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writes:ok we have been married for 12 yrs. while sex with my wife is great, i want to take it a bit further. i no stuff like couple swaps and 3 somes would be fantastic in my eyes, i also no that they can do more damage than good. so i spose i am looking for ideas and suggestions from everyone out there that could liven or spice things up. maybe your experiences or even fantasties.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Lovely Sweet Laura  +, writes (3 December 2009):
 I think you two should discuss it together. Only the two of you can decide what you are comfortable with and what is out of your comfort zone. There are lots of ways to increase intimacy that aren't necessarily physically based. Just sending an intimate message to one another during the day can make things more heated by the time you unite. You need to find out what her current feelings are about it and what needs she may be wanting filled too. Once you have shown that her needs are just as important as yours she will likely be a more willing participant in getting you where you want to be. Best of Luck, have fun!
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