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female
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30-35,
love-struckxo
writes:I get alot of messages from girls asking me, how to get over a there ex boyfriend. I have had a few share of break ups in my life time, and I'm going to give you a few tips that have really helped me.Remind yourself that everyday it will get easier and easier.Look into the future, instead of the past.Don't think about what you did wrong - and what you should of done. It's over, and leave it at that. You can't change the fact that you didn't do what you shouldve done.Go out with your friends. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family, that will help you through it.Don't waste your time wishing that he will call you, or drop by and say he wants you back.Be strong and open minded, and brave. People feed off weakness, and your ex will feel good about it - if he knows he pushed the right buttons to set you off.Don't argue about it, don't beg for them to take you back. You only sound desperate. Act like your fine about it - and say, 'Okay' and leave it at that - just walk away.This will have your ex thinking, 'WTF!!'It's OKAY to cry. It's going to hurt no matter what!Don't go searching for a new boyfriend right away. You may think that this will help you get over it, but it really doesn't. You will end up comparing your new boyfriend to your ex, and you won't be satisified when your boyfriend doesn't do the same things your ex use to do!It's okay to wait! It doesn't make you seem lonely. It gives you time to heal yourself, and to be really ready when you get back out there!If your angry, write a letter about all the things you don't like about him, read it over and over. This will help you to NOT go back to him. Don't forget to throw it out later..Remember that everyday you will love him less. Eventually you will stop missing him, and get on with your life. It may take time, it may not. But time heals all wounds and take it as experience for what you shouldn't do in your next relationship.Please don't tell yourself, you will never love again! I don't know how many times I have thought that, but someone new comes into my life and changes that. You WILL love again, I PROMISE!If your going to end it - make sure it's what your REALLY want, so you have no regrets!!Take carexx
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