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I have an avid interest in the way we think and communicate, specifically within relationships. I have a good sense of myself and have no trouble sharing it with others. I yearn to understand as much as possible by listening and through logic.
I work as an administrative assistant and enjoy all the different tasks that come with my job.
I am a people person and love to socialize.
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How do I tell him he's messing up? He only sees it in his point of view no matter how I explain it
Q. My guy never admits he's wrong in fights. Even though my feelings are really hurt and I am crying and everything, he acts like he didn't do anything wrong. In reality, he did, and he only sees it in his point of view no matter how I explain it to ...
A. 20 May 2011: My boyfriend is the exact same way and trust me he won't change. I've learned to become accustomed to it. The only way I can usually get through to him is by not letting his actions/behaviors bother me so much and approach it in a very ... (read in full...)
He's ripped me off and left me. What do I do now?
Q. My ex and I were together for four years, we met through a mutual friend. Our relationship felt perfect. We were engaged for the last two years (he proposed) and early this summer booked our wedding; we'd been living together for a year and before ...
A. 9 December 2009: I'm sorry to hear of your troubles darling. At this point and time there isn't much you can do.. you need to grieve, you will go through the process of analyzing it until it feels like your brain is bleeding. You will hate him, you will hate ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to have sex with other girls!
Q. Recently my boyfriend told me that he wants to experience having sex with other girls..quick info about us we've been dating for about 6 years now I was 15 he was 16 now (20 and 21) and we were each others first. I knew it would happen but didn't ...
A. 4 December 2009: You are better off without him if he doesn't even consider your feelings darling....if he was really committed to you it wouldn't be so important for him to have to "spread his wings" You are letting his actions create self-doubt about yourself. ... (read in full...)
Why we shouldn't cheat
Q. Since Tiger Woods has now admitted to cheating it seems like everybody is doing it. So why not cheat? There are a lot of other respectable politicians and entertainment personalities who have done it and some even get caught doing it as well. So ...
A. 4 December 2009: You can get over it. Yeah it sucks but you know what, we all make mistakes. I agree that it is unacceptable and that the excuses do not outweigh the pain the action causes. Once doubt is placed in your mind-you can feed it or look at it ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him pay more attention?
Q. What can I do to make him pay more attention? I've been in a relationship thats coming upto 3 years!! My bf's completely changed, doesn't make an effort with me, doesn't make time for me but when I suggest we should break up he can't say no, bu...
A. 4 December 2009: You can't make him do anything-if he wants to he will if he doesn't he won't. Leave, if he really cares he will want you back and be willing to change. Cheers!... (read in full...)
Am I related to my boyfriend in anyway if his uncle married my half-sister?
Q. am i related to my boyfriend in any way if his uncle married my half sister?...
A. 4 December 2009: Well his uncle would be considered your brother in law but that doesn't make you blood related in any way so I can't see it being an issue. take care!... (read in full...)
I think she's losing interest and just used me
Q. I think my girlfriend is losing interest in me. We've been together for 7 months, at first we were really close. She knows everything about me, she used to send me sweet texts before I went to sleep every night. She's amazing, I love her more than ...
A. 3 December 2009: You can't make her stay. You have to realize that if she doesn't want to continue in the relationship you are better of knowing that and moving on than questioning it all the time and being miserable. Yes, if that is what she wants, it will ... (read in full...)
Are relationships just about love or is there more to it?
Q. My ex and I broke up about six months ago, but all the feelings are still there. Lately he and I have been talking about getting back together, but I told him I wanted to wait to meet up in person and see where things stand (I'm at school 800 miles ...
A. 3 December 2009: Love is a powerful thing and it sometimes makes us forget our better judgment. Love is not the only thing you need in a relationship, you need trust-jealousy is not trustworthy. You need support, encouragement, respect-we all need these things ... (read in full...)
Is flirting considered cheating?
Q. If your in a relationship, and you flirt with someone else would you consider that to be cheating? I haven't done this, i'm just curious to what people think......
A. 3 December 2009: That would depend greatly on what you consider to be flirting and what you consider being friendly-this is fine line your talking about. I think that being friendly/flirty is not considered cheating but my idea of friendly may be completely ... (read in full...)
How to get thru to my depressed boyfriend?
Q. Hi, I have only been with my man for 2 months. It was all going great - I had met all his family he said he liked me unlike any other girl he had been with. but then a week and a half ago he told me he felt weird and needed some time to think. S...
A. 3 December 2009: If his dad just passed away it is best to show your support but stop worrying about the fact that you haven't seen or heard from him much. It may be that he prefers to grieve about it with family members or really close friends. Since you haven't ... (read in full...)
Is he holding out for some reason I don't know about?
Q. Alright.. let's start with the beginning. I met this wonderful guy through my ex, (don't worry me and the ex are friends, and my ex TOLD me to get to know him and date him, etc.) We're all kind of cool.. So we would talk on the phone everyday t...
A. 3 December 2009: This guy is keeping you on a string and he knows it's not really fair because he isn't completely sure of you yet...likely because of the clingy stuff you did at first. There is no doubt he likes you but he is trying to figure out if you are going ... (read in full...)
I daydream constantly about kissing my guitar teacher
Q. I have been dreaming of playing the guitar ever since i was 6. I didn't actually get a guitar until i was 14. I am now 16 and have started taking guitar lessons 2 months ago. During that time i have for some reason started to have a crush on ...
A. 3 December 2009: Sometimes we are attracted to people and we can't figure out why. One reason actually can be the way another person smells. Believe it or not our bodies give off undetectable scents that trigger attraction from the opposite sex. It is not unusual ... (read in full...)
How do I emotionally detach myself from an unloving husband?
Q. How do i emotionally detach myself from an unloving husband? when i say unlove it means he is never mentally or emotionally attached to me... i have tried to please him in all way but he prefers to be left alone most of the times. the only way i r...
A. 3 December 2009: It is true you would be better off to find someone who was at the same emotional level that you are. You are dependent on him. That way and he has complete control which is exactly how he likes it. You cannot force yourself to stop loving someone ... (read in full...)
I want to spice up my love life
Q. ok we have been married for 12 yrs. while sex with my wife is great, i want to take it a bit further. i no stuff like couple swaps and 3 somes would be fantastic in my eyes, i also no that they can do more damage than good. so i spose i am looki...
A. 3 December 2009: I think you two should discuss it together. Only the two of you can decide what you are comfortable with and what is out of your comfort zone. There are lots of ways to increase intimacy that aren't necessarily physically based. Just sending an ... (read in full...)
Should I go with my husband to view his dead friend?
Q. My hubby's friend died and his viewing is tonight. He hasn't asked me directly to go with him, but when I ask him if he wants me to go, he says "I dont care, you can go if you want. What should I do?...
A. 3 December 2009: I agree with everything that has been said, you should be there to support him whether he is outright asking you to be or not I'm sure it will be appreciated. If he didn't want you to go he would have made it clear I'm sure. Best of Luck ... (read in full...)
He says he won't contact me again. Is this normal?
Q. Hi i have a question. I met this man we started dating for 7 days everything was good then suddenly i was at work he tried to call me i could not answer, He sent me an e-mail saying he tried to talk to me but i refused so he will not contact me a...
A. 1 December 2009: You don't need someone like this in your life. It sounds like he expects you to forget the life you have going on around you and that you should always put him first. That isn't fair to you at all. I would suggest just being friends with this guy ... (read in full...)
He says he wants to marry me and then I don't hear from him!
Q. A guy I have been seeing on and off for several months told me that he loves me and wants to marry me. He didn't sound like he was expecting to hear it back but, I wanted to repeat it however, I didn't because I'm not at I love you yet and I assumed ...
A. 1 December 2009: I personally believe actions speak louder than words. Sounds like this guy knows all the right words to say and then doesn't back them up with any action. I feel he is feeding you the line...because he thinks that you want to hear it...if he isn't ... (read in full...)
Is it silly to be upset that my husband of 27 years puts his brother as next of kin on his passport?
Q. Recently my hubby got his renewed passport and when I went with him to get his travellers cheques I picked up his passport [while we were waiting for his stuff] and noticed that on the page that asks for next of kin that he had filled in his ...
A. 1 December 2009: I agree with both the other post but also I can see where you may be concerned. Just talk to him about it. The only way to figuring out his reasoning is by him telling you. You can speculate all you want about why but he is the only one with the ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend or booty call?
Q. Hi , I am just out of a long relationship. i am doing my masters and became close to one of my classmates. He jokes light heartedly about me and is always ready to help me. But hes not very good at talking about emotions and feelings and hen...
A. 1 December 2009: If he wanted you as his girlfriend than he would be taking you out on dates. The fact that he mentioned not ruining the friendship means that is all he is looking for. If you aren't interested in being that than tell him you are worried about the ... (read in full...)
Jealous of co-worker? Or paranoid?
Q. me n my boyfriend have been datin now for about two years n a half. he works on the road all the time so hes always away from home. he has different people on every new contract, so he meets a lot of people. most of them r men. once in a while he ...
A. 26 November 2009: It could be that there is nothing to be concerned about and accusing him would likely just cause and upset. It is another thing though if he is devoting more time to this friendship than he is to your relationship and I think you should speak to ... (read in full...)
My X boyfriend
Q. ok... So I've known this guy since we were in 6th grade. We were best friends and dated in 7th grade, broke up and still remained best friends.. We dated our junior year in high school and he broke my heart and i never talked to him again. After my ...
A. 26 November 2009: Honey, if he fooled you once, shame on him, fooled you twice-shame on you. After a certain age people really don't change that much so if he broke your heart the first time around by making you believe he cared and then ditching you for someone ... (read in full...)
First he likes me then he doesn't.
Q. ok so i was on facebook looking through my friends photo album when i seen a guy i was attracted to, now i dont usually do this but my friend convinced me to randomly add him so i did. after he private msged me asking if i knew him and that he ...
A. 26 November 2009: Sounds like he has some unfinished business with his last relationship and likely thought you were a little to good to be true. He may have insecurity issues about women if he has been hurt in the past. He may even have a sister or friend who ... (read in full...)
What to do? things are constantly changing
Q. My fiancee decided to end things 10 days ago, the reason being that there was a disconnnect, something missing, and that she couldn't go forward with a wedding. We never fought about anything important. She explained that she had to end things, ...
A. 26 November 2009: I am sorry to hear of the difficulties you are facing. I think allowing this space for her to sort out what she wants in life is the best thing you can do as someone who loves her and as a friend. Perhaps she hasn't shared all of her concerns ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my bestfriend her boyfriend is cheating on her?
Q. hey! i have this best friend of mine at school and she has a boyfriend whom she's been with for 4 years or so... he's also at the same school. her boyfriend comes to the same tuition place at me [we go there for extra classes] and there he flirts ...
A. 26 November 2009: You should tell her. She is your friend and even if she decides to believe the lies he tells to cover his tracks at least you will know you did right by your friend. If he admits and she's decides to forgive him that is her business, or if she ... (read in full...)
My need to phone him is ruining my life!
Q. Dear cupid: I have a serious problem and I need help. I don't even know how to describe it so I will describe some incidents that have happenned. One Saturday night I called my bf. He answered and said he is doing something or he is takin...
A. 26 November 2009: Hey darling, you need to take a deep breath and ask yourself if all the worry you put yourself through is worth it? It makes you feel miserable and it makes your bf feel annoyed so I would say that what you are doing is not in your best interest. ... (read in full...)
Clingy friend who wants to be more is driving me insane!
Q. I have a friend who has been in love with me for the last 3 years. I have tried to be sensitive towards his feelings but it is getting to the point where I can't handle being the reason for his happiness or misery any longer. I have continually ...
A. 25 November 2009: Thank you for the advice everyone~ this is so hard...I have already expressed my feelings and how I feel he is being unfair expecting more from me than I am willing to give yet he still keeps hanging on to his hope and I can see it when he looks at ... (read in full...)
What is this unknown spot on my genital area?
Q. Hey guys. I have this problem. Recently I found a spot on my gential area. This was say a week ago. Earlier today I found another. The one I found seems to be sore whilst the other isn't. I have never had sex and haven't engaged in any sexual...
A. 23 July 2009: It could just be a form of Acne or something similar. If it persist to cause you problems It would be best to seek medical attention. Best of Luck... (read in full...)
I have been in a gay relationship for 4 years, but I've found out that he's been looking at heterosexual porn!
Q. I'm 25, been in a gay relationship with my partner of 4 years, he's 28. We have good jobs and live together in our city flat. In most respects, our life is good, no issues there, apart from our sex life. My partner does not seem to want se...
A. 23 July 2009: If he won't even discuss it with you that gives me the impression that he is struggling with some mixed feelings and likely doesn't no where to start. I would suggest approaching it again and ask if he would be willing to help you understand his ... (read in full...)
My best friend claims my boyfriend tried it on with her but my boyfriend says she's lying. Who do I believe?
Q. Okay, heres the thing, My old best friend claimed that my boyfriend tried it on with her, she had been a really pants friend and been getting around a hell of a lot! i didnt know what to do, he denied it but said he might have said things to her o...
A. 20 July 2009: If she has no reason to be jealous or upset you then I would trust her. Why else would she want to cause trouble unless she is just looking out for your best interest. Perhaps she did misinterpret something he said or did but all the same it seems ... (read in full...)
Tricks for flirting?
Q. Now im a confident person around guys and talking to guys is easy. But i feel like i need some new tricks to when a new guy over.Also trying to get over my ex and i think getting some tricks on flirting can relly help me get over him =] so does a...
A. 16 July 2009: The biggest trick is to realize for yourself that you are a creature unlike any other~! When you know this it is evident to all those who encounter you. You are already on the right track by being confident within yourself. The best way to flirt ... (read in full...)
I really want to make things work but he wont make any effort!
Q. ive been in a relationship for over 4yrs. with my boyfriend and we have one kid together. we dont live together and i feel like he has no responsibilities to me or my daughter. i go to school and work yet he can't even go back for his GED or find a ...
A. 16 July 2009: You have stepped into your life as an adult and are ready to take on the responsibilities that go with that. He has yet to do so and may very well never do so. Your best bet is to concentrate on what is best for you and your child. You can't ... (read in full...)
Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?
Q. Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...
A. 16 July 2009: Men and women both need physical and emotional intimacy but women are especially sensitive to the emotional side and men the physical. We are different. If you make her feel special outside of the bedroom by paying attention to her feelings and ... (read in full...)
Could it be pregnancy this time?
Q. I have white speckles on the tips of my nipples and theyre realy sore, my whole breasts are very tender and full. Could this be pregnancy? Im also suffering alot of nausea and skipped my period. But last month my period was three weeks late too, ...
A. 10 July 2009: If this is brand new feeling for you-the breast tenderness than it could very well be a sign that you are pregnant or it may just be your bodies way responding to some hormonal fluctuation-as you said your cycle hasn't been regular lately. I would ... (read in full...)
Could it be pregnancy this time?
Q. I have white speckles on the tips of my nipples and theyre realy sore, my whole breasts are very tender and full. Could this be pregnancy? Im also suffering alot of nausea and skipped my period. But last month my period was three weeks late too, ...
A. 10 July 2009: Best bet is to take a test and find out for certain. My breast swell and become tender right before I'm due to have my period but they were also the first sign I was pregnant when I had conceived as I didn't have the premenstrual symptom until ... (read in full...)
My fiance is spending too much time with my ex? Is it just friendship?
Q. My fiancé has been spending way too much time with my ex-boyfriend for the past few weeks. About a month ago, me and my fiancé were out at a shopping mall when I saw my ex, me and him had a friendly conversation, and I introduced my fiancé to him...
A. 10 July 2009: Perhaps you should talk to your ex about it. Maybe he can shed some light on the details of their friendship. If he says the same thing as your boyfriend than there isn't much you can do there after except tell your boyfriend you are feeling ... (read in full...)
6 years ago he touched me inappropriately and now he wants to be friends!
Q. when i was 7 i was sexualy touched during a game of truth or dare. The rules were was if u don't do the dare u had to take a pice of cloths of and i had gottin down to my underwear and shirt and when i did not do another dare i did not want to take ...
A. 10 July 2009: You don't need people who used you in the past in your life. Chances are they will just do so again in one form another. If he didn't respect you then and has never admitted that he now understands that what he did was wrong and how it hurt you ... (read in full...)
Does he see me as more than a friends with benefits?
Q. Okay, so we all know the story - two bored friends with nothing better to do, so they have sex. No rules, just booty. I was attracted to him before we made this arrangement, but I told myself that I didn't want anything more from this guy. I lied. ...
A. 10 July 2009: If he hasn't pursued you in that manner and is still proclaiming that he isn't interested in a relationship my advise to you would be to keep your emotions out of it until he shows signs of letting his in. Just because you enjoy each others time ... (read in full...)
How can I make him want to see me more?
Q. I have a new friendship and I realy like the guy. I was engage a year back but broke it of after 8years because it couldn't come to a point. This new guy was also engage till about 6months back. He havn't had a relationship since yet because he ...
A. 10 July 2009: This may not make sense right now but trust me it will work. Be unavailable. Next time he wants to see you be sure to have plans already and tell him you would like to but you already had plans for that time. Guys like to chase girls and when ... (read in full...)
Stupidly didn't use protection and now am afraid
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend on the 26th of june and id just finished my period on the 25th of june stupidly we didnt use protection but he said he didnt come in me and that he withdrew , however i feel really worried and im scared that i could be ...
A. 10 July 2009: Take a deep breath and relax. Chances are you are not pregnant. There is no way of knowing for sure though unless you do a test. There are some out there that will tell you a week before your expected period. Worrying about it can cause stress and ... (read in full...)
What happens when a girl hasn't had sex in awhile?
Q. Hi. Just wanna know, what happens to a girl's vagina if she hasn't been having sex for a while? About seven months......
A. 10 July 2009: Not too much would change I wouldn't expect. You may find that things are a rather tight fit at first but the vagina has the ability to adapt and soon enough it would feel the same as it always did. I would just suggest taking your time the first ... (read in full...)
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