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Glamour modeling advice?
Q. hello Does anyone on here no anything about glamour modeling - this is my dream and I want to make it does anyone no any quick ways to tone up - mainly my stomach and bum and thighs. Also does anyone no what size you have to be to be a glamour ...
A. 18 March 2010: I wouldn't worry too much now as you are too young and to put it bluntly glamour modelling is aimed at titillating men - and a 13 - 15 will only titillate a peadophile. Why not just do some cardio to keep healthy, some small weights, focus on ... (read in full...)
Is sleeping on the same couch with him wrong?
Q. is sleeping on the same couch as your boyfriend wrong if you have been going out for a number of months and nothing will happen? ...
A. 28 January 2010: I don't think so. When I was 14 I was allowed to stay at my boyfriends when there were other friends present - we all stayed in the lounge and him and I slept on the same sofa together. Depends what parents say i guess, if we weren't allowed I ... (read in full...)
I'm going on holiday in July and I'm so nervous about being on my period...
Q. I'm going on holiday in July and I'm so nervous about being on my period. What do you girls suggest? I know I can go on the contraceptive pill, but I've never been on it before and my friend told me she bled constantly for 2 months... I d...
A. 24 January 2010: You can take a different version of the pill designed for short use. I'm on the normal pill now but when I was a teenager on family hols I took these ones. Make an appointment with your doctor and if your mum might be funny about it being a ... (read in full...)
Not crazy....just really want him back! Any advice would be great
Q. Me and my ex were together for three and a half years. I love him more than anything in the world and would do anything to get him back. Our relationship was not perfect especially in the last month or two but we were really happy before that. ...
A. 19 January 2010: Your situation is VERY similar to mine. we split up four months ago, i would stop sleeping with your ex for a start. Although i slipped up and kissed my ex (he cheated on me then started going out with that girl) i refused to sleep with him. Like ... (read in full...)
Nothing is going right for me, no education, job or girl
Q. hello everyone to be honest i don't know where to begin because i have so many problems i dont know where to start i have no education because i left school at 16 i have no job and everyone i apply to they reject me. i still don't know wh...
A. 17 January 2010: the open uni let you do courses for free and often give you a grant, I did one a couple of years ago which should have cost £900 but because i was on a low income it was free and they gave me a grant of £250 to complete it. You don't say if you ... (read in full...)
He messed with my head telling me he wanted to get back together when he didn't, did I do the right thing telling him to f*** off?
Q. After a month of NC with my ex boyfriend, he text me telling me he misses me, that he loves me and he would do anything to get me back. I didn't reply, but on Friday after thinking about it for a long time sent him a text telling him I loved him ...
A. 17 January 2010: well done you, totally the right thing to do. x... (read in full...)
I want to give my new boyfriend head...
Q. so i want to give my new boyfriend head. we`ve been together 3 months and we have started to get sexual. ive done it before to my ex and the ex before that and they always said it was really good. but the problem is... they were both ...
A. 17 January 2010: just do what feels natural, gauge from his reactions. I am sure he will just be grateful you are making the effort to please him. Ignore that first comment; they may have a point somewhere in what they've said but they have no right to insult you ... (read in full...)
Embarrassing wind problems...
Q. this is not a relationship question, but i wondered if anyone would be able to help. usually my diet is very very poor, i work in mcdonalds, and on a typical work day but diet would be... cereal or toast for breakfast, say a big mac meal plus a ...
A. 13 January 2010: yeah definitely change of diet, certain things can cause wind more than others, like onions for instance. the stuff you used to eat is all quite stodgy and likely to lead to constipation and now you've introduced much more fibre etc your gut is ... (read in full...)
Am I repulsive?
Q. dear agony aunts, well i guess im kind of embarrassed to ask this but here i go. im not fat, as in, reallllly big, im about a size 14. i have small boobs and a bigger belly, and i know they say that the guy you love (and who loves you) will ...
A. 13 January 2010: You've said you are plump with small boobs. Not only do some guys LOVE small boobs and something to hold weight wise (my boobs are massive and trust me, it's not what its cracked up to be) you haven't said any of your positive features, which I'm ... (read in full...)
If virginity is so important, why is it that you are supposed to get over someone's past?
Q. Dear cupid, Why should I not expect a virgin as I save my virginity for the right person ? and Why should I get over her past when the girl is not a virgin ? I see there's double-standard on this, People say it's good to keep virginity beca...
A. 13 January 2010: I think you shouldn't focus on other people's sexual past so much. I was a virgin until I was nearly 19, purely because all my boyfriends up until then had been complete di*ks and I didn't want to sleep with them. When I met the guy I lost my ... (read in full...)
Brother and sister playing footsie..too close?
Q. I had a concern and maybe it is not. We were watching a movie yesterday and my fiance was sitting with his sister on the coach. It just was alittle wierd for me they were all bunched up together and were playing footsies but it looked weird and I ...
A. 11 January 2010: Are you an only child? Just a thought because I am and I would find it weird but then i have no idea what's 'normal' between siblings.... (read in full...)
Am I being a selfish teenager, or is it my sick mother who needs to change?
Q. Hello. I'm looking for some objective advice. I am in my third year at university and I was living at home with my mum and sister. I had a boyfriend who used to stay over a lot but my mum didn't really like it, partly because he was unemployed. ...
A. 9 January 2010: I am guessing this is a joke, as there's no way someone of 22 would be so ungrateful and worse have no shame in publicly admitting it?! If it isn't a joke, my advise is get some perspective. i'm in a similar position, I used to live with my ... (read in full...)
Am I being manipulated or is he truly sorry?
Q. My boyfriend and I were in an on again off again relationship for three months, breaking up twice during the relationship until this third time when I ended it for good. The first time we broke up because he was talking about getting back together ...
A. 26 December 2009: possibly, but I seriously would make him jump through hoops before letting him back into your life. DON'T sleep with him for at least a few months, that'll test him. If he's serious, he will be grateful you are giving him the chance. Don't rule ... (read in full...)
Am I being manipulated or is he truly sorry?
Q. My boyfriend and I were in an on again off again relationship for three months, breaking up twice during the relationship until this third time when I ended it for good. The first time we broke up because he was talking about getting back together ...
A. 22 December 2009: move on, seriously. Your situation sounds really similar to mine however I'm the ex fiancee after four years. My ex is trying to do wht your boyfriend is - getting what he wants from both sources. He'll take as much as you'll let him. My ex ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my mom is pregnant...
Q. Ugh, I think my mom's pregnant. I'm 16 and an only child, my parents are married and I love how my life is. I don't want anything to change and i'm in shock.. I feel like crying... My mom is 38 and she got pregnant last year, too, but had an ...
A. 16 December 2009: I'm an only child and once when I was a teenager I thought my mum and dad might be having a baby - I reacted exactly like you so I totally understand where you are coming from. You know what though, my mum wasn't pregnant afterall and I remained an ... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship!!Advice needed!
Q. Me and my g/f have been together for 4 years we lived together and traveled together but then we spent a yr apart from each other occasionally seeing each other every month etc. We decided to move in together which she said she was a bit nervous ...
A. 16 December 2009: I think you have every right to be confused and upset that she didn't come home to you after saying she would. It is more the no contact thing and the lack of telling you she was safe.
I hate to say it but don't rule out cheating complete... (read in full...)
I had never found my wife physically attractive so I left her for a woman I am attracted to
Q. This is something I am really struggling with at the moment and am in desperate need of some advice. A couple of months ago, I announced to my wife of 2 years (been together seven years in total) that I didn't want to be with her anymore. The re...
A. 12 December 2009: I'm glad to hear you are feeling miserable, not in a cruel way but it shows you do have loyalty and compassion, things which are VERY important.
You imply it's more of a body issue with the lack of attraction, rather than her dress sense/fa... (read in full...)
Love takes time.
Q. It seems so many people spend their time wanting to find that right person, many of us feel terrible 21st century pressure to be in love and to be loved. What strikes me is how many completely meaningless relationships people are willing to have for...
A. 12 December 2009: I totally agree with you. I'm a similar age (23) and was due to be getting married next year to my ex fiance - we were best friends and had such a laugh together. In the last month he complained of not being bothered to do anything fun with me ... (read in full...)
Why do married men have affairs with less attractive women?
Q. On a Dr. Phil show it was said that 80 percent of married men have affairs with women who are less attractive than their wives, why do married men choose women who are less attractive, my husband had an affair and the women was not what I ever ...
A. 10 December 2009: I agree. My ex fiance cheated on me then started a relationship with someone who is by generic standards ugly. Another thing that shocked me is that she isn't very bright - throughout our relationship he had remarked on how unattractive simple women ... (read in full...)
He's ripped me off and left me. What do I do now?
Q. My ex and I were together for four years, we met through a mutual friend. Our relationship felt perfect. We were engaged for the last two years (he proposed) and early this summer booked our wedding; we'd been living together for a year and before ...
A. 9 December 2009: Thank you Laura that is very kind. ... (read in full...)
Stubborn boyfriend is rethinking relationship because I'm not ready to move in.
Q. Thanks to anyone who reads and replies to this. Ok me and my bf have been going out for about 3 years. Hes just recently asked me if we could move in together after my 1st year of uni. I am not ready for such a commitment like that. Ive just sta...
A. 9 December 2009: Good for you. I was in the same position as you, he was stubborn so I moved in. We have since split up because of the financial pressure on him (I was at uni also), which baffled me completely as like you I was happy to be independent and leave it. ... (read in full...)
How to break hymen before having sex?
Q. I am 16 years old .. still a virgin I want to break my hymen before i have sex .. should I do it and if so how would I go about this ??? Thank you :)...
A. 9 December 2009: horse riding or gymnastics. Doesn't always work though. Alternatively find a nice young man who loves you who won't be put off that it's still in place and will make you feel loved and attractive. You are 16, it's nothing to be ashamed about just a ... (read in full...)
Why do people hate virgins so much?
Q. Why do people hate virgins so much? What did we ever do to be treated the way we are? It just isn't right.I never criticize my friends decision to have sex,so why cant they just respect my choices.It's not as if I'm some kind of saint constantly ...
A. 9 December 2009: There's nothing wrong with it and the less of a deal you make it the less people will poke (excuse the term) fun. I was the last of my friends to lose the old v plates - it was funny because aged 16-17 it was a talking point amongst my friends but ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with being unattractive?
Q. I know this is going to sound shallow, but I can't help it. I'm really feeling sad about my appearance. I LONG to be attractive and have a nice figure, but, let's face it, I'm too fat. I am at the point where I feel depressed all the time aobu...
A. 9 December 2009: Seriously, what guys find attractive varies so much - big/skinny, blonde/brunette, short/leggy etc. The most happy of my friends has just got married and found out she is pregnant, her husband adores her. She is the biggest of all my social circle ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my anger at the girl who slept with my boyfriend?
Q. I don't know how to get over my anger at the girl that slept with my boyfiend. I think because she didn't have to deal with anything and I have lived with the aftermath for so long, my boyfriend has gotten it from me continuosly and suffered ...
A. 9 December 2009: I know exactly what you mean, I've just broken up with my fiance as he cheated on me and is now with her, even though this girl knew full well he was with me. It is very hard to understand how vindictive these people can be, but I doubt she's ... (read in full...)
He's ripped me off and left me. What do I do now?
Q. My ex and I were together for four years, we met through a mutual friend. Our relationship felt perfect. We were engaged for the last two years (he proposed) and early this summer booked our wedding; we'd been living together for a year and before ...
A. 9 December 2009: Thank you that's really helpful. Yep mongrel is a good word for him, amongst others!!... (read in full...)
I feel like I have lost everything and this new girl is getting everything I worked so hard for!
Q. Hi, this isn't really a question of sorts but I just really need some help getting over my ex. Basically we were together for four years, he's a year and a half older than me and we got together just before my 19th birthday. Our relationship was...
A. 21 November 2009: I've just realised how that last message indicates I think he's amazing still, i really don't, he is clever and attractive, but he is also vile, inconsiderate, a liar, a cheat, a coward and alot of other rude things just in case you are wondering if ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have lost everything and this new girl is getting everything I worked so hard for!
Q. Hi, this isn't really a question of sorts but I just really need some help getting over my ex. Basically we were together for four years, he's a year and a half older than me and we got together just before my 19th birthday. Our relationship was...
A. 21 November 2009: Right, i've now registered so you know who I am! I have just written a massive essay and it hasn't appeared so I shall attempt to write it again and fill you in on the intricate details of my tw*t ex! Basically I found out on Thursday by goog... (read in full...)
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