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I'm currently fifteen years old, and one month pregnant with my first child. No advice I seek will make my desicion. This is the hugest desicion I have ever made and I have to do it myself.
Teen girls if your thinking about becoming pregnant, PLEASE read my Article.
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29 August 2009: I promised myself that if I got one wish that I'd spend it on you. I know I couldve done it, I would of struggled but I would of gotten through. It's my fault, I know: that I'll never watch you grow. It's my fault you aren't here but I promise I'll ...
A warning from one teenager to others . . .
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30 July 2009: This is for the teenage girls who purposefully try to get pregnant, because they think they are 'ready' or they think it will be 'cool' to carry a baby around in there arm or have a belly to show off, or it will keep you and your boyfriend together ...
I dedicate this to all the relationships gone wrong.
No replies yet... 16 July 2009: I dedicate this to all the relationships gone wrong. Listen to this song - Thrill is gone - Baby Bash I wish it could be like it use to, use to, use to I wish it could be like it use to, use to, use to Baby after all of that I don't think...
How to come to terms with a break up.
No replies yet... 17 June 2009: I get alot of messages from girls asking me, how to get over a there ex boyfriend. I have had a few share of break ups in my life time, and I'm going to give you a few tips that have really helped me. Remind yourself that everyday it will ge...
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How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore?
Q. How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore? is three that many when your only 16?...
A. 11 August 2010: Why would you want to be considered one? I don't really know a limit but I would say that you are allowed a couple mistakes, and the rest you should be in a relationship with.
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I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!
Q. I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...
A. 5 June 2010: Ulimately, it's your baby. Not anyone elses. Think of this way, you're the mother, and you get to choose the father. Which would be your boyfriend.
I don't understand, what you're going through. But, as long as the baby has love, care & support,... (read in full...)
I need a therapist for a couple of issues but don't think my parents will be okay with it!
Q. Okay, I feel desparate to see a Therapist because I'm going through a rough patch in my life from discovering that I'm gay and being bullied because of my weight and too much to handle but I can't really go about it with my parents they think I will ...
A. 19 May 2010: You can see a guidance counselor at your school, and they won't tell your parents anything that is talked about between the two of you. If you don't have a guidance counselor at your school, you could look in your phone book about teen help lines, ... (read in full...)
My mom is taking me to get a pregnancy test, I'm scared, don't want to raise a baby, please help?
Q. I'm 14 and could be pregnant, i had sex with my ex 3 month ago and have missed every period, my mum has only found this out today, so she is taking me for a preggy test but the thing is im to scared incase i amm. im not sure how to bring a baby up ...
A. 8 September 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-truth-about-my-teenage-pregnancy.html
Here is the link
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My mom is taking me to get a pregnancy test, I'm scared, don't want to raise a baby, please help?
Q. I'm 14 and could be pregnant, i had sex with my ex 3 month ago and have missed every period, my mum has only found this out today, so she is taking me for a preggy test but the thing is im to scared incase i amm. im not sure how to bring a baby up ...
A. 8 September 2009: Hi, I am fifteen and I discovered I was pregnant in July. I encourage you to read my article about My Teenage Pregnancy and the tough desicions I had to make.
This will probably be the hardest desicion you'll ever have to face as a young girl.
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I think I'm becoming gay and it is stressing me out a lot!
Q. Hey everyone, I am a extremely paranoid person. I used to think I was getting cancer and that I had breathing problems. But now it has become a different thing. I think I'm becoming gay. I keep thinking I'm becoming gay and it is stressing me ...
A. 4 September 2009: Maybe you just havent found the right girl.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I want a baby at 13
Q. the thing is i am 13 (14 on october the 26th) and i want a baby so much i cannot explain my feelings i know i am ready i have tryed to put it off by babysitting but that makes my feelings stronger i have looked it up on the internet and told my mum ...
A. 15 August 2009: I'm fifteen & pregnant. Trust me you do not want a baby.
Read my article.... (read in full...)
No sign of a period, but the pregnancy test results have confused me! What do you think?
Q. Okay im 18 years old and when i was 14 i had an abortion and every since then my period hasnt been regular....but the past 6 months ive been keeping up with my cycle and it seems like its regular now cause its every 32 days....but my last period was ...
A. 11 August 2009: How could you take twenty pregnancy tests and they are all postive, but then in the end your not even pregnant.
It really doesn't make sense to me. It's quite possible you are pregnant and you don't even know it. I would suggest going to the doct... (read in full...)
I have been left heartbroken and I can't funtion! What shall I do?
Q. Hey. My boyfriend has recently broke my heart. I started a new job about 6 months ago and there was this guy that worked there that I got on really well with. As the months went by we started gettin really close. Two months after I sta...
A. 11 August 2009: I can't honestly tell you why he did this to you. I'm sure he has all the excuses in the world. Clearly he is a selfish human being and just leave it at that. A guy like that isn't worth your time or your heart. Things change in relationships al... (read in full...)
How do I forget about him?
Q. Ok so here it is..... I've known this guy for like 10 years and it wasnt until 3 years ago that i started to like him. he lives or should i say lived (he just moved) two houses down from me. He was always there to hold me when i needed someone and ...
A. 11 August 2009: I'm sorry about your situation. It's tough, but you have to learn to deal. You made yourself look desperate when you continued to knock on his door, and he didn't answer. Maybe he just wasn't home? Who really knows. The best thing you can do, is l... (read in full...)
I'm taking the pill and not sure if this is normal what has happened?
Q. I've recently started taking the pill. The doctors told me to only start taking it once my next period came and when it did, I started taking the pills. Normally, my periods only last about 5 days so I was expecting the same with this period, if not ...
A. 7 August 2009: Sometimes periods are irregular, and when you first start taking the pill is when they will be the most irregular because your body is getting use to it and it will work itself into a routine.
Don't be worried about the blood, it's quite possible... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me she loved me but I don't know what to say back to her!
Q. well it has been 1 month and a half in the relationship. just the other day she told me that " i love u" on the phone. i did not know what to say back to her, i just was in shock. dont know what to do... help....
A. 6 August 2009: A month and a half? That's a pretty short period of time. Ask her if she meant it - Do you think you love her? I think in young relationships, and as teenagers. We over use the word 'love' We think we know what it feels like, what it means, bu... (read in full...)
Are these symptoms of a possible pregnancy, or am I being paranoid?
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and i'm starting to get a little worried about possibly being pregnant.. I lost my virginity to my bf on the 28th of june.. we had sex three times that day: once protected, once not, and then protected again. He never "finished" inside m...
A. 6 August 2009: have you got your period since you've had sex? whens your next period due? my last period was june 28th and i am now six weeks pregnant.
the only symptoms i got was, feeling very tired and cramping like i was on my period (but i never got it)
a... (read in full...)
A warning from one teenager to others . . .
Q. This is for the teenage girls who purposefully try to get pregnant, because they think they are 'ready' or they think it will be 'cool' to carry a baby around in there arm or have a belly to show off, or it will keep you and your boyfriend together ...
A. 30 July 2009: Thank you ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to put your baby in temp. foster care and then claim it back at a more convenient time?
Q. hi im 15 and i just found out i was pregnant. i know my options, abortion, adoption, or keeping it. i don't want to give my baby up for adoption because i dont think i could handle carrying it for 9 months and then giving it away but if i abort it ...
A. 30 July 2009: When my baby is born I will be sixteen years old. I was hoping that I could put my child in foster care until I was seventeen years old - that way I can finish my Grade nine. I'm suppose to be in Grade ten in the fall but I failed it due to personal ... (read in full...)
Is this controlling behaviour?
Q. Hey guys! Question! My grandmother just passed away and I've been having a really rough time. I'm not sure if I'm just overreacting because I'm going through all of this, or if this is how a normal person would react? Anyway, my boyfriend keeps ...
A. 27 July 2009: I wouldn't say his behavior is controlling, but it's definatley selfish. You just lost your grandmother and you have every right in the world to be sad if you want too and you should be able to talk to him about your grandma. It doesn't sound li... (read in full...)
What do you think this dream means?
Q. What does it mean when someone tells you in a dream they love you?...
A. 27 July 2009: Who is this person that told you they loved you in your dream? You need be more specific. It could be a number things but I am just going to go out on a limb here and assume it's the guy you like? If so, it probably means that you wish and hop... (read in full...)
Pregnant with twins, but my boyfriend doesn't like the names I've picked out!
Q. I am twenty four years old and I discovered about four months ago I was pregnant and then I discovered I was pregnant with twins! I was just estastic and so was my boyfriend of two years. We have had so much fun preparing there rooms and going ...
A. 23 July 2009: Grace is the middle name and so is Dion. ... (read in full...)
My ex hates me and hurts my feelings, but I really want us to be frineds
Q. What should I do I want to be friends with my ex but he calls me a bitch and says just give up i don't want to be friends. He really hates me and he hurts my feelings sometimes but i know deep inside he wants to be friends hes just to afraid to ...
A. 23 July 2009: I understand how you feel but unfortunatly you can't make him be friends with you. It's his desicion.
Give it some time and hopefully he will come through. Did you have a bad break up? He may still be hurt from the break up either way.
It soun... (read in full...)
Is it their fault I have changed my life?
Q. i feel like im loosing my bestfriend because she keeps slying off with my "friend" *sophie* it breaks me everytime i see them together because there always talking and messing around and never let me join in on the fun - i have currently changed ...
A. 23 July 2009: Don't punish yourself because your best friend has become friends with someone else. I know there can be anixety and jealously amongst friendships. Three is a crowd, but let your best friend know how you feel.
Don't let anybody dictate your hap... (read in full...)
Always depressed, lonely, distant...
Q. I feel crap and I have tried talking to some adults about it. Just feel depressed all the time when I'm at home, but when I get to school or wherever then i'm usually really happy. I know you are probably thinking it's hormones, but it got so bad ...
A. 23 July 2009: Do you know the reason why you are feeling depressed? If not then you should try to dig deeper and realize what is making you feel like this. If you already know - then work on it. Work on any problems, broken relationships that you may have with ... (read in full...)
She likes multiple guys, including me
Q. ok ok theres a girl i really like. alot! she said that she likes me too, but im not the only guy she likes. today she broke up with her bf and everyone thought bc of me, but idk. she told her cousin that we were "talkin" but she isnt looking for ...
A. 23 July 2009: I'm not going to preach you about sex in general, but I don't think you should sleep with this girl if she doesn't want to commit to you. Wait until you are in love.
You should be worried if she likes muliple guys and wants to be single. I'm gues... (read in full...)
I'm letting hims play mind games with me
Q. i used to go out wit this guy..i called it quits cuz it just didnt go anywhere.then for a champioship in la we went in the same plane and we had fun and flirted.then when we got in california he told me that i've changed since i got to cali and i ...
A. 23 July 2009: He knows how to push your buttons and he'll keep on pushing them. It doesn't really sound like he's playing mind games with you. It sounds like your playing mind games with yourself. Do you like this guy or not? If you don't like what he's doing,... (read in full...)
My friends feel more like family than my actual family do
Q. Hello. I would assume its an issue. When I'm around my parents I'm quiet, easily annoyed and angered. I have a step-mother, with her I feel like the 3rd party ya know? I get left out with my family. Cleaning,running errands for my parents and what...
A. 21 July 2009: Friends are like family away from home. They often treat you as part of there own. You eat at there houses, shower, and borrow there clothes. That's just what friends do.
I have only developed a few friendships like this in my life time and I do... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps calling me crazy
Q. My boyfriend of almost two years keeps telling me I am acting crazy because when we have problems all I want is to talk to him so we can work things out. He does not pick up the phone when I call. He does not reply back when I instant message him. I ...
A. 20 July 2009: No, you are not crazy. But you seem desperate. Leave him alone and quit chasing him.
Be strong.... (read in full...)
How do I make distance between us?
Q. My boy friend is not nice to me anymore and I think he is ignoring me in way or another , just making himself busy in anything and that annoying me and makes me sad , one time, I asked him what’s wrong , he said nothing and he said if you ask ...
A. 19 July 2009: In healthy relationships, you shouldn't have to play games and make distance.
You should be open and honest with eachother, and it's obvious you can't be. So why are you still with this guy?
If he doesn't respect you anymore, and tries to ign... (read in full...)
Is it ended? Will he ever talk to me again?
Q. Alright so me and my boyfriend of 7 months ended our relationship due to him wanting time and space. We were a very loving and affectionate couple and it was almost too good to be true sometimes. Other times, he would act like someone I didn't know. ...
A. 19 July 2009: Don't wait for the answers. Walk away and don't look back.
Don't let this guy pull on your heart strings. I know what you want to hear, you want us to tell you, just wait he will call you, he still loves you, etc.
And yes, that might be the... (read in full...)
I'm not sure which guy to go with!
Q. Het[: I'm tara, and i went out with this guy [ill call him #12] #12 was very sweet and always making me happy, i always gto into trouble though cause iwould have to sneak out to see him and my parents didnt like him, so i was grounded a lot, but...
A. 19 July 2009: I think you should stick with 13, because of the way, 12 mistreated you. 12 seems really immature and doesn't really know how to care for you properly. If you have a connection with 13, why would you give that up for a guy that treated you like dirt ... (read in full...)
Was it right for me to go out with a guy that my friend liked, even when she had a boyfriend?
Q. Ok so I havae a realy good friend, so close we refer to each other as sisters. Her names,well.."Jennifer". and "Jennifer" and I wouldnt want anything to come between us. Or so I thought. She is in a Really good relationship. They both claim to...
A. 17 July 2009: What do you really know about this guy? I don't think it's right to put him before you and her's friendship.
But, she is not right either. She has a boyfriend, so tell her to back off a little. It's not a crime to talk to him.
Tell her she has ... (read in full...)
Any ideas for a nice romantic visit to the beach?
Q. My boyfriend and I are going to the lake tomorrow by ourselves without any parentals around and i'm very happy about it. Since we'll be at the beach, and a lot of romantic things happen on the beach, I was just wondering, is there anything..special ...
A. 17 July 2009: A nice picnic by the water? with strawberries, chocolate, whipped cream, etc?
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I like this girl who's hung up on her ex
Q. NEED HELP!!!!!!! I've been dating a girl, who is perfect in every way. I know she likes me, but shes stuck on her first boyfriend, who cheated on her. I really like her, and she knows that. I tried asking here if she just wanted to be friend b...
A. 17 July 2009: What do you mean hung up on her ex? Hung up as in can't get over him and still loves him? or hung up as in, she fears of being in another relationship because he cheated on her?
Get back to me, and I'll give you some advice.
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Update: Thanks for all the advice and she said "yes" to my proposal!
Q. I just wanted to update what I wrote in here last week. I don't know how many of you will recognize this, but I'm the guy who wanted to propose to his girlfriend "Harry Potter-style". I took her to the HP Expo in Chicago Tuesday night and right ...
A. 17 July 2009: Congratz my friend!! I didn't post a response to your question previously, but I read it.
Wish you all the best
xxx... (read in full...)
Could I be in love with my best friend?
Q. So i've known this guy (let's call him Sam) for about 3 years now and he's my best friend, i'm closer to him than anyone else. We're like brother and sister. Unfortunately, he's going out with someone who i'm good friends with (let's call her ...
A. 16 July 2009: I use to have the same problems with my best friend. We are very close and most days I would never consider him anything more.
But anytime he got a girlfriend, I would become extremely jealous and upset and my conclusion was, I am secretly... (read in full...)
For the Ladies: What do you mean when you say, "Hey, you're cute!"
Q. Dear Ladies and Girls, Would you please enlighten me, and many other men no doubt, as to what you ACTUALLY mean when you say to a guy the following:- "Hey you're cute". Thanks. ...
A. 16 July 2009: It means, your cute..... (read in full...)
Am I a slut for continuing to have sex with my ex?
Q. My ex and i broke up about 5 months ago. Although we broke up were still having sex. I feel used but i dont really mind it because he is great in bed. Is it slutty of me to think that?...
A. 16 July 2009: Do you think you are being a slut? Nobody can define you as one. If you think you are acting like one - then you probably are, but if you agree with what you are doing, then who's to stop you?
But eventually, you are going to have to ask yourself... (read in full...)
How to make-out with a guy.
Q. SO this is my first article but I have just answered a question which was how do you make out with a guy so I thought I might aswell just post my entire comment and more. Here we go. Just because you feel like your doing bad doesnt mean you s...
A. 16 July 2009: Good advice. I remember how nervous I was when I had my first kiss!! Now it's a piece of cake.
(:... (read in full...)
When does teenage life start to get better?
Q. I'm sure no-ones had a perfect life as a teenager and I've heard it is one of the most difficult times in life, but I'm always getting told that it does eventually get better, but when? Ever since being around 11 or 12 I've just hated life in ...
A. 12 July 2009: Everything DOES get better - it's just a matter of time. Sometimes people have little bumps in the road where they get over in a couple of months, others it takes years.
I'm sorry your having such a rough time, but I too have been there. I've los... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and my 17 year old bf is always mad at me!
Q. hi. i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. we have been together for 11 monthsz now and almost a year. the thing is he always gets mad over little things and always thinks i am lying to him...he doesnt trust me at all. and this one time he got really ma...
A. 10 July 2009: Boys like this will only brainwash you. They will control you and fight with you, and then twist it around to make you seem like the bad guy.
The worst part is - you start believing it. You analyze every situation and think, well maybe if I wouldn... (read in full...)
How do I make him forget about the lovers in my past?
Q. when me and my boyfriend started going out he asked me how many people id had sex with before him and i lied and said it was only 4 when its really 9. (he was a virgin before me) recently he found out the truth and said he still loves me but he ...
A. 10 July 2009: You can't make him forget your past lovers. It might always come back to haunt you. The only thing you can do is say the past is the past, and it made you who you are. Your ex should be thankful for all your failed relationships because it brought ... (read in full...)
How do I do a good hand job or blow job?
Q. Dont make fun of me anyone please!!! But I really need some advice on how to give a good handjob/blowjob. I feel really bad for my boyfriend and me because he goes down on me and hes really good at it, but whenever I try to go down on him he's just ...
A. 9 July 2009: When your giving him a hand job: Squeeze hard and do it really fast. As when most guys jerk off - it is usually not slow and they are very rough with themselves this is how they blow there load.
When you are giving him a blow job, take your ind... (read in full...)
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