be illegal I'm afraid. And she is a 'Mrs', which means she's married. This is a crush, and you will get over her. Nothing can happen at all, since it is illegal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): you are a child-- she is an adult. It is normal to develop a crush on an attractive woman you see everyday, but you can not have a relationship with this teacher. I am a teacher. I also teach 14 yr olds. I have several boys who develop crushes on me and do not try to hide it-- but I can honestly say that if this woman is a stable mature adult-- the feelings are not mutual. It would be very abnormal for an adult woman to find a 14 yr.old boy sexually attractive-- it is not normal so you need to get it out of your mind. Just do yourself and this teacher a favor and try to ignore these feelings-- they will pass after you are no longer around her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): I also had a crush on a teacher at yr age and I know how u feel,lots of ppl have crushes on their teacher and its mormal! its OK.
Yes she might be pretty and nice and she may have personal problems which is why she depressed. but..its against the law for yr teacher to have a r/ship with a student, she will get into lots of trouble and possibly go to jail. Yu dont want that do you? she will lose her job and never be able to teach again, yes, you can crush on her and say hi to her and talk to her and ber nice & yes admire her from a distance but u CANT be her friend or her date, its a no go zone! in time u will get over this crush, trust me u will, been there! try to focus on other things, school, sport, hobbies, friends whatever... and maybe talk more to girls yr own age, u may make new friends or even a date. Its no good she is depressed but she an adult and its up to her to try to deal with them.
Please dont go there with her - it will lead to lots of trouble for u and her, surely u dont want her to get into any trouble with the law or with the school?
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): how old is she? how old are you? you said mrs., is she married?
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (15 January 2010):
Okay I'm really sorry to burst your bubble, but there is such thing as laws, and you ARE a minor. She honestly couldn't date you even if she wanted to. I know she appears to be upset when she comes into class, but think about how much more upset she would be if she lost her job and went to jail. Give it at least 5 more years and if you still have feelings for her and she is still single, then try forming a relationship. But right now it just can't happen. You also may want to talk to a counselor about your situation, it could help you to move on. I hope that helps even though its not the answer you wanted. Best wishes to you.
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reader, D_is_online +, writes (15 January 2010):
D_is_online is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy the way this teacher is 28 im 14
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